Annoying White Guy

Off hiatus for now. Soft-shell turtles don't interact

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

tbh looking back on this blog I haven’t posted to in years, I gotta say I’ve changed and grown a lot as a person. Anyone still doing the whole truscum/tucute discourse thing, I very strongly urge you to step away from social media for a bit. Invest time and effort into yourself and your goals. I’m not saying this in any kind of condescending way, but looking back on it I really wish I had put less time into this community for my own sake.

Things aren’t as black and white as I once thought.

[transonthelam]

“i’m a nonbinary he/him lesbian”

translation: “i am a non-male non-female male female who only likes females” 🤔

now y’all know how ridiculous you sound??

—Shiro the nonbinary transmedicalist

[ouma-against-dickheads-7]

I’ve been saying that for so long

[lgbt-i-guess]

“i’m not 100% male or female but i’m Aligned w womanhood and am more comfortable with he/him pronouns. i also only like women(aligned) people” idk seems legit to me 🤔

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Not aligned with womanhood, meaning not aligned with sexist stereotypes. Pronouns exist to communicate, not to make you comfortable. The person described is a lesbian woman or a trans man having a labeling fixation most likely.

[lgbt-i-guess]

idk what you mean by the first part

pronouns exist to refer to people. who gives a shit if someone wants to use different pronouns?

the person described is a nb he/him lesbian

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

There is no way to be "aligned" with womanhood. That is sexist. Gender is not a feeling. Pronouns exist to communicate between people. If you aren't a man then you aren't a he/him by definition, and nobody is going to think of you as such. If you are a lesbian then you are a woman. I know it's annoying that words have definitions.

[transonthelam]

“i’m a nonbinary he/him lesbian”

translation: “i am a non-male non-female male female who only likes females” 🤔

now y’all know how ridiculous you sound??

—Shiro the nonbinary transmedicalist

[ouma-against-dickheads-7]

I’ve been saying that for so long

[lgbt-i-guess]

“i’m not 100% male or female but i’m Aligned w womanhood and am more comfortable with he/him pronouns. i also only like women(aligned) people” idk seems legit to me 🤔

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Not aligned with womanhood, meaning not aligned with sexist stereotypes. Pronouns exist to communicate, not to make you comfortable. The person described is a lesbian woman or a trans man having a labeling fixation most likely.

[marblemyhornets]

do y'all think it’s invalid to not want to date cis men bc u’ve had rlly bad expierincesw them in the past and sitll not over them?

[bi-kisses]

Imo there’s not a single thing that’s invalid about being picky about who you date. It’s up to you.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

If you're using that as an excuse to single out trans men then I personally think that's ridiculous and wrong. If you're going to condemn men from your dating pool then condemn ALL men and don't put us trans guys on a pedestal simply for being trans. That's trademark chaser behavior. So sure you can be picky, but if it's being used as an excuse to go after trans people then that is very morally questionable.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

If you claim you aren’t a man then you are not going to get called he/him. Pronouns are not something you get to choose. They reflect your gender. The point is to communicate, not for it to be a fashion statement. Maybe if not being called he/him makes you dysphoric then maybe you should evaluate why that is instead of throwing a tantrum.

[im-fucking-asexual]

so what tf are non binary people who aren’t comfortable w they/them gonna do then, huh? cuz neopronouns are fucking annoying.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

If they aren’t comfortable with they/them then they should probably look into why not being referred to like a man makes them uncomfortable. I’m not going to feed someone else’s denial.

[im-fucking-asexual]

was kinda referring to myself in my reblog and. not being referred to as a man makes me uncomfortable bc being referred to as they/them literally makes me wanna die (private reasons) and being referred to as she/her feels Bad since those have been forced on me my entire life. and he/him separates me from my agab. though it’s not like I Like being referred to by masc pronouns, they’re just the Least Bad ones. lol

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Yeah it presents kind of a unique issue tbh.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

If you claim you aren’t a man then you are not going to get called he/him. Pronouns are not something you get to choose. They reflect your gender. The point is to communicate, not for it to be a fashion statement. Maybe if not being called he/him makes you dysphoric then maybe you should evaluate why that is instead of throwing a tantrum.

[im-fucking-asexual]

so what tf are non binary people who aren’t comfortable w they/them gonna do then, huh? cuz neopronouns are fucking annoying.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

If they aren't comfortable with they/them then they should probably look into why not being referred to like a man makes them uncomfortable. I'm not going to feed someone else's denial.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

If you claim you aren't a man then you are not going to get called he/him. Pronouns are not something you get to choose. They reflect your gender. The point is to communicate, not for it to be a fashion statement. Maybe if not being called he/him makes you dysphoric then maybe you should evaluate why that is instead of throwing a tantrum.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

It’s a good day to remember that breeding/selling/purchasing pugs and other flat-faced animals is inherently abusive. You are not an animal lover for supporting the deliberate breeding for physical deformities simply because you think it’s cute.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Ima just keep reminding the pug people

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

“Bad experiences” are not a reason to demonize an entire demographic.

[stop-stalin-and-suck-my-dick]

“But muh trauma” no you just want to be a cunt.

[such-justice-wow]

We all have trauma, bitch, let’s get you some healthier coping mechanisms

[srhuevos]

I had a bad experience with an ex gf, now i have even more trouble trusting people, primarily women. But that’s why im seeing a fucking therapist.

Get better bitch and stop making excuses.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Honestly that's what I want to tell all these tumblr kids. Go to a fucking therapist.

[lmpact-remade-deactivated202205]

can ppl pls stop acting like nb ppl ONLY use they/them pronouns

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Except words have definitions and he/him is the pronoun to describe men. It always will be. Pronouns are not designed to simply make you comfortable. They’re to make communication easier.

Plus you being supposedly between genders while using male pronouns is contradictory in itself. It seems like a very elaborate fantasy to avoid admitting certain things

[lmpact-remade-deactivated202205]

look at your url and tell me that you should have an opinion

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Considering it's bait for people that have no argument and insist on living in a fantasy that no rational person believes in then I'd say I very much should. Words have meanings and they aren't going to change just because you want to fetishize men or act like a fashion statement. The NB concept isn't the problem here. It's children thinking they can just identify themselves into anything and that we should care when they cry when it isn't true. Either be a man or have fun with they/them because nobody on the street is gonna use he/him if you aren't perceived as male.

[lmpact-remade-deactivated202205]

can ppl pls stop acting like nb ppl ONLY use they/them pronouns

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Except words have definitions and he/him is the pronoun to describe men. It always will be. Pronouns are not designed to simply make you comfortable. They're to make communication easier.

Plus you being supposedly between genders while using male pronouns is contradictory in itself. It seems like a very elaborate fantasy to avoid admitting certain things

[h1234567890-deactivated]

[worldoffizz]

Actually I’m asexual.

[h1234567890-deactivated]

[runawaysheebs]

say it with me now ACE IS GAY! ACE IS GAY! WE ARE SO DAMN QUEER!

[h1234567890-deactivated]

[trans-girl-waiting]

I can’t believe both “I’m not gay I’m ace” and “aces are gay” are in this, I hate you guys lol

[corviacore]

I can’t believe yall are fucking acephobic

[opinionsonions]

It’s not acephobic to say that ace people aren’t gay. Being gay literally means like be attracted to people of the same sex. It’s not acephobic that aces aren’t inherently lgbt. Acephobia is thinking that aces should be given less respect or rights because of the fact that they are ace.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

If I didn't know better I literally would be acephobic (or aphobic). Nobody cares that you don't wanna fuck, but y'all are literally making people hate you deliberately and rational aces have to take the fall for you.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

It's a good day to remember that breeding/selling/purchasing pugs and other flat-faced animals is inherently abusive. You are not an animal lover for supporting the deliberate breeding for physical deformities simply because you think it's cute.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Where is the rationality in saying people can identify into anything? Just because some sociologists decided to make the shocking revelation that people like different things and wear different clothes doesn't mean that we should just make every criteria for anything completely open if you just "identify" into it. Many of these studies are based purely on wants and emotion with very little if any regards to biological makeup and what ACTUALLY causes these feelings. Particularly gender. These ideas of identifying into a gender is inherently based on sexist stereotypes. Your gender is not gender roles just because the feeling doctors, who are under immense social pressure, say you can just be anything. In reality our gender is how we relate to our sex. Your neurology (your sex can influence neurological makeup) can predispose you to certain behaviors which is why consistently throughout almost all cultures men and women have observably different behaviors and responses to behaviors. Even trans people experience this. But your interests and behaviors are not your gender itself. Hence why we have feminine men and masculine women who don't feel like they suddenly need to be "nonbinary". They are totally in cohesion with their sex regardless of how they dress and what their hobbies are. Gender is not a ratio of masculinity and femininity.

[splotchee]

as a white trans boy @ white trans boys yall are so fucking annoying

[splotchee]

White trans boys are the only trans people cis people find even remotely palatable and so were the only ones cis people will listen to, and instead of using your voices to break barriers on what being trans is a lot of yall decide to just repeat transphobic rhetoric in order to gain cis approval as if thats gonna make them stop hating us. 

and yes, this is a vague about that one ugly ass youtuber who makes videos like TRANS GUY REACTS TO TRANSTRENDER UWU and then spends entire videos misgenering a trans guy who is like 14 and doesnt bind, calling him “she” and whatever. fuck off.

white trans boys, we need to do better. 

[haweswater]

anyways, kalvin garrah has done way more for the trans community than OP ever will! he’s only eighteen and he’s been through so much and he takes the time to educate himself on issues that are important to him before sharing his thoughts with us and i’m very thankful for him. 💖⚔️

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

Except we constantly see activism specifically for trans poc (not a bad thing). Anything in the media you see about trans men will almost always have a black dude in it somewhere.

Whitey bad UwU Me white so me have to compensate.

And they tell us we're self-hating for thinking you need dysphoria to be trans.

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

I don't get how it's hard to understand that being a feminine man and even a cross dressing man is different from looking and living completely as a woman with female privileges and female disadvantages.

[truwu-tran]

hgbnjjkkgjhgmmnh i can spot a trender from 3 miles away bc i know all gnc ppl are trenders

[annoyingwhiteguy-blog]

I literally see a million posts from transmeds saying it's ok to be gnc. There's a difference between being a gender nonconforming man and looking entirely like and living as a woman, however. This is not the same as simply being unable to transition as literally everyone says.

And being cis is normal and not a bad thing.