You can call me Milo, or Milo Rivers! Here's a little bit about me!
🦳 I'm 25 years old (ancient). 🦳
🧷 I have incontinence, and wear diapers full-time to manage. 🧷
🍼 I'm an abdl, but mostly just a dl. 🍼
🏔 I'm very outdoorsy! I'm a mountain biker, snowboarder, whitewater kayaker, rock climber, and occasional hiker (only if there's tomfoolery). 🏔
🎮 I like to play video games and watch movies when I'm not outside. 🎮
🥖 I love to cook, and can probably make better food than u... 🥖
I made this blog to share some of what my life in diapers looks like, focusing on how I manage incontinence while still enjoying nature and the outdoorsy life to the fullest!
Question posts will be tagged "Milo's asks"
Text posts will be tagged "Milo's stories"
Oh! And send in any questions you wanna ask! I'm always up for answering!
Also, I post different stuff on each of my blogs. Here's a guide:
Tumblr: Stories, asks, small writings, pictures, videos.
X: Pictures, videos, small writings.
Instagram: More vanilla pictures, videos, asks, and small writings.
Bluesky: Pictures, videos, small writings.
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Absolutely no one is obligated to get me anything.
Diapering supplies are the only thing that will be on my wishlist, so you'll only be helping me get the stuff I need for managing my incontinence!
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Have yo had to go to the doctors or the er in diapers yet? How did it go? What did they say or do about it?
I've been to both quite a few times. And, I've worn diapers for most of my life, so this isn't a new thing, btw.
If I'm being honest, it can be a little awkward. Not sure why, but I keep getting nurses my age that are quite attractive whom usually end up seeing my diapers one way or another, lol. I don't like, ask them out or flirt with them, or anything, though. That would be inappropriate.
But that's usually the only reason it's awkward. Everyone at the medical facilities are very professional when they see my diapers, and they are never judgemental.
If I ever get into a situation where they might see my diaper, I like to give them a heads up that I have them on. They usually say "It's okay! Dont worry about it at all!" Of course, they know I have incontinence, so it's never a surprise for them. But I still like to tell them because it makes me feel better.
Other than that, nothing notable really happens. Sometimes I get asked how long I've worn diapers for, which is usually followed by surprise and shock, but that's about it. They also get really surprised when they learn that I wet the bed every night without fail. For some reason, that's crazy to them. Kinda makes me feel like these are not things they see much of.
Every single time I go to theme parks I spend an unhealthy amount of time thinking about how cute it would be to take a little with me. Imagine how fun it would be to point out their favourite characters, check their diaper and go on all of the kiddo friendly rides with them (as I baby them all day ofc)
Have you ever had your diapers changed by someone else?
If not would you want to?
Nope, I haven’t.
I think I would be open to that. But, whoever gets to do it will either have to be my partner, or a very close, and trustworthy friend.
They would also have to know how to tape a diaper on someone else pretty well.
If you look closely at my pictures, you'll see that my tapes are always near perfect. I hate wearing diapers that aren't taped well, and will sometimes spend 10 minutes getting everything situated properly.
If they can't get to that level of perfection, I'd rather just do it myself. Or if it didn't hurt their feelings too much, I could adjust everything after they have given it a try.
I'm sure you were expecting to hear that I'd let anyone do it, given the chance. But, after wearing padding for so much of my life, I really despise ill fitting diapers. It totally ruins my day, and I'd rather not just deal with it. Especially since I can mitigate the chances of a bad fitting diaper if I just put it on myself.
Maybe people who don't need to wear diapers full-time might have a different answer for you, but this is my take on the subject, lol.
How do people treat you when they find out you wear diaper full-time?
Do you like to tell them before they find out or do you let them find ojt?
When someone is aware of my diapered life, they usually treat me with a lot of empathy and respect. Sometimes I'll get the odd "I'm not sure about that." But it isn't my job to make people like me, so it's whatever at that point. They can stay or go if they want.
At this point in my life, I haven't really found any meaningful difference between letting someone find out, or telling them. There are times where it's more worth telling someone vs not, though.
I've found the most important times to tell someone is when I'm taking a long car trip with them, and I might need a change during it. Or if I'm sleeping over, and might have a diaper leak. If I'm playing some sport where they're definitely going to see some diaper peek, or outline under my clothes. If I'm spending an extended amount of time around them. And if they want to come over to my house, and they want to see my room. (Don't know why that's like everyone's favorite thing to do)
That last one is important because of my diaper shelf. There's absolutely no hiding that thing, lol. Probably also important because I bet that I'm nose blind to some, uh, smells that I got used to over time. Maybe I'm speaking about diaper trash, maybe I'm not. We'll never know!
Anyway, other than those specific scenarios, I just let people find out. I got sick of trying to explain myself to everyone, so only those who ask and are curious will be in the know now.
What's something you nerd out about? I bet it's something boyish and cute 🤭
I think you might be right, lol.
I nerd out over military tanks. It wasn't something I specifically sought out, but now, I know more than what's absolutely necessary for someone who will never be able to use one for it's intended purpose 🤣
But, I'm no regular nerd about it tho. Especially since I know that the abbreviations AP, APFSDS, APDS, APCR, HEAT, and HE stand for. I also know how & when to use them against other tanks of various kinds, including tank destroyers, AA, light tanks, medium tanks, and heavy tanks.
So, for future reference, if you don't want to hear me talk for hours about this stuff, don't ask 🤣
I'm kinda interested in learning more about your daddy side 🫢
Oh, gosh 🫠
Well, as you might already know, I don't really have a daddy side. Some people just think I have great daddy vibes, if that makes any sense.
On top of that, I don't actually know what it is about me that's giving those vibes, so I couldn't tell you about that stuff with complete honesty.
I guess I could tell you what I would do and how I would act if I had a switch partner for a day!
And I'll shorten this post cause it's gonna be a long one!
Morning:
I would wake up early enough that my little would still be asleep while I'm making breakfast (probably French toast or waffles cause they're so much cooler than pancakes.) Hopefully they will be able to smell the food enough in their sleep that they'll wake up knowing I'm already getting stuff prepared for them and that it's time to get up.
When they do get up and come to the kitchen, I would greet them (in a baby tone of course cause that's what they are!) I would ask how they slept, what their dreams were about, if I was in their dreams, and if they stayed warm through the night. (Cause dad's worry about that since they're required to keep the thermostat temperature low enough to save on bills every month.)
If they wear diapers or pull-ups, I would try and give them an embarrassing wetness check before they sit down to eat. I would say something like; "Hey, princesses. Let's check to make sure you won't leak at the dining table before you eat. Boop! All done! Go get yourself a plate while I get your stuff ready for the day."
While they're eating (if I trust them to eat alone) I would go and get an outfit set out for them with padding included if they wear it. I would probably choose clothes that are kind of little coded, but not super wild. Something like a light summer dress that's kinda short. Not enough to show any padding, but just short enough that I catch them pulling it down all day because they aren't confident it covers everything 🤭 Or a pair of overalls or shortalls because they are my biggest weakness, and I'll always think they're cute on girls.
For a diaper I would choose something pretty absorbent and baby-ish. Probably a Little Kings, Alpha Gator, or a Premium Nights so that they can be comfy with the cloth backed plastic. If they prefer plastic I would go for a Critter Caboose, a PeekABU, any color of Megamax (hopefully pink cause I love seeing girlies in pink diapers!)
And of course I would pack her diaper bag that I'll be carrying throughout the day with a few fresh diapers, creams, lotions, powder, and an extra change of clothes just in case she spills, leaks, or has a tape pop.
When all is said and done, I'd go back to the kitchen, take her plate to the dishwasher, and grab a cute printed rag to wipe her face and hands with (Cause how adorable is that!?) Then I'd take her by the hand and walk her to her room to get changed and ready for the day at the aquarium! Which I wouldn't tell her about until we're in the aquarium parking lot.
When we get to her room, I'll let her make any changes she wants to her outfit, like different socks, shoes, hats, under shirts, onesies, paci clips (if that can be hidden while in public.) But I think I would stay a little strict on what I already laid out for her, just to keep that "I'm still in charge" feeling going for her.
Once we're done figuring everything out, I would help dress and diaper her since I'll probably be the one with all the diapering experience 😝. And then we'd head out to the car!
Car ride:
For the car ride, I don't think I'd be too strict on where she sits in the car. I wouldn't mind if she wants to sit in the back seat if that helps her feel more litte. But I also wouldn't mind if she sat up front so I can hold her hand the whole way there, and look at her when we're talking. And I would let her choose the music since that's what a passenger princess does!
I would also try and play some road trip games like singing all the lyrics to this song, guess the artist, guess the album, read the road signs out loud for daddy, what model of car is that, story time, and all sorts of other things.
At the aquarium:
When we arrive in the aquarium parking lot that we've never been to before, I would finally announce that we are indeed going to the aquarium. Hopefully I get a giddy response to that cause it would melt my heart a lil.
I'd leave her diaper bag in the car so that security won't have do dig through her stuff before we go in. But I would absolutely check and make sure that she's dry, or mostly dry before we go in, just in case a change is necessary. I would say to her, "We don't want the aquarium to think they have leaky tanks, now do we?"
While we're in there, I would prefer to let her have free reign on where we go and how long we're there for. Curiosity and adventure is necessary for good brain development, don't you know?
But throughout our little aquatic adventures, I'll definitely be encouraging her to keep hydrated. This way, I can kind of stage a necessary diaper change at the car, hopefully midway through our day. I think that's something every diaper loving little wants to happen at least once in their life. I know I do!
When we're done with the diaper change, I would love to take her to lunch at the aquarium food court. I think I would choose the most childish restaurant to go to so we can keep the little feels going strong. And I'd definitely order for her, AND order a kids meal so she blushes super hard while the waiter writes everything down. And if they offer crayons, and activity sheets, you know those are getting ordered too!
After lunch, I would suspect that she's going to be pretty tuckered out. She may not admit it, but I would bet some serious money that she is. Going quiet all the sudden is a perfect queue for daddies that their littles need to get back to the car so they can sleep on the way home. Which they will also adorably deny when I ask if that's what they're gonna do on the way home.
Going back home:
When we get back to the car, I want her to feel super comfortable and content so that she does fall asleep on the way home. That's like the most adorable thing to me, and I'm absolutely going to try and get that to happen every chance I get 😏. So, I'll make sure to giver her paci, her stuffy, her blanket, and some juice or water so that she doesn't have to ask for any of it, and can just pass out as soon as we drive out of the parking lot.
Obviously, if everything works to plan, the drive home will be quiet and uneventful.
Back at home:
When we get home, I'd like to break out the "Let me do everything for you so you can get some rest."
I'd walk over to the side of the car she decided to ride in, open the door, gently wake her up, un-buckle her seat belt, and if I can, carry her inside. When we get inside, I'll certainly want to give her a diaper change since all that juice I gave her for the ride home is gone.
Once the change is done and she's all clean & fresh; I'd let her pick out some jammies, or a onesie and her favorite stuffy for her little nap, then put her in bed for a while.
While she's asleep, I'll be getting dinner ready. I think I would choose to make pasta since that's a dinner that I can Gordon Ramsay the shit out of. It'll be perfect for luring her out of bed for the second time that day.
When I'm nearly done making dinner, and I have her special baby cutlery and dishes set out on the table for her, I'll start the TV and put on our favorite cartoon. When she walks out to see what all the good smells are about, everything will be ready so she can just sit, eat, play, and enjoy the pretty colors on the TV until it's time for bed.
Bedtime:
Honestly, to me, bedtime routines are the John Hancock signature to a great little day. It needs to be made a pretty big deal so that they're thinking about it while they doze off to sleep. I think the best way to do that is to have a bedtime routine that she follows whenever she's little. Or all the time if she likes. Another way would be to have something like a story time, and or bath time so that there's something underlining the whole routine. Both are big moments, so it's good to have them. And of course, things like diaper changes, teeth brushing with baby-ish brushes and paste. Jammy dressing, stuffy choosing, deciding the contents of their bottle or supply cup. And last but not least, getting tucked in with a kiss to the forehead or nose.
And that's about all I got for now!
But, hey. Let's be honest. I'm just going off of what I would want as a little 🤣
I think it would be a better idea for me to communicate with her about what a perfect little day would look like in her eyes. That way, she can enjoy it a little more!
Hopefully that gives you a better idea of my more adult/daddy side. Which, again, isn't a huge part of who I am. It would be fun to do that stuff for someone fairly often! But I think I still prefer to be the little one of the house.
I've tried them in the past with absolutely zero success.
I will never be on one of those again now that I know they're really just another good way for companies to shove ads in my face. They definitely aren't purpose build to help people find real love like they claim.
I'll just stick to trying and fumbling the normal way. Don't have to see any ads for boner pills and cars I'll never be able to afford if I keep doing that. Plus, it's less likely that I'll get catfished.
You talk a lot about how good it feels to embrace your incontinence and wearing diapers 24/7. Congratulation on that shift!!!
Have you had to change your clothing choices to accommodate wearing diapers? And do you have pants/shorts recommendations that do a good job hiding diaper bulk (especially when it’s particularly full)?
Thank you!
I have had to change things over a bit to help everything fit more comfortably.
I recommend getting shorts that have an elastic waistband, or with something like a lace that you can tie. Possibly even something with belt loops. You'll want to look for shorts that are kinda bigger than you would get without sizing for diapers. And those will help keep the shorts up on your waist like they're supposed to be. You don't have to look specifically for a bigger size. Just shorts that are kinda bigger than your norm.
Pants are harder because if you get them too tight in the legs, diaper sag can be a real problem. I like to look for pants that have a normal length inseam, but a slightly wider waist. I also like pants that are breathable and stretchy, or light and loose.
Sometimes you'll be able to find pants and shorts that naturally have a deeper crotch gusset. But those are the ones you'll have to look a little harder for, and pay a little more for.
If you really wanna find the best fitting clothes that fit over used diapers; go to the store when you're really wet, and try stuff on then. That will make it heaps easier to find what works and what doesn't. Just don't leak on anything or you'll have to buy it.
And I don't have any brand recommendations. This is really something that you'll want to find your own stuff for. Different bodies and diapers work with different clothes!
But, please remember that it won't always be possible to hide everything! Adult clothes weren't made with diapers in mind, and therefore aren't built around them like adaptive clothing, or baby clothes. You don't have to give up on going outside just because you can't find clothes that hide it all.
Wear the diaper. Wear the clothes that fit over them. Live a happy diaper life!
Is wearing your bedwetting diapers outside of your house common for you? Sounds pretty risky.
It can be kinda risky!
Usually the only times I do that is if I have to leave the house for a short while, and my nighttime diaper isn't super wet. So most of the time it's no big deal. I'll usually change if I'm not 100% sure my diaper will make it through, though.
I do a lot of stuff like that to make sure I'm not wasting diapers. It's just something you learn to do when diapers are your underwear, and your budget matches that of the U.S. public transportation sanitation services (non existent).
Hi, Doe! Thank you for liking some of my stuff! It makes me happy when I see your name in my notifs 😝
Quick diaper question for you if you don't mind answering!
I was wondering if you ever got to the point where you stopped noticing you were waddling from diaper bulk?
If so, did you have to try and ignore it, or did you just have to get used to it?
If not, can you give me some tips on how to manage that embarrassment?
P.s. Thanks for bein' my friend!
-Milo.
Omgosh I love your content!!! You are so heckin cute and I definitely have soft spot for fellow IC folk in the community😊💖
Honestly, I'm pretty desensitized to a lot of aspects of my diaper wearing. I don't notice my diaper crinkle anymore (unless I'm trying to actually be stealthy, lol). I'm almost completely desensitized to smells, only ever noticing a small whiff here and there. I've stopped paying attention to my appearance to an extent. I don't put in as much to hide my diapers as I used to. I used to be extremely militant about hiding my diapers and it was actually negatively impacting my mental health.
Which brings me to waddling. I'm somewhat conscious of my waddle but usually it's when I'm thickly padded or my diapers are so full that I'm kinda forced into a prominent waddle. Last night as I leaving my car and making my way down the street my waddles was definitely pronounced, because my diaper was so full that I have leaked. I also had a rash from my diaper chafing🥲🥲
With that said, I'm not as self conscious about my diapers as I used to be. I'm aware of the waddling sometimes but I don't give it too much thought. I have shed a lot of fears and shame about diapers years ago. It took some active work on my part and I still get triggered over sudden messy accidents in public, but for the most part I'm not worried about people knowing if I'm not diapered or not. I got bullied and shamed a lot for it growing up and eventually I got tired of feeling scared all of the time.
I feel confident and safe being in diapers. They've actually made my life so much easier for me. I'm not shouting it thru the rooftops or telling everyone I see obviously, but I'm not stressing myself out over what other people might think.
One thing that has helped me about get past a lot of my fears (including my pronounced waddle) is that most aren't paying attention to you, and are usually quick to rationalize away weird habits (for lack of a better term). If you're waddling someone is more likely to assume that you have a leg injury, or just have a funny walk. I also find that in my adulthood must adults handle these kinds of things like adults, and mind their business. Most of my coworkers have been polite enough to discretely let me know when my diaper was peaking.
I'm not sure if anyone this has helped but hopefully sharing my experiences can help you overcome that embarrassment🥹🫶🏾💖
What's the first thing you wanna do with a mommy when you find one?
Well! To be honest, I haven't even been able to experience the simple stuff in a relationship yet. My last partner was, let's just say, very selfish.
I think for starters, I'd be more than happy to do really anything we wouldn't have to plan for. I mean, even going to the store, and having a deep conversation while we walk down the isles and work out the week's meal plans would be more than enough for me!
Right now, I crave genuine connection and love WAY MORE than fulfilling my kink bucket list.
I know that doesn't answer your question, but I can't for the life of me think of anything I want more than just a real connection right now.
