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Frayplatonic pride flag (2023) stimboard
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UPPER RHINE, 15TH CENTURY Pattern sheet with symbols of the Evangelists, various animals and a Wild Man ca. 1430 – 1440
ma first coining hoard….i guess…🍀
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PEACEGENDER☮️: when ur gender may feel peaceful, serene, and calm / ur gender may be related to peaceful ideologies or beliefs…wtvr this term may mean to user
SPECIESFLUX🔄: flag fur when ones identity/species fluctates between animal species (ex: unicorn->dog->ferret)…or wtvr else this may mean to user
PEACEFULASHELLALBUMIC🔥: flag fur anyone who may feel related to black dresses “PEACEFUL AS HELL” album or any songs within that album thru gender, identity, or wtvr else….
WHENTHEDOVESCRYALBUMIC🕊️: fur when ones identity, gender, etc may feel related to toxic lipstick’s “WHEN THE DOVES CRY” album…or any songs within that album….or wtvr else this may mean to user
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Biker: an alter whose role or part of whose role is to operate a two wheeled vehicle; such as a bike(traditional & ebike), scooter, dirtbike, or motorcycle. These alters tend to be better at operating the vehicle, but this doesn’t have to be the case! They might be more knowledgeable about the bike itself and its repair, this might also be part of their role.
Tagging for archival purposes: @radiomogai , @lioteds-archive , @rwuffles
Rumiko Takahashi’s Laughing Target.
Antalya, Turkey by Talip Çetin
The Tale of the Princess Kaguya - Directed by Isao Takahata
Relatumship Terminology
A relatumship or a Object Partnership is a relationship between an inanimate object and someone regarded as an animate person (an animate and inanimate for inclusivity.)
Guide:
Relatumship Term - Human Counterpart
& - Both can be used to refer to relatumships
¥ - Specific to relatumships
If no relatumship term is provided, then use a related term.
Terms for types of relatumships:
Bonded - Husband/Wife/Spouse (&)
Unity - Marriage (¥)
Detachment - Breakup (&,¥)
Divorced
Widowhood
Polyobjectamory/Objectum Polyamourous/Obpoly - Polyamory (&)
Monogamy
Polygamy
Courting - Flirting (¥)
Xeno-Objectship (¥)
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Terms for relatumship activities:
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Wedding
Pairing - Dating (&)
Sexual intercourse
Caregiving - Mutual grooming (¥)
Pet names
Love letters
Poetry
Drawing
Painting
Cooking
Dancing
Movies
Stargazing
Serenade
Oish - Crush (&,¥)
Terms for relatumship characteristics:
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Objectum Het
Objectum Queerhet
Diamorijectum
Object 4 Object
Mspec Lesbiobjectum
Cupio-objectum
Objecian
Aesthetic Objectum
Plush Platonic
Agaptum
Demiobjectum
Autojectum
Cannobjectum
Fictojectum
Tobiobjectum
Queerplatonic Objectum
Uranic Objectum
Neptunic Objectum
Saturnic Objectum
Veldian Objectum
Lesbian Objectum
Ultrojectum
Sapphojectum
Achillejectum
Anattractional Objectum
Sensual Objectum
Lesboyjectum
Platonic-ish Objectum
Alterous Objectum
Asobjectum/Arobjectum
Aziaceantum
Gray-Asexual/Aromantic Objectum
Object Flushed/Pale
Object Pitch/Ashen
Object Alteraffectis
Object Familial
Pansexual Objectum
Panjectum
Aesthetum
Object Cedural
Object Tutelary
Object Physical
Object Exteramo
Reversum
Terms for partners in relatumships include:
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Pairling/Pairlin/Pairia - Boyfriend/Girlfriend/Joyfriend (&)
Companion
Oiter/Obimus/Obiter - Partner (&)
Pairbond - Soulmate (&)
Object Lover/OL - Significant Other/SO (&,¥)
Sexual partner
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Binoflexible + Binitrix!!
Binoflexible (also known as Binotrixflexible) is a term for when one is binotrix (being bi or otherwise mspec with no attraction to women) but being flexible in this identity. A binoflexible individual will always be attracted to non-women but very rarely will be attracted to women.
Biniflexible (also known as Binitrixflexible) is a term for when one is binitrix (being bi or otherwise mspec with no attraction to men) but being flexible in this identity. A biniflexible individual will always be attracted to non-men but very rarely will be attracted to men.
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I kept going back and forth with what pronouns to use
But I finally figured out which one and how I want to use them!
I got new pronouns! I like 'em! 🏳️⚧️
Binotrix Pride Flag
Binotrix (bi-no-trix) or Binetrix (bi-ne-trix): someone who is bi- but not attracted to women; a nowoma- person considering emself bi+ in specific form(s) of attraction.
Combining the bisexual flag purple with enboric and mascic flags. - AP
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a term/identity for pwSchizoaffective who connect with being an angel or being of the sun and nature due to having a disconnect with people; with themes of angels, flowers, the forest, the sun, books, and words.
requested by anon!
[ID 1: A flag with 7 horizontal stripes, that gradients from bright yellow to dark-ish lime and back again. In the middle of the flag, there's the schizospec symbol in th color yellow, a w shaped arrow, which points both leftwards and rightwards. the arrow is surrounded by a spiky blob, reminiscent of an aura, which is the color yellow as well /end ID 1]
[ID 2: A lime line divider with a big bat symbol in the middle /end ID 2]
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just curious: are neogirl and neoboy considered nontrinary?
are they nonbinary in a binary system? if so, and the genders from such binary system are identical to two of the gendernesses within trinary system, then I'd say so.
typically it depends on if they are seen as nonbinary primarily/originally. does that make sense?
in my pov, neobinarities are philosophal.
I have facebook texts that talk about my viewpoints
here (link)
additional (link)
another point is: neomulher (roughly neowoman) means trans woman in Brazil, a humorous term by Jo Soares.
to break this down: if you believe "the future is not trinary", then yes neoboy is nontrinary
A point a friend on discord made was
People with "mild" variations are often invalidated when they call themselves intersex and attacked, and not all people feel safe saying they are intersex for that reason and end up saying they are perisex. A term between the two would help with the safety of those people who do not feel safe and who are often forced to be put in a position they are not in.
Not all people with mild variations consider themselves intersex. However, they are not considered perisex because they have variations in sex.
Not everyone likes to use intersex. This is because they may find it very medicalizing (and sometimes the person has a variation in visible sex, but does not fit or does not want to see it fit into any medical term) or they may find it not medicalizing at all (some people really have problems with their sexual variation, causing disabilities, for example, and prefer to use more medical terms that define this). So, for those who feel that intersex is too medicalizing a term, you may prefer to use alternative terms
I'm the asker about spectrum and I wanted to let you know these points
Also. When I think about intersex as a spectrum, I meant in the linguistic/conceptual aspect. As like graysexual is in the asexual spectrum.
Myself, my intersex variation isn't studied yet (partial or mild EIS). And mesosex resonates with me. Even though in the end I could go with just being a dyadic ally or questioning/quoisex/extersex. I also feel as if like both the terms perisex and intersex could fit me
Some people also say sex is a statistically bimodal spectrum. What do you think about it?
Thanks for sharing! I'm glad the term mesosex resonates with you 😄 It's honestly really useful to hear from people who feel the term mesosex resonates with them. I put the word out there because I had a sense there's a demand but as somebody who feels solidly intersex I feel honestly weird having a say in a label I don't myself use.
If you didn't see it already, a mesosex person chimed into the original thread.
To me intersex is the anti-medicalizing term, especially in contrast to DSD, which to me is 100% medicalized. But that's just me!
Analogies about Biological Sex
So you also asked about my thoughts on sex as a "statistically bimodal spectrum", and the short answer is I think the term bimodal is misleading and possibly circular, and there are better analogies out there.
I already agree with what others have pointed out about sex not being a spectrum - a spectrum has one dimension (a line), and sex has dozens of dimensions (chromosomes, hormones, etc). Out of the analogies I've seen, I like most Hans Lindahl's train tracks analogy for sex development.
But I'm gonna guess that by "sex as a statistically bimodal spectrum" you mean "sex as a statistically probability distribution/density" and take this as something distinct from the sex-as-spectrum model.
As it turns out, I have a lot to say about "bimodal"
In my experience, people tend to have huge misconceptions about what statistically bimodal means. It understandably gets conflated a lot with the idea that there are two separate populations.
So let's think about height. People will say things like "height is bimodal" because they're conditioned to think that men and women are separate, and the average man is taller than the average woman.
And when they say things like "height is bimodal" they think the distribution for adults will look like this:
But here's what the adult human height distribution looks like:
The thing about normal/Gaussian distributions is that adding them together is tends to result in something that also looks normal/Gaussian.
If we look back at pink and blue distributions I hand drew, there's a visual sleight of hand going on there. Where the area under the curve is pink or blue, we can think of one pixel as representing one human in the data set. But in the part where they overlap, it's not one pixel per human, its one pixel for two humans - one from the womens' data set, one from the men's data set.
The result is that the size of the overlap looks half as small as it should be. It leads people to mistakenly think there is less overlap between men and women than there actually is.
So if we actually take that overlap and show how the distributions add together, we get something that immediately stops looking so "bimodal":
With the two probability distributions that I drew there might be a small dip in the middle, but it would be quite small. 🙃
Two probability distributions need to be really far apart for them to produce something that actually looks bimodal. (Specifically, the difference between the means needs to be smaller than twice the standard deviation - details here.)
True bimodal distributions are rare. They do exist in nature. But most of the time when people see a probability distribution with two peaks, it is a result of misleading visuals, noisy data, or poorly-binned histograms. 👀
In grad school I was taught that bimodality is a sign your data is suspicious: "Statisticians are trained to be suspicious of distributions with multiple modes. Such distributions usually indicate inhomogeneity in the system, or, in plainer language, different causes for the different modes. All familiar proverbs about the inadvisibility of mixing apples and oranges apply." (Gould, 1981)
In particular, the misinterpretation of (apparently) bimodal data has been used to confirm eugenicist ideas about racial differences, because when it comes to statistics we're always a step or two away from having to grapple with the legacy of eugenics. ⚠️
So let's get back the original question about seeing sex as statistically bimodal. The average person understands bimodal to mean "two populations", not statistical bimodality.
So before I even get into what sex even is, right off the bat this analogy is dangerously circular: sex is what it is because it's two separate populations.
Sex in humans is determined by a whole bunch of things that tend to correlate with each other (chromosomes, SRY gene, androgen levels, androgen sensitivity, estrogen levels, estrogen sensitivity, etc), so I can see the desire to illustrate that some things co-occur together more than others!
But I agree with @queercripintersex in the discussion of your previous ask that trying to project the multiple dimensions of sex into one dimension loses too much information, and is difficult to even do because so many factors are non-continuous (chromosomes, etc).
For the continuous variables, you can in theory try to find out if they have bimodal probability distributions. But quite rapidly run into issues of poor data. The data on testosterone levels in women is shockingly insufficient. Like I went looking for distributions of free testosterone levels and just look at how much noisier and sparse the data is for women (on the left) compared to men (on the right):
Source: Ooi et al, 1198
Even with all the noise in the data it's still unlikely that at any of the age categories, that the men's data and women's data added together would produce bimodal distributions. There's too much overlap.
As a general rule of thumb, any given physical difference (hormones, measurements, etc) has more variation within the sexes than between them.
Our culture has vastly overestimated the biological differences between the sexes. 😫 So I worry that adopting a sex-as-bimodal-distributions analogy will only feed this misconception. 🫤 I'm personally going to avoid using the analogy.
White Stripe Asexual Pride Flag
White Stripe Asexual: an umbrella term for people within asexual community that is not necessarily asexual, although they may or may not be. Including questioning, traumatized, aromantics (that wish to be included), unlabeled, fluid/abro people, asexual people's partners who are celibatary, etc.
They aren't usually represented by grey/partial or black/null areas. It's the counterpart of black stripe asexual.
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୨୧ coiner flags
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flags for different types of coiners! in order of left to right, the flags are for: liom coiners, mogai coiners, qai coiners, moqai coiners, liomoqai coiners, and liomogai coiners. since the flags are kind of similar, especially the last three, i used shapes to help add differentiation.
more will be coming soon; see this post for what i'll be making!
flags by us!
please do not repost our creations, or add them to any wikis. our terms and flags can be used by everyone!
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did you coin nontrinary?
https://leptrois.tumblr.com/post/652080651903909888/trinary-timeline I found a lot of links here crediting you.
I'm a bit confused on it's definition though. I think of nontrinary as just the trinary version of nonbinary, so it would include atrinary, midtrinary, anything that isn't strictly one trinary gender all the time (and any other specification that are applied to nonbinary).
but the definitions linked don't seem to match, like they seem more narrow.
so if I'm looking to credit a source for nontrinary, do I credit one of those links even though I use a different definition? And I'm not sure which one to credit, as the definition keeps changing.
also, what does "some people can describe nonternary as abinary with gender alignment" mean?
2 disclaimers:
Maybe I worded the definitions not adequately as I wanted. Mainly because I didn't put so much effort in describing them meticulously or because my English was bad, or because I had learning issues, such as dyslexia, combined with the fact that I probably had a manic episode (plus probably daydreaming, psychosis, dissociation, hallucinations, schizophasia, and glossolalia) while coining them. Honestly, I'm involved in all these terminologies, be it anonymously or sideblogs. Except some, such as anontrinary (by mogai-mom).
I like scales, I'm into hard sciences. So I have my own PoVs of everything, I like exogenous analogies and transdisciplinarity, and the urge to expand concepts and conlanging. Sometimes, in these situations, I divagate, that's when I'm explaining things you know. @gender-archival even said I recoined my own terms because of my "contradictory explanations" and I was using another pseudonym.
Answering directly:
Yes, as far as I can tell, I was bold to coin it independently. Maybe someone else used it hypothetically somewhere else, I couldn't be against this hypothetical use of it hypothetically. Honestly, it feels like I patented a gender when in fact it was always able to be defined in other ways that people would get what I meant, by analogy with nonbinary. So, use one of those links. BUT, when I coined non(qua)ternary, I technically coined nonternary as a potential synonym of nonquaternary (nonquadnary/nonquadrinary). That's because androgyne could be its own gender. Like the fourth gender wouldn't be hierarchically distinct from the third you know.
Last answer: that definition was suggested by @mogai-ringo, I think. Stereotypically, having an alignment is interpreted as being gendered or midbinarily gendered, and being neutrally aligned means that you're unaligned or nonaligned. If you think about it, it's nonsensical, but that's how some people see it biasedly. You can wait for her to explain about her PoV, maybe it would be better, because right now I'm not sane to guess so much something that I forgot exactly what I felt when using this sentence. If it helps (probably not), I was this anon. What will really help you is that I agree with everything said here. I like when people mitigate or evaluate my terms too, and a lot of the time it's accurate, except when they try to be narrower than me most times.
TL;DR yes I coined; it's not narrow and it should follow the nonbinary definition just replacing binary with trinary.
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Btw, I don't mind other people semioticizing my terms. I actually like the idea of self-interpretation, philosophizing, and using them as they please. I don't mind prosifications. In this aspect, I deliberate a lot.
I noticed the term nontrinary was a meme back in 2021 or around. Like you know it's not a niched protologism anymore when big pages and high profile users start to react to it. And atrinary is nichedly popular I'd say, there are even a lot of backlash, commotion, and aftermath -trinary terms received. But I wasn't the first one to allude to the gender trinary and wikis make it clear now.
Important note
Something that I intentionally omitted when posting the second atrinary flag specifically is including the lack of full genderlessness (agenderness). Because then I interpreted that a- prefixed arities would always include agender (except anullary, but was that ever coined‽). That would be too late, except that I made some efforts in sideblogs to re-explain it and I'm not sure if that perspective caught on. Huh, you see wikis saying "not necessarily", almost like because neutrality and neutrois are seen as agenderedness. It's up for interpretation at this point. This I must confess that I recoined my own term.