Love when the “I’m going to shame disabled people into having better hygiene practices” person shows up on my dash. 🙃
Shaming people into taking better care of themselves doesn’t work. Making fun of them for not doing laundry as often as you think they should is just cruel.
You know one reason people may start falling behind in care tasks? Depression. You know something that can cause or worsen depression? Shame.
Okay so I’m gonna make this the positivity post.
You’re doing fine. It’s okay.
Do what you can when you can and that’s fine.
But also, if there’s someone in your life that can help, please don’t let shame or embarrassment prevent you from seeking that help. If you genuinely can’t keep up with certain tasks, please consider asking a trusted person for assistance.
And don’t listen to anyone disparaging you. They don’t know your life. They aren’t in your shoes. They can’t understand the difficulties you face. And ultimately, your actions don’t effect them.
Do what you are able to do when you are able to do it. Seek help if you are able and need it. You’re doing your best and that’s all that matters.
