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hi i'm tooie and you're tooie
@dragongirlsweetie
she/her - dragon - 21 - 🏳️⚧️ - θΔ - i follow from @tooiehub - not a tf hazard. come closer - do not call me "bro" or "man" please - 18+ to follow also i am almost exclusively into tf you have been warned - pfp by @reefsharkivist - @dragongirlsnout my gifrlfriend my beautifil figlrfriend i love herr - i'm trying to keep my follower list a bit smaller this time. if you get softblocked don't take it personally, you probably just seemed a bit too normal and i got scared - check out my blog submissions if you want to tf me into something. pleasw
#texturey (for art that has nice texture to it. i don't know how to explain it but if i feel like i can feel it on my body and it feels nice. completely subjective mostly just there for me :3)
#dragongirlposting (for all my posting about dragongirls/being a dragongirl)
#slimeposting (for slime posting & such)
#dragonposting (so i can tag other people's dragonposts without them needing to be girl. i generally avoid using dragongirlposting for other people's posts unless they explicitly mention girlness in the post or i know them personally just to avoid any potential social blunders)
#girlposting (girling. also used for girlposts that aren't dragongirls)
#tooie's tf tag (for tf)
#tooie's SCARY tag (new filter tag i just made for scary stuff that's not tf-related because i'm #branching out a little #thebrancher. probably mute this one if you don't like stuff to get dark because it does get very dark, like some kind of indie scifi horror movie)
#tooie's SCARY tf tag (for the scary stuff mostly so people can filter it. usually 100% sexual. if you don't like body horror then mute this because i absolutely do)
#meee :3 (for pictures of me)
i tried to make the ones that i would potentially be adding to my own original posts very specific so they don't show up in search results so if you're wondering why some of them are so verbose that's why
(currently WIP) tf submission guidelines below readmore because well it's nsfw haha:
so basically what you can do is send an ask or submission to tf me and i'm not sure what my response to it would be yet (which is why i haven't answered sny of the asks -w-) but in terms of my preferences for what to submit:
starting with my absolute "no"s: absolutely nothing fully permanent that can't be reversed ("permanent" as in lasts indefinitely but can still be reversed at any point later are fine)
no identity death or anything that would destroy my mind/sense of self. something so stimulating that it's difficult to think is ok (even good) and strong instincts are fine but do not change my name, memories, gender, personality, any of that
anything regarding age is strictly off the table. no age regression of any kind. the reason for this is that i have a certain type of ocd (iykyk) that makes me extremely uncomfortable with this kinda stuff
other misc. kinks/niches to avoid: piss, scat (too gross & not into body waste), incest/fauxcest (not into it in the slightest and it's way too much of a loaded subject for me to want to deal with it), some food (really really hit or miss. generally candy & sweets are alright and cooking me (just by myself with no other ingredients) is great but anything else i'd say try to avoid), might be more if i think of any later
kinks that i am not opposed to but also have absolutely 0 interest in: inflation, musk (not counting pheromones but those are more about the instinctual impact than the bad smell), might add more later
in terms of actual tf subjects:
mammals are an incredibly hit or miss category for me. generally speaking for stuff that i know i like: cats, wolves, bats, foxes, wild dogs (not domesticated), certain rodents like mice and rats and such, deer and other deerlike animals, squirrels, sheep
mammals i'd prefer to avoid: most farm animals (cows, horses, pigs, oxen, etc.), any ungulate that is more horselike than deerlike (zebras, girrafes, etc.), anteaters & tapirs & such, bears, domesticated dogs, etc. just in general mammals are really hit or miss so if you try something not in this list and i don't like it then sorry :/
speaking of farm animals: chickens and ducks are off the table as well. can't explain why. just not my thing
pretty much all other animals (reptiles, other birds, bugs, fish, what have you) are a-ok
i mean "posts about Black people" in a broad sense, that can mean anything from struggles to Black joy, and when you see the notes, most of the time it’s double digits, three if I'm being generous.
start being comfortable posting Black people's words in your blogs, the same way you'll reblog posts about transness, gayness, disability, because these specific topics can affect you
start actually giving a fuck about Black folks and reblogging our words is the barest minimum
A small compilation of posts from the latest trans twitter discourse. I haven't bothered to screenshot all of the most viral tweets, but also I think it's important to include a lot of the smart ass replies to really help you simulate just how many people are going under black posts and asking "well, what even is racism really?" And if you'd like to know, one of the largest black trans women on twitter was harassed off of the site. No she did not do anything in particular, just posted an image of a sign she didn't make herself that claimed white trans people oppress black trans people (referring to I believe the silencing of a black trans woman who was slated to speak at the protest but was kicked off last minute. @/septembersister, If that's accurate.)
I don't think it ended up in the screenshot but the scenario of the trans bipoc sex worker they were called sex pests in a reply. Victryena was harassed into deactivating.
This is why white feminism is so dangerous. You have to understand intersectionality, you have to listen to the black and brown trans people in your communities, you have to give them space to speak or you create places where it is less socially risky to have profited off of racism than it is to be black.
I keep forgetting I can only add 10 screenshots at a time. There's so many of these posts. Seeing more and more people claiming this isn't happening as well. It is violent to call someone a racist, it is not violent to be racist. TWOC exist to be used as tokens for discourse, but I would never ever center their issues. The TWOC who are being actively silenced in real life and online don't matter, MY feelings were hurt! I have struggles!
I think posters who are attempting to swing back on this conversation claiming this is an organized attack against trans women and fems are willfully ignorant. The sign does not name transfems. The sign is in defense of a trans woman. The vast majority of people making this about trans women are trans women posting racist bullshit. It's not my fault they are trans women. My go to search has been 'white trans' as well as off of my feed. Klansmascs and klansgender nonbinaries are also a plague on our spaces that keep us from community or action, but to dismiss this behavior as a psyop is to engage in apologia for racist communities and erasure of transmisogynoir.
A black trans women and a asian trans women have been harassed and silenced by white transgender "allies".
Racism is a "personal grievance". Racism is a "niche cultural issue." Racism takes up all the air in the room and addressing it is hampering REAL action. Antiracism is "liberalism".
The most disgusting idea I have seen thrown at Vic, who is an asian trans woman, is that she is weaponizing racism or the struggles of TWOC/TPOC. Absurd as an idea of that is it makes me furious that we as a community continue to use the statistics of violence, sexual assault, and murders of black trans women to push for trans rights but when black trans women attempt to discuss racism they face backlash like this. We have tokenized the idea of the black trans woman as a silent victim, the emblem of transmisogynistic abuse, and continue to deny her her struggles lest she be masculinized and deemed an oppressive force herself.
Victry's racial identity is also important. As an asian woman and due to the racist misogynistic associations we, largely as American and Europeans, fetishize the 'natural femininity' of Asians. Her dysphoria is invalidated, she has had an 'easy transition', her sex work is weaponized as equivalent to racial violence. For those who haven't followed along, she returned to twitter with an eloquent statement I will add here.
I think its also important to notice how many of these creeds attempt to call on ones marxist values and position TPOC and POC as welding imaginary economic power over white victims. Sex work is continually used as a bludgeon (perverted sexually deviant TWOC are whining when they reap monetary gain vs white trans women as the victims of sexual violence forced to participate in survival sex work are being looked down upon by rich TWOC who never have to experience sexual violence to benefit)
For every singular person rolling their eyes and proclaiming their oppression has tuned them into the concept of suffering, that their experiences make them the true savior of the oppressed masses who doesn't NEED to ever listen to another group, theres 10 more replies 'just wondering' why we 'even bother to see color', or if antiracist action was CIA funded to erode leftist unity, and all of them are trying to make this exclusively about trans women. It's insane.
It genuinely does NOT matter that your post discussing this is addressing racism among the entire community, I only had room to include one of these independent replies/quotes, but there is not that much of an independent push to attack white trans women it's all shadowboxing or virulent racism. We need to purge 4chan from our community
Racism is trivial. What even IS race? These rich blacks are speaking over fragile abused white trannies. Racism is a niche issue, you're distracting from actual problems. Calling organizations racist is too aggressive, you can't speak here. You're being inflammatory. You're not showing enough nuance. How was I supposed to know theres a victim when all your political slogans are so mean and violent? Discussions of race is a CIA psyop meant to dissolve the left. I'm angry you called me white and this is YOUR fault. Calling me racist is the justifying transphobic violence. You're equating me to a police officer murdering black people right now! YOU support trans peoples deaths because of the color of their skin! I'm not racist! YOU'RE racist for noticing race!
All of these arguments are deflections and self victimization to avoid actually understanding your place in society. If you so uncomfortable with acknowledging race that you lash out violently against TWOC when they attempt to discuss it, you are a racist. I resent any attempts to take this discussion of racism within trans and queer spaces as a smear campaign.
i am once again reminding y'all that agab is literally just a letter a doctor wrote down on a fancy piece of paper when you were 2 seconds old. it does not dictate your gender or hormones or gender or physical appearance or chromosomes or anything. it is a Letter On A Paper. there is no such thing as "an afab" or "an amab". there is no such thing as "afab genitals" or "amab genitals". Stop it.
its been said before but combing through a woman's internet footprint to find information on her sex life that you can show everyone, and being part of the dissemination of that information, is an act of sexual violence against women that you are performing. as opposed to the like... implicit threat of sexual violence you cheekily allude to when you go "HEY EVERYONE THIS TRANNY IS A SADIST". an implication that people understand because of the way marginalized women's sexualities are policed.
type of video i hate is when i see a video of someone playing some instrument i've never seen before and then i unmute and it's just an american pop song
its bonkers that its like. public knowledge. to the point of being a trope. that all cops hate internal affairs. and people still try to act like cops are capable of morality.
popular media has done an excellent job convincing the public that the job of an internal affairs department is to make sure billybob the baby murderer gets away so he can kill more babies instead of like. double checking that the cops are respecting peoples most basic human rights. which they aren't.
it used to be that “fascism is aesthetics as politics” was the sort of thing that took several steps to demonstrate, but now everyone in roman-column twitter says “my ideal world is this AI generated picture of a centurion driving a spaceship” and you don’t even have to draw any connections to anything they just say it out loud.