AsexualSailorMoon

cis | she/her | demisexual | panromantic | sagittarius | ENFP | sociology major | gws major | 9teen | vegetarian #blacklivesmatter #muslimlivesmatter #translivesmatter

[lvnnsi]

07/16/16

[flowerdy]

i think sunflowers are the happiest flowers

[braletme]

Fleur of England, Boudoir guipure bra // 185 $

[marcusdixon]

[cocoanobutter]

IF 👏🏿 YOU 👏🏿 DONT 👏🏿 SUPPORT 👏🏿BLACK 👏🏿 LGBT 👏🏿 LIVES 👏🏿 THEN 👏🏿YOU 👏🏿 DONT 👏🏿 THINK 👏🏿 BLACK 👏🏿LIVES 👏🏿 MATTER!!!! SO 👏🏿 SHUT 👏🏿YOUR 👏🏿 BITCH 👏🏿 ASS 👏🏿 UP!!!!

[xlovexisxblindx]

[luridite]

please remember that it is better to eat unhealthily than to not eat at all

[letters-to-lgbt-kids]

My dear lgbt+ child,

The internet gives anonymity to your words and that can be a lovely thing. Tumblr and other social media can be wonderful safe places where you can openly talk about your sexual and/or romantic orientation or your gender identity.  Especially if you are “still in the closet” or surrounded by not-supportive people offline, it can be very helpful to be able to share your feelings online. You might even find lgbt+ friends more easily online than offline (for example, if your access to lgbt+-centered offline places is limited). 

But the same anonymity sadly also allows narrow-minded or downright hateful people to spread negativity. And, as heartbreaking as it is, you’ll even find narrow-minded hateful people inside the lgbt+ community.   

I wish i could provide you with a solution how you can make sure nobody ever will say anything negative about your orientation/gender identity. You deserve to be surrounded with positivity, support and love. While i can sadly not perform a magic spell to keep you away from hatefulness, i will do what i can do to bring positivity onto your dash and into your life. 

Here are a few tips for how to deal with negativity online: 

1, You can block people, including anons. Don’t be afraid to do that. Tumblr is supposed to be fun, not a constant battle to prove yourself to idiots who comment mean things under your posts. If someone does that, block them and they can’t see your posts anymore. 

2. You can report people if they send you death threats, rape threats, unsolicited sexual messages/pictures etc. Don’t be afraid to do that either. They break the guidelines of this website (and in some cases, the law) and you don’t need to tolerate that. Don’t believe Tumblr will ignore it - From my own experience i can say they are quick to delete blogs that send death threats. They don’t tolerate that and neither do you have to.  

3. Turning off anon often dramatically reduces the number of hateful messages you receive. Bullies are cowards, they think twice before they send hate off-anon. 

With love, 

Your Tumblr Mom 

[babyanimalgifs]

baby animals blog

[asexualsailormoon-blog]

Aw tysm! Of course :)

much love :-)

[asexualsailormoon-blog]

Really loving your blog and how much female positivity there is here 💖

aw thank you!!

[littlegecks]

flower child

[loafinglizards]

Happy bean

[acornfaerie]

me: daydreams about running away by myself and living in a cozy rose covered cottage in the middle of a misty forest as a coping mechanism

[chessys]

*sabotages my own happiness and success* why does nothing good ever happen :/

[youthcub]

[lunaplease]

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[lushlity]

More at Lushlity

[neddel]

how to make (more) friends

make the first step - if you like this girl’s necklace, go and tell her. 

ask them questions - this shows you are interested 

dont force things, real friendships are based on honesty, trust and it will take some time

share with them personal stuff, this makes them feel special (as they know something which is a secret)

criticize them when they are around and protect them when they are not

have inside jokes, like somthing you find funny but others wouldn’t understand

be faithful and treat them the way you would like to be treated

there will be situations when you won’t share the same opinion, think about which is more important to you - to end up right or to keep your friendship

have sleepovers or make girls/boys nights without posting 32143 photos on the social media, this makes it fake

dont ignore your closest ones because you have found a lover

dont take your friends for granted

[daughtersofhistory]

“I am that clumsy human, always loving, loving, loving. And loving. And never leaving.” ― Frida Kahlo