fav ships: nobleflower 🗣🗣🗣, bubbline, caitvi, catradora, unrequited marylene, jily, byler, timebomb, syd and dina (ianowt), ellie and dina,
it is totally cool for u to dm me and talk about anything fandom related, however I am 19 so im not very comfortable talking to anyone younger than like 16, please take that into consideration 🙃
books / fics: marauders, percy jackson technically but that was way back in 2021 so I have no clue what they r getting up to now, sunburn,
TV shows / movies: I Saw The TV Glow, I Am Not Okay With This, Arcane, Fantasy High and Gladlands (D20 on dropout tv), Very Important People (dropout), She Ra, The Owl House, Fear Street, Jennifer's Body, Bottoms, Yellowjackets, TLOU
I feel like (and maybe this is a hot take?) you can’t really, fully understand the Black Brothers or the Evans Sisters if you don’t have a sibling. There’s just parts of that you can’t get if you don’t have at least one of your own siblings
Always funny to me when indie devs who already sell games for dirt cheap participate in steam sales with like 90 percent off. Like. "Yeah this game is three dollars but you can have it for one right now." Like your game costs as much as a pack of m&ms and youre selling it for the cost of a pack of m&ms in the 1950s now? Okay
marylene dancing in their kitchen while music plays on the radio and mary tries to make dinner. marlene keeps trying to help but shes a mess off a cook so shes been banished from helping. but she loves to distract mary.
why do people act like its insane to hc marys attack as SA as if sexual violence and harassment isn’t the primary way teenage boys terrorize their female peers did none of you go to high school
i was training a young person at work, and she referred to sexual assault as "SA" out loud, and i immediately was like, "no, it's sexual assault, call it what it is," bc idgaf if the algorithm overlords have taught y'all that you should fear direct language, how tf do any of you expect to ever address real issues with any amount of seriousness if you can't even say the words? imagine an advocate looking a sexual assault survivor in the eyes and asking "did he grape you?" it's absolutely fucking absurd, but these young interns and new hires are coming into an environment where we deal with survivors of all different kinds of abuse, and they're coming with the mindset that the words are as bad as the actions, and that makes them shitty at the job and look juvenile af
i HATE self-censorship for a lot of reasons, but being in crisis work makes it even more frustrating. who are you censoring for? like i am being so fr, WHO are you censoring for? have you even thought it through? people who have been raped know that they have been raped. if someone attempts suicide or is grieving someone who did, saying "sewer slide" isn't going to protect them from any of the feelings. a murder victim's family isn't going to feel better bc you said "unalived" instead of murdered. if anything, it's just extremely invalidating and othering. it's saying "what happened to you is so bad that i won't even say the word," which is NOT trauma-informed care. you are not protecting survivors/victims when you self-censor. the ONLY things you protect when you self-censor are the puritanical ideologies that are being encouraged by rich fascists who want your money and obedience
say the fucking words, guys. just say the goddamn words before i go insane!!!
if you're sitting on a fanfic idea because you think it's "too weird" or "too niche" I need you to understand something: the internet is VAST and FULL of people with your exact brand of weird. that crackship that makes sense only to you? there are at least 50 people who will read it and go "oh my god FINALLY." but even if there were ZERO? you still deserve to write the thing that makes your brain light up.
