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tiktoksformyfriends

[video by soupygarbagejuice. original caption: stuie]

bitemeilovewaffles

"I guess I would scream too if I knew a God could hear me" is too much of a raw line to come from a tik tok about a cat

felesrubrum

@gallusrostromegalus

l3irdl3rain

Two high anxiety girlies comforting each other during a storm

great-and-small

My precious Tiger Salamander just turned EIGHT YEARS OLD I can’t believe it look how handsome he’s become 🥹

In 2018:

Now:

oceanasky

I made him something on Canva ^

great-and-small

Thank you for making this I showed it to him!!

timsforeverhome

Please have a couple of last-minute cozy boys for this Tuck 'em in Tuesday before the day slips away!

lumikat

I think everyone should look at my silly cats

drill-teeth

Something I really struggle to get people to understand is that like. Sometimes there was no intentional homoerotic subtext, the author was just extremely misogynistic. Sometimes the author wasn't "secretly shipping" those two men, the author literally just hates women so much that they see them as being literally incapable of relationships with depth. Like this is kind of a big thing with misogyny actually. A lot of extremely misogynistic people truly believe that a man can only have meaningful and complex relationships with other men because they literally just think women are so inferior they only exist to birth children and clean the house. It's like when people say along the lines of "no one worships exclusively men quite like straight men do". It's just that phenomenon actually. That happens to be manifesting in a raging misogynist's writing. Writing a man character who literally only puts effort into his friendships with other men while completely ignoring his literal girlfriend or wife is actually an extremely straight thing to write. And that doesn't mean you can't ship those men or that there are no stories with actual intentional homoerotic subtext. I just think it's important to be able to recognize extreme misogyny in writing and acknowledge it without brushing it off and assuming good intentions when literally all evidence is screaming that this was a misogynistic writing choice and not a representing gay men choice.

rosemarymeow

you might not believe this but I am judging you

absolutearsenal

When the female character meets her male love interest and you watch in real time as the writers hollow her out and zombify her with tradwife spores

absolutearsenal

Everyone who tagged this as a man is getting shot

absolutearsenal

I'm going to be honest you are active participants in this phenomenon if you cannot acknowledge it as misogyny. You cannot deflect the ideological root of this problem onto something else without denying that misogyny is the motivation. You're welcome to make your own post about how you're against the general expectation of romance but this post is about the misogynistic belief that women naturally want to become passive wives to their male love interests and have their stubborn individuality and unattractive traits eroded away by the right man. This post is about a belief people hold about women, specifically, and if you're not going to talk about women, at least stop pretending you are engaging with my point and not just hijacking my wording to talk about something else