i'm gay

reality is a rude awakening when you only love me in my dreams

[mysharona1987]

[strapping-young-butch-deactivat]

having my fingers knuckle deep inside a pretty girl would heal me i think

[angelbabymikaa]

i love pasta & gay women. send tweet.

[shisogelee]

i am so serious when i say we as young adults are so starved and deprived of community

[shisogelee]

like we as a generation - i'm talking especially young adults who are just entering the workforce - are so so lonely! i think about it all the time. between the incoming recession and cost of living crisis + the rise of wfh + processing pandemic trauma so many of us live deeply isolated lives and i think we deserve better...i'm working fully remote and i consider myself lucky because i do have friends that i see regularly but there's a hunger for that place you can go to to be around people in an organic but meaningful way to you that is not being addressed rn! we now more than ever need communities!

[the-lincyclopedia]

This maybe sounds mean, but I think we should be able to send doctors “hey, you were wrong” letters.

I was misdiagnosed with asthma when I was 12 and took asthma meds daily for seven years, and then it turned out I hadn’t had asthma in the first place; I actually have a different breathing problem. I don’t think the doctor who told me I had asthma (my pediatrician, who I was no longer seeing by that point) ever found out she’d been wrong. (This is one of at least four misdiagnoses in my life, from a variety of doctors, that I can think of off the top of my head.) Similarly, my first therapist told me she didn’t think I was autistic because I wasn’t obsessed with trains. I don’t think she ever found out that I am, in fact, autistic, because I wasn’t seeing her by the time I was diagnosed.

I get that it might be demoralizing to have someone contact you specifically to tell you that you messed up, but I think it would be useful for doctors to have data on how often they misdiagnose patients, especially since some doctors tend to think the patient is generally wrong when attempting self-diagnosis. It would be useful for my former therapist to move me from the mental column of “people who erroneously think they’re autistic” to “people whose autism I did not notice when they were right in front of me.” It would be useful for my pediatrician to realize she needed to look more closely and listen to kids when their breathing symptoms weren’t the classic asthma ones.

Doctors can get on their high horse and refuse to believe patients a lot of the time, and the power dynamic makes that dangerous in plenty of situations. I think it would be helpful to have a way to at least alert doctors when we have proof they messed up.

[lctgnhkn-deactivated20240904]

we need to normalize butch sluttiness

[appleinducedsleep]

“For someone who loved words as much as I did, it was amazing how often they failed me.”

— M.L. Rio, If We Were Villains

[pinkcarabiner]

the fact that i can't just "yes, daddy🥺🥺🥺" my way through life to get whatever i want it's just soooooo unfortunate

[pinkcarabiner]

maybe she's born with it, maybe it's adhd and lesbianism

[cilantrogene]

hope 2023 brings everyone lots of lesbian sex

[beggars-opera]

I hate, hate, HATE the term “affordable housing.” I hate that we’ve normalized it. I hate that we just accept that the majority of housing, a basic human right, is unaffordable to much of the population. Housing should be affordable as a baseline. If rich people want to add arcades and gold-plated hot tubs on top so be it, but everyone, everyone, regardless of income level, should have access to a clean, comfortable home with enough light and space to make life worth living.

[whitepeopletwitter]

[lonesplashy]

Honestly why would you hide this in the notes

[l2g-deactivated20240513]

the fact that there are only two numbers between 4 and 7 is so twisted and fucked up im literally going to be sick

[seashellronan]

the girls are learning to count

[idk-my-aesthetic]

Technically there’s an infinite amount of numbers between them but I’m afraid if I try to explain decimals I’ll either lose my gay card or get shot

[butchofthenight]

Femmes really will just ask you to fist them and then say they're shy huh

[femmeholograms]

[mobydyke]

joining the war on piracy on the side of piracy

[angelnumber27]

A capybara commanding his army of caimans

[shiraglassman]

Masterclass at the University of Florida where a visiting professor from another school is teaching a class of young Gators

Tell us your wisdom Dr. Capybara

[clusterbuck]

reducing tv show seasons to 10 episodes and dropping them all at the same time is the worst thing to happen to society since the asteroid wiped out the dinosaurs actually