A Rose without Porn

~♡❤♡~ A Rose without Porn Porn Free Rose. 25. Female. Feminist of sorts. Not a SJW. You can find me on reddit's nofap and pornfree subreddits as arosewithoutporn. About Me | Porn Free, No Fap & Anti-Porn Resources

[arosewithoutporn]

[micdotcom]

Introducing Fredrick, a period-tracking app for dudes

It’s common knowledge that women turn into vicious, blood-spurting rage monsters when they menstruate. Now, thankfully, there is an app — developed by a man! — to help dudes deal with their girlfriends’ hysteria during the time of the month they’re too gross to have sex with. "Track her cycle, keep your sanity.“ (Actual slogan.) It’s difficult to choose what’s the most cringe-worthy thing about Fredrick. 

[gallicinvasion]

What the LITERAL FUCK is this fucking shit. Are you seeing this??

[fisadeepforestgreen]

I hope it’s spyware, used to track down and kill every man who installs the app. Open it and a SWAT-team of three highly skilled women is sent to your house. They’ll end your life swiftly as you sob and beg for mercy. “Come now, don’t get hysterical“, one of them will snigger. “I can’t listen to this anymore, I’d quite like to keep my sanity”, another will add with a sneer. The third one will say nothing, but look you straight in the eyes as she pulls the trigger. “She’s probably on her period” is the last thought to cross your mind.

Meanwhile, your girlfriend has been sleeping soundly through your cries. Thanks to the silencer, even the shot doesn’t wake her.

[gallicinvasion]

PLEASE YES

[purplebuddhaproject]

No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.

Gautama Buddha (via purplebuddhaproject)

[arosewithoutporn]

See what Stefonknee Wolscht (stefonknee) has discovered on Pinterest, the world's biggest collection of everybody's favorite things.

This seems to be Stefonknee’s pinterest. It is full of age play and sissy boy stuff. This is why I cannot take him seriously. Dressing as a 6 year old girl is a fetish for him.

[chemicalfedqueen]

A home for waifs, strays & perverts

The Transgender umbrella now encompasses anyone who does not identify with their birth sex. Transgender activists have opened up the umbrella to ensure that anyone, who does not identify as binary, is welcomed with open arms.

On paper this sounds great to have such inclusiveness and provide a safe community for people searching for answers to their identity and to provide safe space in which to talk about feelings and life experience.

However, this willingness to accept anyone gender questioning under the umbrella and the embracement of queer theory , means that the Trans community has scored an “ own goal” and now has to accept & support a variety of Trans people who have murdered, raped, molested children and are involved in various lifestyles considered by many to verge on perverted.

The recent case of Stefonknee Wolscht, the 53 yo who identifies as a 6 year old girl, enjoys play therapy with young girls and who openly admits to getting erections while thinking about this and anal sex is ever increasing evidence of the embracement of people for their gender questioning, without batting an eyelid about their lifestyle choices.

The fact Stefonknee also abandoned a wife & 7 children, was tried in court for abuse , violent nature & pays no maintenance for the children, again is lost in the fact that “She” is a Trans woman ( or Trans girl) who falls under the Transgender umbrella and must be supported by the community.

There are many, many, transgender people who just want to live a life free from pain & depression and they far outweigh the waifs, strays & perverts currently finding a home under the Transgender umbrellas.

Public opinion, public acceptance has changed towards Trans people in recent years, with some high profile celebrity transitions, but people like Stefonknee Wolscht and the continuing acceptance of murderers, rapists & pedophiles who transition while in prison etc, will turn that public opinion.

The Trans community needs to look inwards and accept that it has become a home for undesirables, being Trans does not mean that past crimes or current lifestyles can be forgotten.

[arosewithoutporn]

I've been porn free for three weeks now. It feels longer though. Keeping busy has helped a lot. Night time is still a bit of a problem though. There's more good news. As you probably know from reading this tumblr, I'm trying to stop fantasizing about certain fetishes (non-con, for example). I just don't like that I get off to this kind of stuff and I don't think it is all that healthy from my pov. The good news is that the last time I masturbated, I didn't get off to a fetish fantasy. It was a normal fantasy. I've been watching and reading fetishy porn for so long that I wasn't sure my brain could go back to soft, vanilla fantasies.

[arosewithoutporn]

It isn't just one woman. Eight women have come out against James Deen with allegations of sexual assault. How can people still try to say all these women are lying? Why would eight different women all lie about such a serious allegation? What would they gain from it? Why are some of you guys so eager to defend James Deen, a man you really don't know?

[arosewithoutporn]

Hi everyone. I'm a woman who has been porn free for 2 weeks now. I started watching porn when I was 12 which is also around the same time that I...

[arosewithoutporn]

You do realize that being arrested for something and being convicted of something are two different things? Can you prove you didn't rape a child? No? I guess you're a child rapist then Rose :-)

Oh shit, anon. You got me there. How are you so clever? :-)

[arosewithoutporn]

First I hear about James Deen and now I'm reading about how Nicki Minaj bailed out her child rapist brother. Ugh.

[c0ntinents-deactivated20180819]

What To Know About The Sexual Assault Allegations Against James Deen

Here's everything that's happened since Stoya's initial allegation.

What. The. Fuck. 

[dreamdrastic]

So as more women come forward, my opinion is unchanged. See the thing about the whole situation that makes my skin crawl is that even if the women are telling the truth, they worked with this man everyday. They let other people become victims of the same man that made victims out of them. People keep calling me trash because of my opinion and because I question the situation. How can you not question all of these women who did not put their rapist behind bars, no, they just kept working with him. That makes me doubt their stories. Because even if he did rape these women, they now have no proof. So instead of reporting their rapist and sending him to prison, they let many more women get raped. So the reason why I question the truth of their stories is so I don’t have to question their humanity. Because what kind of woman would put another human through the kind of pain that a rape victim goes through? Especially if the rapist is in a position where he’s introduced to his next possible victim everyday. No, that does not make sense to me. It doesn’t make sense that these rape victims would continue working with their attacker. It does not make sense to me that they wouldn’t even try to take him to court. It does not make sense to me that he has been in the adult film industry for 10 years and no one reported him or even tried to get their story out there. It doesn’t make sense to me that no one questions someone who wouldn’t tell their friends and coworkers about the rapist on set. It does not make sense to me that some of the victims that have come forward have even stated that they became “friends” with James Deen after the “incident”. There are so many facts that contradict eachother.

Eventually if the “victims” do not take Deen to court, they will most likely be sued for slander because it’s all just word of mouth with no actual proof. So not only will they let their alleged “rapist” walk free, but he would most likely make millions from the case. If they do take him to court, the case will be thrown out because their is no tangible evidence. So these women will eventually have to recant their stories either way. This case makes it harder for other survivors to come out and get the support they need. It’s not okay for me to support something that could hurt other survivors in the future.

[arosewithoutporn]

You're blaming the victims. These women did porn as their job. They were most likely afraid of being labeled a "troublemaker" and no longer get work for one thing. Unfortunately, the sexual assault and lack of consent in the porn industry is nothing new. There have been plenty of former pornstars who have spoken out about abuse they went through while they were porn stars.  Plenty of male pornstars have and still do get away with violating consent while filming.

I'm more inclined to believe these women because there are multiple women claiming the same thing and sexual assault in the porn industry is not unheard of. 

How can you expect a sexual assault or rape victim to immediately turn around and be a hero to save other women? When a person is sexually assaulted or raped it is mentally and emotionally taxing on the person. And every victim/survivor reacts differently. There is also the fear of not being believed and having people go after you instead of the rapist even when you are telling the truth. Often times the rapist has more power than the victim as well. Rapists tend to pick people who they believe are weaker than them. There are many reasons why a rape victim might not speak out right away.

Nicki Blue did try to report her sexual assault when it happened. She posted it on the Kink forums but her post was deleted. So, even when one of the women tried to speak out she was stopped. 

[arosewithoutporn]

James Deen was labeled the "boy next door" type of guy. He's always had this reputation of a guy who cared about his women co-stars and was all about consent. He was a feminist porn star according to his fans. Now it turns out he's sexually assaulted some of the women he worked with including his ex girlfriend Stoya. How do you know that the porn you watch is truly consensual? James Deen is disgusting.

[burning-rejoice]

How Stoya took on James Deen and broke the porn industry's silence

When a porn star says that she has been raped, she faces the idea that her job means she had it coming. Stoya – in her first interview since accusing James Deen – and a chorus of adult performers argue that the problem in porn isn’t the sex: it’s the culture

This is incredibly important. 

[radicalfeministuprising]

(Porn performer) Stoya told The Guardian, “If you hold someone down and fuck them while they say ‘no’ and ‘stop’ and use their fucking safeword, that is rape. But when it first happened, I felt numb. And I went to work the next day. And I went to work the day after that. And I did a scene with him two days after, maybe three days after, I’m not sure. Then I felt like I’d been violated by someone I trusted.”

Stoya continued, saying, “It took me months and months and months, over a year of months, to be able to call it what it was — which was rape.” Arabelle Raphael, a porn performer whose friend had told her she’d been assaulted by Deen, said there was fear in the porn industry about even showing support for Stoya, saying,  “Just showing solidarity is something people are having to talk about and question.”

It’s great that people are finally listening to women about rape in the porn industry.

It’s tragic that it’s becoming more about this one rapist and not the fact that rape is actually commonplace (if not epidemic) in that industry, an industry which is predicated on women’s subjugation to men.

[arosewithoutporn]

When the Whole World Knows You As the King of Revenge Porn, What Do You Do Next?

Craig Brittain ran the revenge porn site Is Anybody Down? Now he's launching a competitor to Uber. Does he deserve a fresh start?

Brittain, a 28-year-old Colorado native, started IsAnybodyDown? in 2011 along with a collaborator named Chance Trahan. The site was a copycat of another site for non-consensual nudes that had gone viral a year earlier, called Is Anybody Up? Like its progenitor, Brittain’s site wasn’t just a place for jilted exes to go public with once intimate images. Brittain tricked women into sending him their nudes; according to a complaint by the Federal Trade Commission, he posed as a woman on Craigslist in women-seeking-women spaces to get women to send him pictures he later posted online. He then assumed another alias, an attorney, who would offer to get the photos removed for a few hundred dollar fee.

... But how do you start life anew when Googling your name brings up old mugshots and headlines labeling you a “horrible dude?”

First off, Brittain filed a takedown request demanding that Google stop linking to nearly two dozen websites that he claimed illegally used photos and information about him without his permission. The irony here was not subtle: Brittain had reaped thousands of dollars in profit publishing nude images of women without their consent and now he felt exposed by his own sensitive images floating around online.

... He launched a Twitter handle, AuditTheMedia, devoted to railing against mainstream media websites that he feels “shame” people like him in exchange for hits. He’s cropped up as a supporter of the controversial GamerGate movement....

I have no sympathy for this guy and I hope his past follows him around for the rest of his life. This guy hasn’t changed at all. He’s just upset that he got caught and now wants to hide what he did because the internet is saying mean things about him. If he wasn’t being shamed online he wouldn’t care.

[jangysprangus-blog]

Pornhub Seeks To Normalize Porn By Offering $25,000 Scholarship To Teens

Pornhub, the world’s largest porn site, is back at it again with their seemingly never-ending attempts to normalize pornography in society. The massive online porn clip hub announced Thursday that it is offering a $25,000 scholarship to one legal age college student. The applicants for this scholarship need a 3.2 GPA, an essay answering the […]

“Pornhub Cares” … i… i can’t believe it, but i’m fucking speechless. between this and their breast cancer awareness campaign i just wanna fucking crawl into a cave and leave society behind.

[celtyradfem]

They know women need higher degrees to earn money and they know women still make less money and their are a lot of women who don’t have a proper support system.

They know there isn’t all that many opportunities for women in general. They know that many girls have been previously abused and have already been beaten down and groomed.

They are doing this to us and ruin many women’s lives and then they are going to turn around and say we ‘choose this‘ and it is how we handle ‘freedom‘.

They should be shut down for this especially after that raping immigrants porn.

[fucknopornblogs]

This is porn culture in action.