đđ° erotiquadollâs sex kitten bible: PT. I
youâre a fucking princess and princesses donât do SHIT!
my guide to dating a man you ACTUALLY wanna be with.
[*DO NOT USE ON YOUR ROSTER OF SPACE FILLERS, THIS IS ONLY FOR A MAN YOU SEE TRUE COMPATIBILITY, LONGEVITY AND BENEFIT FROM*]
men only want you when they think other men do. always hint at other menâs pursuit of you⊠HINT! donât fully expose. âgot you a lil date?â âthatâs so cute⊠what are you up to though?â
use passive aggression to enforce boundaries. never passive passivity. never aggressive aggression. a man should never see you as aggressive even if he just pissed in your cereal. and you should NEVER be a pushover. for ex: âhey iâm sorry iâm late for our dateâ *you with a neutral face and maybe soft smiling tone of voice* âthatâs ok! i understand stuff happens but iâd really appreciate if we donât make this a habit though.â basically be a sweet little strict princess. never emasculate him. save that for your venting sessions with TRUSTED PEOPLE.
use your eyes. this is seduction. stare. hold eye contact and do not break it. i guarantee he will. undress him with your eyes. works perfectly during silent moments. then when he asks what⊠because he will⊠lay it on thicker. âyouâre just so sexy.â
âi donât know Iâm just making connections⊠iâll know what i want when i see itâ never tell them that you want a husband children and the white picket fence when they ask what youâre looking for. even if itâs true. hint that you could be looking for them in a flirtatious way. look him up and down. bite your lip. etc.
even if you are available 100% with NOTHING to do, make him feel special to have gotten time with you. for ex: âwhat you doing this weekend?â âjust a couple of things⊠whatâs going on?â âjust wanted to see if you were free this saturdayâ âhmm, i should be, what time??â âmaybe 8âŠâ âhmm, what about 9?â âyeah thatâs perfect.â âokay great iâm looking forward to seeing you! đâ
please donât give a fuck what heâs doing when he isnât with you. men can sense when you start worrying about them talking to other people. learned this the hard way. donât check his shit. donât look at his story. DO NOT text him asking why you havenât heard from him. even if you wanna hear from him. but this is all a sign of you needing to be more busy. find a hobby, other men to date casually, a second job, school, clean the house, anything. NEVER let him know you want something he has.
if you want this man, make him feel like the biggest apple of your eye⊠in your presence. compliments constantly. constantly touch him. even avoid your phone or whatever other physical distraction you may have from him. masculinity craves an ego boost. this even works during sex. make him feel like he has the best dick youâve ever had in your life. get him accustomed to the idea that you want no one else but him. speak your adoration. physically express it also. then the second heâs away from you engage in other things to where heâs no longer in the forefront of your mind. theyâll start to chase after that ego stroking you gave them before and will be itching to you again and craving your attention. and every time you see him, dial this back but like 3% each timeâŠ
⊠which at that point you should never be just super readily available. âoh you wanna see me again tonight? aw baby. i miss you too but i have plans⊠maybe we can a little later in the weekâ do not ask him if he can see you on another night. let HIM carve that out. for ex: âokay what about tomorrow night?â âokay thatâll work much better, iâm looking forward to seeing you! đ alright gotta go handsome!â
when out with him, donât deflect male attention from others. youâll get it. but donât directly acknowledge it. for example if youâre at dinner and the MALE waiter seems to be showing some signs that he thinks youâre pretty donât deflect. donât shrink yourself. order your food confidently and sweetly. EVEN acknowledge your date while ordering âhmm everything looks so good, bae what are you thinking of getting?â heâs gonna accuse you of flirting and when he does⊠distract him with your sensuality. âoh youâre so crazy, i wore this for you though⊠you like it?â GIRL. itâs so simple.
sometimes donât text his ass back. period. SOMETIMES. a consistent lack of replies and engagement however will read as a lack of interest and thatâs not gonna work. you want to feign femininely scarce, not uninterested. and when you do, ALWAYS sound happy to hear from him!! always! itâs intoxicating and makes their testosterone bubble over. make his dopamine receptors be on edge waiting for you.
always turn it back on them. learn to answer a question with a question to increase his vulnerability. for ex âwhat are we doing togetherâ *you, smiling, sweet voice engaged* âwhat do you want us to do?â
stop talking so much. stop defending your actions. stop oversharing. stop explaining. listen to him talk more than you do. and when you do speak tell him what he wants to hear. for example if he asks how your past relationships were TELL HIM THEYâVE BEEN WONDERFUL. (if he just needs to know why talk broke up, all you need to say is that you grew apart and he was a great guy) this sets a precedent that you are, indeed, a princess. you need a character or persona that you embody in your love life. use your representative self, the same way they do.
iâm a fragrance girl so please understand when i say you NEED a signature âseeing himâ scent. even if you wear 1000 different fragrances on a regular basis. during the dating stage WEAR THE SAME ONE!! and make sure itâs something with sillage and longevity. something that damn near seeps into your skin. he needs to sniff his clothes and wanna see you again. get in his car and think of you immediately and thatâs kinda hard to do with different scents every time you see him.
always prioritize your looks. always look better and better every time he sees you in person. this doesnât mean you have to always have makeup on or a cocktail dress. but you must be put together at all times. iâm so sorry but this is reality. hair done 100% of times, nails should always be manicured at the very least, clothing should appear put together and pretty. and the basics should never be neglected. take care of your skin, health, and shape always. and i know people feel a way about the âsend me a picâ shit. annoying yes i know. but you should. and this is why one reason i always preach to stay ready so you dont have to get ready. always look like youâre busy. for ex. pretty selfies in a pink athleisure set in the drivers seat of your car. prepare for the âoh where you at, what you doing?â texts so you can reply with a reminder of how pretty you are.
switch when you walk. move slowly. not like a snail duh but with intentional movements. i love doing this on dates because i can practically feel a manâs eyes on me when i âgo to the restroom for a moment.â
letâs say he gets wind of you dating other people. donât get defensive. youâre not doing anything wrong and if he brings it up thatâs a good thing, not a punishment. for ex: âi didnât know you were going out with other peopleâŠâ âoh, iâm not in a relationship with anybodyâ âoh ok ok⊠well iâm not. i kinda wanna focus on each otherâ rattle his anxiety a tiny bit.
go out without him and let him know youâre out and not readily available, covertly that is. no man will believe or give a fuck about a text that says âIâM BUSY EVERY NIGHT BECAUSE MEN WANT ME SO YOU SHOULD WANT ME TOOâ
always keep him on his toes never let him know 100% your routine. and if you do donât stick to that routine 24/7⊠throw him off. and you know what else keeps a man on his toes (i only recommend this after a couple of dates but before you have sex) sexually flirt with him. for example my favorite thing is when he says something is tight that he maybe trying to open or something etc. iâll say âlike meâ in the softest sweetest voice ever and heâll for sure respond something like âwhat did you say?â âoh you should have heard me! *giggle*â will drive him INSANE.
answer questions with questions. for example âwhat youâre going on a date?â *while getting dressed, applying gloss, knowing you look good asf* âwhy you think that? can you hand me my purse right there⊠mhm⊠thank you⊠yeah what makes you say that baby?â
never reach out first. thatâs relationship privileges. period. donât answer his first call of the day. let him call again.
while in the dating stage, always reference the FACT that he isnât your man whenever he asks for relationship benefits. for ex. (if you met in a club that singles frequent highly) âi havenât been to [insert club name] in a long time, you still be going?â âoh you havenât? why is that?â (notice how i donât say yes or no. answer his question with a question.) âi havenât been for real because i donât want to right now. kinda donât want you to either.â âaww why youâre trying to be my man?â
should you have sex before the commitment (which is okay in my opinion as long as youâre safe because the issue with sex isnât the act itself itâs how you act afterwards.) YOU CANNOT STAY THE NIGHT. girl i donât give a fuck how bad you want to. âstay the night with me, you need some clothes?â you should already be getting up putting your underwear back on. and yes put a small show on for him while you dress *soft sweet voice again, FULLY COMPOSED though* âoh i gotta go baby i have to work in the morning, but i had fun! gimme a kissâ same thing if he came to your house (i donât recommend), put his ass out. âoh iâm about to get ready to go to sleep but i canât wait to see you again, tie your robe up, give a kiss and see him on his way⊠WITH A SMILE. and donât do the typical laying it on thick after you have sex with this man. and DONâT be catching feelings. the only thing that should trigger feelings is some sort of investment. donât necessarily pull back but become a tiny bit more busy than you were before but whenever you DO engage with him make sure youâre maintaining your same sweet little princess self. donât change your energy. donât escalate. donât completely retract. let him become sprung.
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