The 1950′s Household and How Male Couples Can Reclaim It
I would consider myself a progressive person in that I strongly advocate for people to be judged on their own merits and not the basis of their gender or sexuality. I think it’s a good thing that women and feminine gay men have the opportunities to expand their horizons in whichever way they please in modern society.
The problem is, however, that in redefining the boundaries of gender roles we might lose sight of the things that Men and women have always played important roles in being good at. Men have been the providers, the protectors, the breadwinners, and the leaders. Certainly there are women and fem guys that can fulfill all of those qualities themselves and they deserve a chance to have their shot at proving that.
The reality is that for myself, and frankly I feel for the vast majority of women and submissive gay men, we don’t want Men to be reduced to this artificial “equal playing field” with us, whether we care to admit it or not.
Equality of opportunity is not equal to equality of achievement. The Alpha Men of society are still just as brilliant and successful as They were before and Their disproportionate influence and representation to women and faggots in positions of leadership is not some vast sexist conspiracy. They simply have what They deserve.
The traditional households stereotypically associated with the 1950’s gave a structure that allowed Men to serve in Their rightful place and Their spouses to tend to their Man’s needs while all of their basic means of living were covered by their Husband. Divorce rates were almost non-existent and marriage played an important binding structure in our culture.
Since then, society has made some important evolutions. We’ve realized that women should have equal opportunity to choose their own life. We’ve become more savvy to issues of rape, incest, and domestic violence and take efforts to stop this and support victims. Plus we’ve enabled LGBT people to pursue their own relationships and marriages.
What has also happened, unfortunately, is that we’ve thrown out the baby with the bath water. Men have been emasculated and any mention of Alpha Male Superiority or a desire for a male-led household is frowned upon. I think it’s no coincidence that divorce rates have skyrocketed as society attempts to disassemble a natural hierarchy that makes for healthy families. When two people have equal authority in all aspects of a relationship for many people it leads to nothing more than petty arguments and a constant power struggle.
As a gay man who knows at his core that he’s a submissive faggot, and has always wanted a romantic Man-led marriage, I feel compelled to do what I can to HELP the institution of marriage. We as faggots aren’t afraid to acknowledge Male superiority. In fact we idolize Men and find each and every aspect of masculinity to be hot as hell.
Let’s set a good example for society by supporting Men in their rightful place. Pick up after your Man, clean for Him, cook for Him, do as He tells you, and listen to Him. Don’t be ashamed of the fact that you will bend over backwards to look good for Men and serve Them as superiors.This will make you a good spouse and set things right for society.
Together, fellow fags, let’s do everything we can to honor Men and support this natural hierarchy as a binding agent for a healthy society with Men as the head of Their households.
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