A Tumblr had sent a note to me..asking a simple question
’ How does a submissive learn to trust to the extent needed to submit?’
i sent my answer privately to her. (discretion always assured)
But I think that my response can be shared with others.
Trust is earned through loyalty and integrity, and honesty.
No one can demand your trust until they have proven to you that they are worthy of it.
Know the reasons why you wish to submit.
Understand that it is the most precious gift you can share with and bestow upon another.
Choose wisely.
When Love enters the picture you have what could possibly be the ultimate of relationships…but only if that Love is genuine.
Trust is a slow process as is Love.
You can have passion at first sight..and lust at first sight…but those are not necessarily what trust should be based upon.
Trust takes time…if another wants to earn your trust..they will invest and take that time to do so.
Be selective.
Don’t just be flattered that someone wants your trust…
Don’t yield just because someone demands your trust.
Let that person show you that they can and indeed wish to earn it.
~ beautflstranger
