Counterpoint: How Beyonce Helps Women Claim Their Sexuality
Description: In her music video Dance For You, Beyonce expresses her sexuality in the form of dance and aiding other young women in exploring their own sexuality. She is the definition of a women who is confident in herself and should be considered a role model for young girls.
This is the counterpoint argument on Dance For You by Beyonce with Brannon Rapp.
Turn on any R & B station and you will find that Beyoncé’s “Dance For You” is requested every hour. It is a song of that expresses how thankful Beyoncé is to her man for all he does for her. Young women have taken this song and ran with it. While some people may argue that her video for this song set Beyonces up for sexual objectification, I would argue that the “Dance For You” video is a positive example of how Beyoncé has claimed her own sexuality and how she encourages young women to do the same.
“Dance For You” opens with Beyoncé dancing around a newsroom listing off the different ways in which she is thankful for her man. She explains that she just wants to make him feel as good as he makes her feel in all aspects of her life, not just sexually. She is the woman in power as she is directing the sexual tone that will be set her encounter with this man. According to J Hally’s article “ Imaged-Based Culture”, people’s perception of musical songs is changed after they view a video. In Beyoncé’s case, the lyrics provide that this song is meant to be sexual so there is no surprise that this video is sexual.
Her outfit chose is the main part that convinces me that she is claiming her sexuality rather than sexualizing herself purely for the male’s pleasure. At no point during this music video does she remove her undergarments or does the camera objectify her with camera angles. According to hook’s article, “ Oppositional Gaze”, all women are informed of the intent of preform for males. Yet in this video, the male is shown for a few seconds. It is also argued that all music videos are shot with the intention to show off a woman’s breasts or her buttock. “Dance For You” shows the opposite. While I won’t deny that there is some rump shaking her in this video, never does the camera fully just fully zero-in on her butt or breasts nor does her outfit choice resemble the thongs and bras that most women in rap videos are wearing.
This brings up the point of how women are supposed to claim their sexuality. Beyoncé in this music video seems to be very comfortable stating how she feels about sex and the man she is choosing to have it with. In our sexually repressed society, we are awful about talking about sex. Therefore young women look to pop culture media to get an idea of how claim their own sexuality. Beyoncé aids in this because she shows powerful women who are clearly in touch with their bodies expressing their sexual desires. In addition, Beyoncé has strong female dancers who continue to show their strength and sexuality of being a woman. According to Fifty Shades of Grey by E.L. James, sex can openly enjoyed and talked about with your partner. It gives women a platform to express themselves so does Beyoncé’s. Many comments on this video include how they are inspired by her “classy but sensual” moves and would like to do a similar dance for their husbands. Beyoncé is opening up room for women it proclaims this sexuality and not be ashamed of it.
In that sense, Beyoncé’s classy and tasteful claim of sexuality in her music videos should have her considered to be a role model. Whether or not it is intentional, she gives power to younger women find their own sexuality without objectifying themselves to men. Beyoncé leads by example, as she is a star in Hollywood without objectifying herself with nudity to create a career for herself and that is something everyone young girl should look up to.













