Pathetic And Petty Princess Posts

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[anotherprincessfuranon]

this isn’t an ask blog or vent blog or whatever it’s a personal blog to entertain myself with dumb ass slapfights and hypocrisy rampant in this community that I used to belong to lol

everything on this blog is alleged and not intended to direct harassment to anyone mentioned

[anotherprincessfuranon]

I genuinely cannot believe this conversation has devolved into Toycowboyexpress invoking blood quantum laws while talking about an Indigenous person. They are seriously arguing that because Fox is both white and Indigenous, they are somehow “stealing representation” from Japanese people by purchasing an adopt and making that character Indigenous.

This is beyond inappropriate, blood quantum has historically been used to police, erase, and delegitimize Indigenous identity, and watching it get weaponized in princessfur discourse like this is disgusting. I don’t know how we ended up here, but holy shit.

Again I don’t really care what’s being talked about on other blogs, I can’t see it anyways besides what screenshots anons have sent me, but this tracks.

Princessfurs have historically had an issue with understanding racial complexities. The argument they default to is “You aren’t ___ enough to do that.” Miorjah themselves have claimed to be “culturally indian” while attempting to erase Beau’s black heritage, because they, as a white person, didn’t find their circumstances to be “good enough reason” for Beau to claim they have black relatives, despite doing the same thing themselves to justify their “Indian heritage”. Kokokerome was also a victim of anti-poc rhetoric in the space, with his art being labeled as racist caricature for simply drawing full lips, and Titania, who was banned for discussing her own culture in a way that upset white people. While yes, all of these people have done many horrible things to multiple people in the community and should be held accountable for those misdeeds, that does not negate the fact that white princessfurs have a history of severely mistreating POC and being racist in general.

Racism, white supremacy, and misogyny are the foundation upon which the princessfur community is built upon. The community rewards whiteness, and is borderline obsessed with it. The same for slavery and race play kinks. “The white as snow, super special, very last of her race, utterly pathetic and weak princess, chained to an evil, savage, dark furred predator dominant who abuses her but it’s love” is a trope that has been run through the ground in this community. Pretending that your own ocs within the fandom don’t somehow fall within the meek and powerless whitey x big and evil POC dynamic doesn’t make them immune to the inevitable progression towards the trope. Up until recently, princessfurs like Dolly, Miorjah, Beau, Aurelia, Belle, Parf, and many others would deck out their characters in Arabian Nights fetish outfits and write their stories to have them be white slaves to distant desert countries, a direct reflection of racist white artwork that fetishized the white slave female and found pleasure in watching her be abused sexually by her dark-skinned captors. Even when several people came out to discuss their discomfort with the way their history was being portrayed and fetishized, they were quieted and told they “weren’t a monolith” and basically told to suck it up.  Princessfurs don’t respect POC. POC are a fetish source for them and nothing else. Even POC themselves engage in this type of self-demolition within these spaces, so long as it isn’t their own culture they’re ripping from to make porn of, like Beau. 

Making ocs different races and cultures than the owner themselves is actually a good thing, when done responsibly, but princessfurs don’t research anything or attempt to display the cultures they’re referencing with any sort of respect or reverence, because again, it’s only for porn. Having ocs that differ from yourself can encourage you to research those cultures and share them with others in a respectful way. To do that though, princessfurs would have to see people other than their own as human beings, but they don’t, it’s simply “inspiration” without any real meaning to it, making culture into a costume for their characters instead of integral to their oc’s identity. Back in my day (aging myself here,) you were considered problematic if you didn’t have ocs that were diverse and well-researched. 

Here’s a brain twister: why aren’t there any popular Japanese princess ocs? My belief is because the traditional Japanese Jūnihitoe isn’t sexy, so they don’t care for it! They won’t use it if they can’t make it horny!

artwork commissioners/outfit owners as follows (in order)

Dolly, dolly, dolly, beau, beau, beau, beau, miorjah, miorjah, aurelia, parf

[anotherprincessfuranon]

https://bsky.app/profile/bo-long.bsky.social/post/3mcbkwxqamk2v

Do you know what this is about?

To Beau, since ik you’re checking.

Your current character being Black and Chinese doesn’t negate the fact that at one point you dressed him in Arabian Nights fantasy clothing and have done so to other ocs in the past. You call upon your Chinese heritage when the racist fantasy aesthetic you are using for your porn is based on a fictionalized and fetishized version of the middle east, which is not something you are able to claim. You still have to do your due diligence and research before just throwing whatever on your oc because it’s pretty. The entire aesthetic so many princessfurs cling to like it’s their baby blanket is racist at it’s core, it’s not even considered cultural appreciation because the culture doesn’t exist, it’s how white colonizers view that culture through a fetish lens. The Arabian Nights fantasy isn’t orientalist, it’s odalisque, which are entirely separate phenomenon. Odalisque is a style of fetish artwork popular in the 19th and 20th century depicting pale skinned “concubines”, aka sex slaves, serving their “exotic” brown skinned captors. The painters were white, and those who purchased or commissioned the paintings were white as well. It’s directly meant to reflect the time period’s belief that dark skinned men were violent, insatiable beasts that were unworthy of human treatment, and that women were helpless sex dolls meant to bend to man’s every whim. Below I will link sources as well as artwork examples (trigger warning for racist sexualized depictions of POC)

How Orientalist Art Serves as a Colonial Method of Control: Representations of Muslim Women in Ingres’ La Grande Odalisque (1814)

Written By Colin Parker Griffiths Edited By Hannah MacDonald Introduction  During the nineteenth century, a significant trend among male Eur

Orientalism: Harmless or Problematic?

Why is the genre of Orientalist art considered problematic by some? Is it okay to like it? And, if so, when is it alright?

Many of these outfits look incredibly familiar because this aesthetic is the main source of inspiration for princessfurs, you were included in that in the past. They look an awful lot like these ones that you commissioned and have drawn in the past.

However, this is the same “uglier” side to that aesthetic you adore and find so beautiful but won’t research. HEAVY TRIGGER WARNING.

Brushing your history under the rug and pretending that you didn’t do these things in the past when confronted with them isn’t fair to those who your insensitive artwork has harmed in the past. It’s also disingenuous because there are hundreds of logs available to show that you did engage in that aesthetic in the past that are easily accessible that disprove your claim. Just because time has passed since then and you’ve said you changed your behavior, that doesn’t mean that others are no longer allowed to criticize your actions, especially when you double down and attempt to misconstrue the truth when evidence is clear. Own up to your mistakes when you make them and apologize the same way you have demanded others do so for you.

As I must, I will give credit where credit is due. I do commend that you have stopped using harmful fetishes for inspiration as of late and have chosen to embrace your own culture instead. It is not often that I see chinese-inspired furry ocs that draw from culture instead of media. I also can imagine it must be difficult to share your ocs due to your treatment in the past regarding your identity and your blackness, and I do sincerely apologize for that and hope you can continue to develop and share your ocs freely. Please do so respectfully and fully research your inspiration sources to avoid harm in the future.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

As a person literally born in mainland China Beau's bullshit really gets under my skin. They only ever bring being part Asian when they want to use it as a shield. 9 times out of 10 they're completely misinformed and refuse to listen when corrected. Those tassels are *nothing* like the ones traditionally created and worn in China, that is literally the same Arabian horse tack Beau cries about Miorjah using. Saying you're depicting traditional Chinese knotwork used in spiritual practices and to denote social rank as bondage gear is fucking wild. This isn't the first time Beau has completely misrepresented our clothing and historic practices. They claim to want to showcase our culture, yet they're too disrespectful and lazy to do more research than a five second glance at Google. God forbid they actually seek out any of the numerous academic resources or people online who're willing to educate and proofread.

There's nothing wrong with wanting to get in touch with your heritage, but don't use it as a cover for your shitty behavior and lies. Especially when you've repeatedly speak over and spit on those of use who did grow up connected to those roots as a part of our daily lives. People who've experienced hatred and violence for simply existing. It's the equivalent of a Bostonian prattling on about how Irish they are when the only connection the have to the culture is wearing green on St. Patrick's Day and drinking beer.

I’m so sorry that you’ve experienced the racism of the princessfur community on top of what you already have to face anon. I hope that you can find joy in seeing your culture represented properly in the future, wherever that representation be.

Not commenting further, just giving anon the voice they are rightfully owed and showing multiple perspectives to the argument.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

I'm not in the princessfur community and new to all this controversy, I sent in a ask to the other blog to clarify fox's racism and they thought I was you 💀

Tbh as a chinese diaspora that's also trying to reconnect with their roots through storytelling, it's pretty disgusting how they write off genuine critique as "antiblackness". We already face issues being seen as the "model minority" , it feels like they're saying we're not "poc enough" to point out cultural inaccuracy :/

It’s not about the tassels but he seems to think it is. Oh well, I tried.

I really hope that you can continue to find joy in your culture and reconnect with your roots anon.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

This is going to be a long ask, so I apologize in advance, but I want to address the history of Chinese face veils, specifically in relation to Hanfu, and how the discussion within the princessfur community has been flattened into an overly simplistic “racist vs. not racist” binary. Beau, in particular, has repeatedly accused multiple people of racism over this topic, including individuals who are themselves Chinese, including myself.

The issue is that Beau’s argument relies on historically inaccurate framing and a rigid “this is acceptable, that is not” approach, without any real engagement with cultural overlap, historical exchange, or how the meaning and use of clothing changes over thousands of years. China has an extremely long and well documented fashion history, so this is not intended to be a comprehensive breakdown, just necessary context.

The most well known historical Chinese veil is the Mili, a full-body veil used to preserve a woman’s modesty. Its origins are tied to Rong and Yi cultures, and historical records often describe it as originating from “barbarian” or non-Han influences rather than being indigenous to Han Chinese culture.

During the Sui dynasty, societal expectations shifted, and women were no longer required to fully veil their bodies. As a result, the Mili evolved into the Weimao, a veiled hat designed to obscure the face. The Weimao itself has roots in Hufu, which was explicitly described as foreign or “barbarian” clothing. These garments were incorporated into Chinese fashion largely to enforce ideals of modesty, reflecting long standing patterns of misogyny and xenophobia that, like many cultures, exist within Chinese history.

What Beau’s characters are depicted wearing is closer to Hanfu, which is broadly considered traditional Chinese clothing. Hanfu has gone through many changes across centuries, but it’s important to focus on its modern usage. The sheer face veils Beau refers to are known as Miansha, lightweight veils sometimes adorned with beads. These are commonly seen in C-dramas, cosplay, photoshoots, and modern fashion contexts. C-drama costuming, in particular, tends to lean closer to stylized historical fantasy than strict historical accuracy.

When Beau says “this is from my culture,” that statement is not inherently incorrect. However, presenting face veils as anything more than a fashion choice in a modern context is misleading. While Beau is free to dress their characters in Chinese inspired clothing that suits their aesthetic, it is disingenuous to ignore the fact that much of what we see in C-dramas and fantasy Hanfu is designed for visual appeal and mass consumption, not historical realism.

Additionally, face veils have long been used in orientalist and odalisque imagery, and China is not immune from these portrayals. Historically, there is also a well documented pattern of exploitation and abuse of women and children, including concubinage. Something can still be fetishistic or harmful even if it originates within a culture. Many long-time members of the princessfur community will remember repeated stories romanticizing emperors and favored concubines, which echoes these dynamics.

All of the historical information referenced here comes from Wikipedia and its cited sources, which are publicly accessible and verifiable. Tumblr does have blogs discussing Hanfu and its history, but many fail to provide proper citations, which makes them unreliable as historical references.

Thank you for the much needed context, although Wikipedia is considered unreliable to some as a source, I appreciate the education nonetheless.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

in all seriousness does that mean if I make a white winged cat furry oc I can get attacked by Lea and Rou?

In all seriousness, doing anything publicly with ocs in this community is just asking to be harassed. Hell, even being in the community is enough. Do what you want, just don’t do it with the intent on pissing people off.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

I really dislike the child abuse allegations that have been thrown around with 0 evidence. If you have no proof then sit down and shut the fuck up, why are you doing a countdown before you publish this supposed evidence? It's clear they don't care about children, and they're treating this like a game, it's incredibly disrespectful to actual abuse survivors.

I do want to reiterate that I put the safety of children above all else and I think that any allegations should be properly investigated.

That being said, I struggle to see the merit in withholding evidence, especially if it’s as egregious as striking a disabled child as a paraprofessional. It feels dishonest at best and maliciously manipulative at worst. If they supposedly care so much about the safety of minors, why not put this individual on blast with all the necessary evidence as soon as possible? The argument that they are holding off until authorities have been contacted is also suspicious. If Noelle was in fact fired for striking a child, it’s safe to assume the state and/or the parent has already begun litigation against them, so what’s the point of starting a new investigation unless it’s an empty threat meant as retaliation?

Overall, I feel conflicted about the situation. I can’t help but notice the incredibly convenient timing of this information coming to light given that Noelle had just stoked the fire by making a callout post. It’s not unheard of for certain individuals to accuse others of egregious things when they’re being criticized, particularly Beau, Lea, and Wicker; but on the other hand, the allegations are alarming and the lack of transparency regarding them is even more worrying. It’s reminiscent of the situation with Ryter and Zori, where personal unrelated grievances muddy the actually concerning allegations of abuse. I don’t know what to think, anon.

Thank you for the input.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

small correction, Lea isn’t in their 30s iirc they’re the same age as Beau so they’re mid 20s. https://www.tumblr.com/anotherprincessfuranon/811456994818015232/i-feel-like-people-are-completely-missing-the?source=share

Still weird.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

I feel like people are completely missing the point with Lea and this teenager. Yes the age of the kid determines legality, but legality isn’t the only concern here. If we can acknowledge that someone else in the community may have been groomed at 18 or 19, then why wouldn’t we also be raising eyebrows about someone in their 30s forming close friendships with teenagers?

I’m also in my 30s, and I can’t imagine calling anyone under the age of 25 a friend. There’s a huge difference in life stage, and experience that it naturally creates a power imbalance. Especially if this teenager really is as vulnerable as Wicker's statement trying to "debunk" the concern makes them out to be. I don't care that they're 16 or 19, it's still extremely concerning that someone with a history of grooming befriended a teenager.

This is my point exactly, thank you anon.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

FoolBloom is engaging with minors again.

Extremely important update to the ongoing situation, it has come to my attention that Lea aka FoolBloom is grooming a teenager who’s self admitted to not being mature enough to consider themselves an adult and also being under the age of 18. They’ve also shown that the relationship they have with Lea is problematic and worth mentioning.

Calling Lea “my goat”, insinuating they are their favorite artist, and even joking about “child labor” shows the interactions these two have, and that it’s a joke to Lea to expose these young individuals to the types of content that they do, and that it’s possible Lea was even friends with this person privately prior to this point. It’s frankly disgusting that Lea can’t even defend themselves and is having a child do it for them. This is very clearly a pattern. Lea, you are disgusting and need to stay away from people younger than you. You are predatory, manipulative, and dangerous to be around. Trying to mold someone who admits publicly that they are emotionally vulnerable and immature to be your #1 fan and defender is the exact same thing that Miorjah did to Noelle. To the victim, this person is lying to you. They were complicit in the sexual grooming of a child, and are still friends with and defend the individual who groomed said child. You are on a fast track to becoming the next victim. Stop publicly defending this creep. Just because they are kind to you does not mean that they don’t have disgusting intentions hidden behind sweet words and encouragement. Grooming doesn’t have to include sexual misconduct either. Grooming is simply when someone who has some sort of authority over you (age, status, followers, or an artist you look up to) exercise said authority to bend you to their own whims. Stop minimizing grooming to just sexual abuse.

Overall, I’m disappointed but not surprised. How this individual and their friends have any sort of fan base is appalling, but I suppose they only have one because they prey on young naïve teenagers.

EDIT: It has been confirmed that the individual involved is in fact a minor.

If they were 16 as of June 4, 2024, that would make them 17 currently. There is zero reason why an 18+ creator is publicly interacting with, befriending, and encouraging a child to defend them online publicly. There’s a possibility Lea was lied to, but I find that hard to believe when the tiktok account these were posted to are publicly linked to the same bluesky they use. Also seen is a repost they made about only adults being allowed, which they clearly don’t follow themselves. Wicker, Lea’s friend, is also regularly interacting with this child despite also being an 18+ creator.

I will also be retroactively censoring the minor’s handles since it has been confirmed they are not an adult. I apologize for not doing so beforehand, as the victim claimed to be an adult and thus had no reason to be censored.

Lea has not changed and they are still dangerous for minors to be around. Please do not platform this predator any further than they have been. Do not harass the victim.

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Lea, stay away from teenagers. I don’t care if they’re “adults” legally, you’ve taken advantage of people much younger than you before and I can see by how this teen defends you that you’re doing it again.

I’ll leave it here with the fact that even if they were 17 you’d still be interacting with them, as you have done before.

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Btw they’re still friends with Ryter.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

FoolBloom is engaging with minors again.

Extremely important update to the ongoing situation, it has come to my attention that Lea aka FoolBloom is grooming a teenager who’s self admitted to not being mature enough to consider themselves an adult and also being under the age of 18. They’ve also shown that the relationship they have with Lea is problematic and worth mentioning.

Calling Lea “my goat”, insinuating they are their favorite artist, and even joking about “child labor” shows the interactions these two have, and that it’s a joke to Lea to expose these young individuals to the types of content that they do, and that it’s possible Lea was even friends with this person privately prior to this point. It’s frankly disgusting that Lea can’t even defend themselves and is having a child do it for them. This is very clearly a pattern. Lea, you are disgusting and need to stay away from people younger than you. You are predatory, manipulative, and dangerous to be around. Trying to mold someone who admits publicly that they are emotionally vulnerable and immature to be your #1 fan and defender is the exact same thing that Miorjah did to Noelle. To the victim, this person is lying to you. They were complicit in the sexual grooming of a child, and are still friends with and defend the individual who groomed said child. You are on a fast track to becoming the next victim. Stop publicly defending this creep. Just because they are kind to you does not mean that they don’t have disgusting intentions hidden behind sweet words and encouragement. Grooming doesn’t have to include sexual misconduct either. Grooming is simply when someone who has some sort of authority over you (age, status, followers, or an artist you look up to) exercise said authority to bend you to their own whims. Stop minimizing grooming to just sexual abuse.

Overall, I’m disappointed but not surprised. How this individual and their friends have any sort of fan base is appalling, but I suppose they only have one because they prey on young naïve teenagers.

EDIT: It has been confirmed that the individual involved is in fact a minor.

If they were 16 as of June 4, 2024, that would make them 17 currently. There is zero reason why an 18+ creator is publicly interacting with, befriending, and encouraging a child to defend them online publicly. There’s a possibility Lea was lied to, but I find that hard to believe when the tiktok account these were posted to are publicly linked to the same bluesky they use. Also seen is a repost they made about only adults being allowed, which they clearly don’t follow themselves. Wicker, Lea’s friend, is also regularly interacting with this child despite also being an 18+ creator.

I will also be retroactively censoring the minor’s handles since it has been confirmed they are not an adult. I apologize for not doing so beforehand, as the victim claimed to be an adult and thus had no reason to be censored.

Lea has not changed and they are still dangerous for minors to be around. Please do not platform this predator any further than they have been. Do not harass the victim.

[havingaprincessteaparty]

Yo Mod, with the recent info about Foolbloom I think it's important to note that Ryter/Porter is making a slow comeback to socials. I noticed their handle changed to concretecradle and there's a bluesky linked to him. https://bsky.app/profile/concretecradle.bsky.social

Attached the images sent in via dm, his discord and new bluesky match plus it’s his art in the profile picture 🫠

[anotherprincessfuranon]

FoolBloom is engaging with minors again.

Extremely important update to the ongoing situation, it has come to my attention that Lea aka FoolBloom is grooming a teenager who’s self admitted to not being mature enough to consider themselves an adult and also being under the age of 18. They’ve also shown that the relationship they have with Lea is problematic and worth mentioning.

Calling Lea “my goat”, insinuating they are their favorite artist, and even joking about “child labor” shows the interactions these two have, and that it’s a joke to Lea to expose these young individuals to the types of content that they do, and that it’s possible Lea was even friends with this person privately prior to this point. It’s frankly disgusting that Lea can’t even defend themselves and is having a child do it for them. This is very clearly a pattern. Lea, you are disgusting and need to stay away from people younger than you. You are predatory, manipulative, and dangerous to be around. Trying to mold someone who admits publicly that they are emotionally vulnerable and immature to be your #1 fan and defender is the exact same thing that Miorjah did to Noelle. To the victim, this person is lying to you. They were complicit in the sexual grooming of a child, and are still friends with and defend the individual who groomed said child. You are on a fast track to becoming the next victim. Stop publicly defending this creep. Just because they are kind to you does not mean that they don’t have disgusting intentions hidden behind sweet words and encouragement. Grooming doesn’t have to include sexual misconduct either. Grooming is simply when someone who has some sort of authority over you (age, status, followers, or an artist you look up to) exercise said authority to bend you to their own whims. Stop minimizing grooming to just sexual abuse.

Overall, I’m disappointed but not surprised. How this individual and their friends have any sort of fan base is appalling, but I suppose they only have one because they prey on young naïve teenagers.

EDIT: It has been confirmed that the individual involved is in fact a minor.

If they were 16 as of June 4, 2024, that would make them 17 currently. There is zero reason why an 18+ creator is publicly interacting with, befriending, and encouraging a child to defend them online publicly. There’s a possibility Lea was lied to, but I find that hard to believe when the tiktok account these were posted to are publicly linked to the same bluesky they use. Also seen is a repost they made about only adults being allowed, which they clearly don’t follow themselves. Wicker, Lea’s friend, is also regularly interacting with this child despite also being an 18+ creator.

I will also be retroactively censoring the minor’s handles since it has been confirmed they are not an adult. I apologize for not doing so beforehand, as the victim claimed to be an adult and thus had no reason to be censored.

Lea has not changed and they are still dangerous for minors to be around. Please do not platform this predator any further than they have been. Do not harass the victim.

[anotherprincessfuranon]

Hey, can I dm you?

Of course. Feel free to message me anytime.

[daisyanonnl]

THIS IS A COPY AND PASTED REPOST FOR THE PURPOSE OF SPREADING THE MESSAGE AS PORTER HAS NOW TURNED OFF REBLOGS ON THE ORIGINAL POST, THEREFORE MAKING IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR OTHERS REBLOG MY STATEMENT UNDERNEATH HIS POST. THIS VERSION WILL CONTAIN AN EDIT WITH ADDITIONAL INFORMATION.

Hello, I am the victim in this situation. I am using an alternate account in order to protect my identity. I planned not to address this, but I feel like I need to in order to leave no room for misinterpretation and to bring myself mental peace. Trigger warning for grooming and tickling. Please read at your own discretion!!

Me and Porter had been friends for half a year. I cut ties with them soon after when I realized what was happening to me. This was the DM I received from a concerned individual within his Discord server that really solidified the gravity of the situation for me:

They then proceeded put me in contact with another concerned party after this DM. One of concerns they showed within the DM regarding the "sketch pages" is referring to these sketches that Porter made featuring both of our Welcome Home characters made in an online drawing game.

The images above showcase his adult OC Porter tickling my OC, who is a teenager. Given the age of my character and the fact that I am a teenager too, he shouldn't have made these. Regardless of if I started it or not. The responsibility lies with the adult, not the child. No adult should ever indulge in these actions alongside a child, as it's highly inappropriate. Especially since it has been proven that tickling has previously been a fetish for him. Even if it isn't anymore, that doesn't negate the inappropriate nature of his actions towards me.

Another concern raised later was regarding a "fanfiction" Porter wrote including his OC, and a caricature of me being tickled by his character. Again, the character included is supposed to represent me - a minor. I will warn in advance that the screenshots below may or may not be slightly out of order.

Think of this what you will, but this is not appropriate behavior to engage in with a child, regardless of the circumstances. Porter has not deleted this fic, which makes me highly uncomfortable to know that he is actively has this saved even after everything that he has been found guilty of. Another individual within the server voice chat advised Porter not to write this, as it would be extremely alarming, and not okay. This was said when he mentioned writing it, before he actually did. He agreed, even acknowledging the dangerous nature of doing this. And yet, he still decided to go through with it later. This, however, barely scrapes the surface of the disgusting and alarming nature of his DM's and messages in his server towards me. I will apply a trigger warning accordingly for grooming with what is about to be shown.

(His profile picture is censored because it shows artwork made by an individual who is uninvolved, and I do not wish for them to be found via this artwork and possibly harassed.)

He has stated before multiple times within voice chat that if our messages were exposed into the public, he could get into serious trouble. Despite this, he persisted. His discord admin excused his actions on account that I "consented" and was comfortable with this behavior. But the glaring problem here is that minors cannot consent.

It was in his hands to make sure he kept me safe, and he failed to do so. He knew that I am a vulnerable, neglected, touch-starved and attention-starved teenager, and that I would not question him. No matter his "intentions" with me, it is still clear to see that he groomed me. Grooming does not always need to be explicitly sexual to be considered as such. Grooming is not a black and white issue. It's a very nuanced subject and can be hard to detect by even adults. He has also compared our interactions to "sibling tickle fights".

I've personally never seen siblings tickle eachother while calling one another "cute", using pet names, and putting one another in a "lee" and "ler" category. These are behaviors that I've seen strictly in the fetishistic areas of the tickling community. I've also never seen this behavior shared between parents and their children. Even if this was "play" between siblings or parents and their kids, it wouldn't make it any less alarming. This is not simply "innocent horseplay" as he tries to say. This is something far more sinister.

I come from a very broken home. Porter made me feel special. He made me feel safe. He made me feel cared about and loved, more than any adult figure in my life has made me feel, and for this reason I grew heavily attached to him. He knew full well about my home situation and my fragile mental state, and this is why he felt content to take advantage of me. He was also aware about my emotional attachment to him. Himself, as well as his close friend circle who were also very close to me, acknowledged that he is careless in how he interacts with younger individuals. This gives even more reasons for him to stop interacting with minors altogether.

Another individual within his friend circle, who works closely with preschoolers may I add, has been defending this disgusting behavior and insisting that what happened to me wasn't grooming, and that I'm "hurting real victims" by saying this. This individual goes by Beauregardent/Museicorne/Darlingdoeling on most platforms; one being Twitter.

This message was forwarded to me by an uninvolved third party.) This absolutely shattered me. It felt as if they literally spat in my face. I am absolutely appalled and horrified that this is an opinion held by someone who works with toddlers between the ages of 3-5. It does not matter if it was "intentional" or not, what matters is that he was still complicit in acting in this way towards me. The fact that he has stated many times that his behavior could get him in trouble, is very evident that he knew what he was doing was wrong.

Beauregardent and Porter's server moderator have both stated that he committed "groomer actions" but that he's not actually a bonafide groomer. This point is obviously chocked full of nonsensical semantics, and to say this is spitting in the face of not only me, but other victims who have been in my shoes and have been traumatized. It's literally like saying: "Well, the kidnapper did kidnapper actions, but they're not a kidnapper! They had good intentions when they kidnapped that child!"

Surprise, surprise. The floor is made of floor.

The fact that Porter has turned off and hidden certain comments on this post shows me that he is not willing to face the consequences and rightful backlash from this situation. He has proved that he is only trying to save face.

This situation has traumatized me greatly and has caused me extreme emotional distress. These are the effects of grooming. The individuals who confronted me about this situation are also victims of grooming, and have compared their situations to my own to further emphasis their concerns. I have also spoken with many other victims of grooming after this situation, and all have expressed their grief and heartbreak for me. A majority of them approached me first.

This is really all I have to say for now, and if any additional information is needed I will update this post accordingly. I believe I've covered the entire basis of this situation, on my side at least.

This post will serve as a compilation of necessary evidence for others to view and make educated decisions. As well as to make my statement and my opinions, and my sheer pain with this situation be known. I don't wish to address this any further for my own mental peace and safety. This account will remain, as I do not plan on letting my pain go unheard, nor do I want Porter to have ample room to misinterpret and get away with what he did to me. I am healing. I'm taking the necessary steps to feel better after what happened. Thank you.

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I know I said I wouldn't address this further, but I feel it is necessary to include an extra piece of information which has been brought to my attention.

It is apparent that Porter is attempting to make a comeback even after all of this happened. This is very concerning. I'd like others, especially minors, to be aware and stay safe. If you click the notes on this post and view the accounts of individuals that liked it, you will find that some of them happen to be minors. I'm very worried for them, and frankly appalled that Porter is trying to sneak his way back onto Tumblr after everything he's been found guilty of. He also still has minors in his Discord server - one of which is being protected by an adult who stated they were only staying there to keep the minor safe in Porters presence, as the minor is not willing to leave the server.

After I contributed my statement to his original post, he switched off the reblogs. I was already well aware that he wasn't willing to take proper accountability for his actions, but this has given me even more proof of such.

This is all for now, and I may make more updates if anything vital comes to light. Love you all. Thank you for hearing out my story. Please stay safe and cautious. Especially to all of you younger individuals.