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Do you ever just remember that “you must have dysphoria to be trans” is now a controversial statement?
Like, it’s now offensive to say feel disconnected from you designated-at-birth-sex to be trans.
That’s wild, man.
I’ve gotten used to the controversy by now, but whenever I see posts like these it puts me back in perspective. Just imagine if the text here was replaced with “cancer” and its symptoms.
—NGB
Being trans isn’t cool.
It isn’t cool that I’ll never be able to have biological kids.
It isn’t cool that I have to prove myself to several different doctors to get the treatment I need to make life bearable.
It isn’t cool to be assaulted and abused for something you have no control over.
It isn’t cool that my family treat me like dirt, that I’ll never be able to transition with their support.
It isn’t cool to wake up every day and not even be able to look in the mirror because what looks back is unbearable.
It isn’t cool, or quirky, or fun, or a game, to be trans. It’s serious and it affects people for their whole lives. I’m sick and tired of the way trans people are treated and perceived.
It also isn’t cool to have your struggles and your issues mocked by people who says your dysphoria doesn’t matter, or use terminology that equates you to ‘scum’ when you follow and agree with the textbook and medical requirements for being transgender. It also isn’t cool that people think that the only way they’ll be recognized if they kill themselves to get a hashtag, because of people glorifying and deifying and martyring the trans children that have done it. It’s really isn’t cool that people separate trans people by color and by gender, saying that one or the other has a certain precedence and priority over the other, that if you don’t fit into one specific category, or because you fit into one specific category, you shouldn’t be valued as much as the others.
It’s wrong, and it’s terrible, and it really needs to stop.
4chan
has proper spoiler boxes for text and spoiler shields for images
has webm support
deletes child porn
deletes doxes
tumblr
does none of these things
4chan
• Hunted down and called the police on pedophiles, murderers, thieves, pedophilia networks, and some assholes that stepped on Burger King lettuce and put it in people’s hamburgers
Tumblr
• Has a shoplifting fandom
Really aggressively protects kitties!
not to mention that tumblr literally got someone’s pet fox killed, doxes people, and encourages suicide.
Stop using queer as an umbrella term.
Stop referring to others as queer without their permission.
Stop replacing the term “LGBT+” with “queer”.
Queer is still a slur to many people.
Stop forcing the label ” queer” onto other people just because you are personally comfortable with the term.
I don’t want to be a part of a community that preaches that dysphoric people can think our way out of dysphoria, that dysphoria is the result of cissexism and sexism, and that we could become comfortable with our bodies if we only tried. It’s untrue, and makes spaces that should be safe actively harmful for dysphoric people.
If that’s what the trans community is becoming, I don’t want any part of it.
I don’t agree with a lot of things that are said in the trans community, but this is too much.
Today I was told that dysphoric people would no longer have dysphoria if we “stopped assigning gender to genitals” because then no one would feel obligated to change their bodies.
I’ve long since stopped using the terms “trans” and “transgender” to refer to myself because those words have been so hijacked that I no longer feel comfortable using them.
I keep having to say “people like me" instead.
— NGB
IMPORTANT PSA
do NOT out trans people. if someone is confused as to what gender someone is, you can let them know their gender and pronouns, but you do NOT need to specify that they are trans. this shouldn’t be surprising but most trans people don’t like being outed. stop outing trans people and putting their comfort and safety at risk.
If you're going to tell someone to kill themselves...
If you’re going to tell someone to kill themselves: STOP. RIGHT NOW. STOP TYPING.
It is NEVER okay to encourage suicide. Never.
"But they disagreed with me!" NO.
"But they’re white!" NO.
"But they have a headcanon I don’t like!" NO.
"But they’re male!" NO.
"But they’re oppressing me!" NO.
"But I don’t like their blog!" NO.
It doesn’t matter WHAT your reason is. It’s never okay.
I hate how tumblr belittles trans people by reminding them of their birth sex characteristics and saying 'stop pretending trans people don't exist!!! There are X who have Y!!!', ugh you can still acknowledge them and not freaking do that.
my fucking god my browser deleted my LONG AS FUCK answer 2 times in a row I can’t deal with it anymore, sorry. I was typing a smart answer but whatever - I wanted to say that besides being a piece of shit who triggers dysphoria of trans people there is no need to include a tiny tiny minority in everything like if trans people are not even a 1% of entire population, and not even a half of us is ftm, and like 80% of us cringe at the idea of even having a piv with cis man, how many people who are not cis women will actually get pregnant and give a birth? HOW MANY and are they really worth mentioning in each talk about pregnancy to trigger the rest of us and annoy all cis people with that nonsense? I don’t think so. it’s like someone is talking about being left or right handed and someone else yells at them “DONT FORGET SOME PEOPLE ARE BORN WITHOUT THEIR LIMBS UWU” like it’s a stupid comparison but it kinda feels this way
please understand that when you misgender a trans person and they don’t correct you, it’s not because they are okay with the pronouns you used but because they don’t want to annoy you or seem demanding. it doesn’t mean you can continue misgensering them because they “don’t seem to mind.”
In some instances it’s even that they’re afraid of you or the reaction you’d have to them insisting on their correct pronouns
I have tried to kill myself three times and I am 22. I have a severe mental health problem which I mention in my about page.
Regardless of that most anti-truscum give no fucks about me or my mental health. They tell me to kill myself on a regular basis.
It took less than 24 hours for Tumblr to start demonizing Leelah because she was anti-otherkin. She spoke about getting harmful anons because of her stance.
It took less than 24 hours for Tumblr to try and turn Leelah’s death into proof that truscum were evil and to blame. When we had nothing to do with it.
Tumblr gives no fucks about you if you disagree with their politics. They give no fucks about you unless you conform to their standard.
You know who else gave no fucks because someone didn’t conform to their standard? Leelah’s parents.
wassup trans peeps. so im working on writing a new education page, and i’m working on a segment about dysphoria. if you can, would any of you mind replying to this (reblog, send me an ask, whatever) with what dysphoria feels like to you?
Dysphoria manifests itself in a few different ways for me, but the most prominent one is a painful sort of numbness when I am forced to acknowledge certain parts of my "body". It starts feeling as if there is pressure built up in those places as well as a sharp numbness/tingling feeling that makes it very difficult to focus and think clearly.
—NGB
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Thanks already for doing this. It means the world.
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Ahahaha~
Because, you know, we trans species couldn't possibly be a part of either gender, right? Right, guys?
I love you too, Tumblr!
— NGB
Define gender (not to be confused with gender roles). If it is a feeling, describe it (“Describe happiness because happiness is a feeling”).
((This question didn’t get answered at all by the other side, so I am pushing the question to this side.))
Gender is a…
I honestly am a gender abolitionist, I think realistically gender is nothing more than a collection of gender roles built together to define what a male should be and what a female should be. I get fed up of people saying “oh I’m trans because I FEEL like a girl”, yet never have I ever had someone explain a way of “feeling” like a girl that isn’t anything but reducible to harmfully misogynistic gender roles. Gender is a socially constructed hierarchy, it’s unnecessary and should be torn down.
This is where we disagree, though. If that were the case, how would the case of David Reimer, the man who committed suicide after being forced to live as a girl during most of his childhood due to a botched circumcision, be explained? This was performed upon him as a newborn, mere days old and he was forced to live as a girl from then onward.
Because he was a male who’s genitals were mutilated as a child thus I assume forcing upon him sex dysphoria. I know very little of the case, and it’s 4:44am so I shan’t do any reading now. I go by the definition of dysphoria as being a discomfort with the sexed characteristics of your body be it primary and/or secondary, gender play’s no role in this. If he was a cis male who’s genitals were mutilated and I assume he was given forced SRS and I also assume HRT as he grew up, then it’s very obvious how he would experience sex dysphoria. With such a traumatic childhood it’s no wonder he ended up saddly taking his life.
Gender and gender roles should not be mixed up together. Gender is the biological term of female or male [female genitalia, female structure / male genitalia, male structure] That is not a construction of society, it is simply the way people are born and evolve. It is simply the way mankind is shaped. Gender exists regardless of the existence of society. You can't say that the gender of animals is also created by society, for you'd be putting a lot of years of research and studies to waste. Now, I am also against gender roles, just like you, and I believe that everyone has the right to become whatever they want, be it feminine, masculine, regardless of gender. And I also believe that someone who's not comfortable in their body, their biological evolution [be it genitalia, or even the growth of female attributes like say, breasts and/or curves, or the growth of male attributes, like say, body hair and/or muscles] should have the right to transition and shape their bodies the way they want them to be. Dysphoria isn't a social construct [although it can be grossly painful when people have expectations of the gender that you are not comfortable with] but it is the thought that you're not in the right vessel, that your appearance isn't what it should be, that you're growing [e.g.] a feminine body that is fated to give birth when you never felt like that in the first place. Had someone been isolated by society, they could still experience dysphoria. But alas, this is merely my opinion. -Mr. G.
Questions to Truscum/Trans-Medicalists 3
Define gender (not to be confused with gender roles). If it is a feeling, describe it (“Describe happiness because happiness is a feeling”).
((This question didn’t get answered at all by the other side, so I am pushing the question to this side.))
I don’t think gender is a biological thing but just gender norms and roles.
Trans people are men, women etc simply because of a difference between their brain’s image of their body and their physical body. You can call that gender but I think calling it gender is simply confusing.
Why would you find it confusing? I find that it makes sense when comparing trans people to cis people, for instance. When cis people talk, they use sex and gender interchangeably because they mean the exact same thing for them, but for trans people, one has to clarify that they are, say, male sex, but female gender, hence their trans status in the case of pre-transition trans women.
—NGB
Define gender (not to be confused with gender roles). If it is a feeling, describe it (“Describe happiness because happiness is a feeling”).
((This question didn’t get answered at all by the other side, so I am pushing the question to this side.))
Gender is a…
I honestly am a gender abolitionist, I think realistically gender is nothing more than a collection of gender roles built together to define what a male should be and what a female should be. I get fed up of people saying “oh I’m trans because I FEEL like a girl”, yet never have I ever had someone explain a way of “feeling” like a girl that isn’t anything but reducible to harmfully misogynistic gender roles. Gender is a socially constructed hierarchy, it’s unnecessary and should be torn down.
This is where we disagree, though. If that were the case, how would the case of David Reimer, the man who committed suicide after being forced to live as a girl during most of his childhood due to a botched circumcision, be explained? This was performed upon him as a newborn, mere days old and he was forced to live as a girl from then onward.
Questions to Truscum/Trans-Medicalists 3
Define gender (not to be confused with gender roles). If it is a feeling, describe it (“Describe happiness because happiness is a feeling”).
((This question didn’t get answered at all by the other side, so I am pushing the question to this side.))
Gender is a social hierarchy that is damaging to women. It’s created by the patriarchy to hold back and oppress women.
I think that would be classified under "gender roles".
While I find it debatable exactly who created them, I can readily agree with you that gender roles as an institution oppress women generally.
How would you argue that the concept of gender itself is oppressive, though? I'm curious.
—NGB
Questions to Truscum/Trans-Medicalists 3
Define gender (not to be confused with gender roles). If it is a feeling, describe it ("Describe happiness because happiness is a feeling"). ((This question didn't get answered at all by the other side, so I am pushing the question to this side.))
