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Hi! Nikki, I don't know u personally but I need help / advice from you since you wrote several times about that age gap thing. So, I have a good friend. He is older than me. Quite more than 5 years. I think we both like each other but he never expresses openly yet talks in a way lovers talk. Also, he is seeing someone else. Being his friend, should I let him get closer to me ? Since he is in a relationship with another girl, I don't know what to do.
Hi there,
I'm glad you reached out to me! Always feel free to do so when you are confused and think I can help 😊
Okay first off, how old are you? Because if you're 17 and he's 22 vs if you're 23 and he's 27 that's very different. Not that if you're an adult the age gap doesn't matter. It still does.
But considering everything you've said, to me this doesn't even seem about the age gap.
He doesn't seem like a very nice friend or boyfriend. The way you've described him, I've known many of such boys. They are not one bit sincere and they seem to only care about themselves.
If he is in a relationship with someone but still talks to you in a flirty manner or in a way a lover does, that's a major red flag and you should distance yourself from him.
And even if he's not in a relationship with someone but keeps flirting with you or trying to get intimate without saying he likes/loves you romantically and wants to date you then that also is a major red flag.
In both the cases he's just trying to play you which is not what you deserve.
As you said, I talk a lot about the age gap. I've been in multiple situations where charming boys older to me kept using the term 'friendship' to mess with me. I took friendship seriously and cared about my friends but they just used that term so that they could either get sexual with me or string me along.
When you're younger, it's not easy for you to realise when someone is emotionally manipulating you to get what they want. And while "not all boys" may do that, trust me love, "most" guys will. Especially when they are teenagers or in their 20s.
So what I'm trying to say is that you should distance yourself from this person who doesn't seem to have the best interests for you at heart. Even if it seems like.
Boys who keep you lingering without ever directly expressing their love or committing to something meaningful like a relationship should just shut up and be a friend and not cross the line or walk away.
But since they are selfish they will not do either of that. I know you said he is a good friend and so it may be hard for you to view him in a negative light but from my and many of my close friends'experiences, love, I'm telling you this boy is bad news. His behaviour doesn't seem consistent with his words/intentions.
And whether it's a boy or girl, younger or older, friend or lover, if someone is not consistent in their behaviour or is not sincere, then they are not good for you or worth your time.
Please consider what I've said and take care of yourself 💕
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A few self care things to remember -
🌼 your instincts are usually right. if it feels wrong, don’t do it.
🌼 dong be afraid to say no and set boundaries
🌼 if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all
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🌼 comparisons help no one
🌼 it’s okay to be sad. you don’t have to be glad that it’s not worse
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