Hi I just recently discovered your blog and I’m in love with it and you. So I’m in college and I’ve been having a hard time concentrating and getting motivated and also making friends, I’m starting to feel like maybe this isn’t for me but I also don’t know what else to do.
Hi love! Aw, this comment is so sweet. Thank you!
College can be a difficult and lonely space, for sure. Know that you're not the only one who feels lost, directionless, alone, or like you're one of the few students who spend almost all their time alone. It's a super common experience (I probably spent 90% of my time in college either in class, working, studying, or alone too!).
Knowing whether college is for you takes so many factors into account. First, it depends if you're going into debt for the experience. If so, I think at least considering taking a leave of absence is not something to overlook if you're feeling super indecisive on your future dime.
Your desired career goals also matter. If you want to be a doctor, lawyer, investment banker, etc. You need the degree even if it feels like a waste of time (in undergrad, that is). If you're seeking to pursue a creative or digital career (writing, graphic design, coding, social media, etc.), college is not always the right place for you to begin your career.
Take courses you're interested in and that you believe offer practical knowledge in your desired career field or allow you to gain a marketable skill (coding, data analysis, persuasive writing, financial literacy, etc.)
To get motivated, I recommend looking through my guides on goal setting and productivity tips.
To help with making friends, read my guide on how to master social anxiety and make friends. I also answered another question about college life recently, so I'm also sharing these tips HERE.
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