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Hi! I’m curious about my chart and want to have a deeper understanding and appreciation of it. I’m a Scorpio Sun, Sag moon, Scorpio mercury, Sag Venus, Sag Rising, & Virgo Mars. I’m also a first house stellium in moon, Venus, pluto and Chiron. Don’t feel like I relate with my sag moon, but relate to being a first house moon. Also with being a sag Venus I’m a Venus conjunct pluto << I relate to that more too. I’d appreciate it if you could help me figure me out. Thank u !! :)

i definitely get what you’re saying, and i think it highlights the importance of taking the bigger picture into account!! having a sag moon in the 1st house is a lot different from having it in, say, the 9th house (its home) or especially like the 8th!! it puts your emotions more at the forefront and makes you a more openly sensitive, emotional person. especially with a scorpio sun/mercury. so it makes sense you don’t necessarily identify with some of the hallmark traits of a sag moon. aspects to a planet also influence how it is expressed in the chart, so having pluto make an aspect to your venus will have a similar effect. :-)

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hey, how are you? Can you make an post for Uranus-Asc and Uranus-Venus aspect, please? ^^

yep! i’ll write both! =) thanks for the suggestion, i appreciate it

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hello! would you mind giving some examples for cap humour, pls? i'm not a native english speaker so I'm not very familiar with what you mean with dry/deadpan humour

sure thing!

dry/deadpan humor involves pointing out the obvious with a lack of facial expression or use of sarcasm/irony:

“i’m sure you’re so excited to get up so you can spend 8 hours at a desk.” (the joke is that obviously, the person is not excited for that)

this video is a good example of it =)

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Hey babe, sorry to bother you, it's just that your zodiac relationship master posts links aren't working/leading to anywhere. Have a good day!

i didn’t realize that! thank you for telling me, i went back and fixed the link. tell me if you have any other problems xoxo

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Hi! This is just a random thought after reading your posts. I'm so curious about so many things like how does it come to a cancer in 12th would be afraid sleeping with their children? I've got so much more but I don't wanna bombard you with tons. Happy New Year, btw!

hello there =)

i’m a bit unsure what you’re asking. can you clarify?

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Just wanted to tell you I think your blog is phenomenal. From one astrology lover to another, keep on spreadin the love for the stars✨

This is such a sweet message!! I really needed to hear this today. Much love to you xoxo

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Love is complicated it's not false but leaving you in that state is straight out mean-ish, but like I said he maybe has other reasons you don't know about and perhaps this was all a result of transits and the such. I really hope you get something working out in your life, it's so hard to go on everyday when one feels everything is crumbling down, stay strong you already are! #lastanon

Yeah, you’re right. Life is just hard right now, but I think good things are coming.

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Are you okay? I don't know how shaken you must feel to have gone through a breakdown, right now how you feel is the priority dear let time do its thing but him not being there for you just doesn't seem right but maybe he has his reasons Hm #lastanon

Right now? I’m doing alright. I just... I have so many things I want to talk about. Like, on Thursday I went to school (I was discharged from the hospital because I wasn’t a threat to myself) and I was actually sobbing into my friend’s shoulder. He sat two tables away and did nothing. Thursday was the worst day of my entire life and he just... wasn’t even there. Then he said he doesn’t even know if he still loves me. I don’t get it. How can he not know?

I am so confused about everything. I need something to go right in my life and I wish it were him.

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I hope you guys will get back together??? Perhaps it's the after shadow of mercury playing out but it will dissolve! #lastanon

A part of me hopes so too. On Wednesday night I was in the emergency room for a nervous breakdown/attempted suicide. The next morning we were done. He didn’t even try to comfort me.

Maybe he was shaken up. I don’t know. My life has been hell these past few days.

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Are things happening right now? This leo sun I'm seeing is being distant with me lately and I don't feel it's out of no interest, it's like he's contemplating?

I think so. My boyfriend and I split up and he’s been so distant these past couple of days... I’ll have to look into it

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what do you mean by the IC being activated? like what's an example?

Hey!! Sorry for the kind of vague wording, I’ll totally clear it up!

So, typically the 4th house represents significant endings (that’s why death falls under it). It is sort of symbolizes the end of life and returning to the earth; that is, being buried.

It can be “activated” in a few different ways. The most prominent that I think of is when the solar return ascendant sits in the natal IC (especially if it conjoins it) and makes negative aspects to Mars, Uranus, or Pluto in the natal or return chart. It’s also important to check where the 6th, 8th, and 12th houses are in relation to this, because they can also indicate death (illness, loss, murder, etc.)

If the native has the Sun or Pluto in the water houses natally, it’s important to pay attention to when those planets enter the 4th in the solar return chart. If they make negative aspects, it may be an indicator.

So, in summary, any time the IC is prominent in the solar return chart and/or makes major contacts to prominent parts of the natal chart that year, it will likely be an indicator of passing. Obviously, alone, the IC doesn’t mean death because plenty of people have it in their sr charts every year. It’s just important to pay attention to what it’s doing. =)

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I've also had 3 aqua friends break up??!!! Te energy feels like we're trying to clean our houses for the new year but don't know what to keep, restore, throw and all. It's the beauty of astrology it gives hope amidst the total mind fog 😭 I don't want to ask him as to not rush anything, I'm thinking of waiting after the retrograde atleast and see if he says anything, a few days ago he said he wanted us to discuss something but he hasn't brought it up yet... So.. #crossingfingersitspositive

it really does!! I don’t think that waiting this out a bit is a bad idea, it’ll give you both time to assess your feelings. I’m sending you positive vibes!!

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(last anon) thank you for answering!!! you really think it's the transits?? I'm a bit relieved, I believe we have amazing chemistry and all, I really hope it works out after all the planetary changes calm down 😭😭😭😭 though I'm conflicted as to how I should handle him? Do I talk to him as just friends casually? Do I put limits? Arrrgh I'm confused too :'(

no problem!!

yeah, i mean, i feel like lately things have been absolutely crazy w them. like about a month ago i watched 3 long-term couples in my friend group split up... people are totally on edge and don’t know exactly how they’re feeling. personally, it helps me to keep this in mind so i can keep myself in check.

i would probably put limits, kind of lay it out. maybe ask him if he still feels the way he did in early nov. (only wanting friendship). if he dodges it, then i would, for my sake, put up the limits. you don’t want him to be dragging you along.

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Hey! Well, I'm dealing with a Leo sun, scorpio moon, libra asc & venus, gemini mars man and we have amazing chemistry and everything and we dated but on Nov 11th(mercury was square neptune..) he said he was confused about his feelings yet truly wanted us to remain friends, and still now he isn't letting me go even though I've become standoff ish, I feel like he has feelings but is being weird, or is it a scorpio test.. I'm a aqua sun-asc-mars, sag moon, cap venus btw please and thank you!

It definitely sounds like he has feelings. It could be that with the recent transits he’s been confused about things. This doesn’t really sound like a test to me. It sounds like he really is trying to figure things out.

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hi(: love ur blog. im a scorpio sun, capricorn moon, aries rising,, the guy im into is a gemini sun, aries moon, taurus rising.. we joke about being polar opposites sometimes& have some misunderstandings here&there but at the same time our communication is just.. constant??& we (somehow) have hella chemistry.. he has no problem showing his affections (which i love but have probs reciprocating sometimes?)&(internally) i tell myself he must be bullshitting me? ahh idk are we a lost cause? thx u xx

i don’t think you guys are a lost cause at all!! it sounds like you work out your problems with each other very well and there seems to be passion. but it depends on what your venus signs are as well.

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So about the crush thing from your other blog, my bestfriend of 3 years/crush is a sag sun, cancer moon, scorpio rising, and is pluto dom (in sag.) and oh my god he is such a stereotypical sag. I’m a libra sun, taurus moon, Aquarius rising. He acts like such a f*ckboy for show and it wasn’t until the past few months he opened up to me emotionally- could his intercepted moon be a reason for that? Or is that a normal thing with cancer moons? Love your posts btw💕

ayyyy!!! i feel like it def could be due to his sag sun/cancer moon combo. there’s a part of him that wants to guard his deeper feelings, and so being a bit of a f-ckboy may be a sort of defense for that. its his way of controlling situations and making sure he isn’t too vulnerable in that way (i also feel like pluto doms hate feeling like they’re too vulnerable or “naked” so that can play a part of it).

thanks sweets!!

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me and my girlfriend had been crushing on eachother for the last few years and never told the other until we were both hanging out and she kissed me and now were dating and its great. shes a scorpio and im a pisces. shes my best friend and honestly i just love her sm

Awwwwee, water babies!! That sounds so sweet, are you guys really affectionate? i love that in a relationship!! tysm for sharing with me <3