to eternity together

Victoria Harper Grayson; Southampton, New York. Mother of Patrick, Daniel, and Charlotte. Stepmother to Margaux. Art enthusiast, humanitarian, and socialite. Married to Pascal LeMarchal.

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Do you still go to therapy? Has pascal or Daniel ever gone with you and was it helpful?

I do, as there’s still a lot to work through. I’ve never done a session with Pascal or Daniel. I’m sure it would be helpful, but neither of them are keen on therapy and I don’t want to pressure them. Perhaps sometime in the near future they’ll change their minds.

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Is the fact that pascal cheated on you still a sore spot or have you both moved on? Do you trust him as if it hadn't happened? And why did you break up with him when it happened vs staying with Conrad even knowing that he cheated on you pretty much your whole marriage?

We’ve both moved on from it. We had to, in order to be together. I fully trust Pascal.

Because Conrad was a marriage of convenience. It wasn’t the same. I genuinely loved Pascal.

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How many times a week do you have sex now you're a while married?

A lot has changed these past six months. My willingness to answer these sorts of questions, however, has not.

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How do you know pascal didn't cheat on you before you moved back to New York? After you caught him cheating didn't you question if he had done it before?

Because Pascal was, and still is, a terrible liar. And word would have gotten back to me if he’d been unfaithful. I was very close with his friends.

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Would you like for dominik & Patrick to meet each other?

I would love for them to meet, and I believe they would get on well. 

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"He wasn't reckless when we were together" oh yeah that's why pascal cheated on you first chance he got. That's not reckless or anything.

I was referring to the two years we were together in Paris. “The first chance he got”? Please, he could have cheated on me long before I moved back to New York.

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Was Conrad ever ashamed of you for not finishing high school?

He was almost as ashamed as I was.

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Are you happy Daniels dead now bc you get to spend time with him?

Of course not, all I ever wanted for my children was for them to lead happy lives. Daniel deserved to accomplish his goals and have a family of his own.

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When you were living by yourself with Patrick did you ever go hungry/not have enough food?

I had to skip meals every now and then, but I never let Patrick go a day without eating.

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Were you disappointed that Daniel didn't testify for the girl who was raped at his party?

I couldn’t bring myself to feel disappointed in him, not when he was already so disappointed in himself. He really wanted to testify. 

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Where are you?!?!? For Victoria: how are you and pascal at the moment?

We’re very happy, thank you for asking.

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Did you ever try any other kinds of art besides drawing/painting like sculpture?

I did, for a couple of projects while I was in art school, but it didn’t come naturally to me.

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Were you offended that Conrad made you sign a prenup the first time you married?

On the contrary, I expected it.

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Would you say that for the most part you are happy and at peace now? Or do you still have some stuff to work through?

My ghosts will always be a part of me, but I do believe I have finally found the peace and happiness I spent my entire life searching for.

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Was it hard for you to be around Bill after knowing he was the one who told Conrad about you and David?

Yes, especially since I could never stand the man to begin with.

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If you had never had children would you have killed yourself

Well, that depends. What would my life have turned out like in this hypothetical scenario?

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Do you just have a thing for married men 😃

Did those men have a thing for cheating on their wives?