taking a break from tumblr and won't be returning to this account because i don't desire to be on a site that offers a safe space to people with narcissistic personality disorder. i don't desire to be on a site that allows people i've blocked to still reblog my posts.
bpd and npd might be same cluster, but they are NOT the same disorder, and they do not overlap like those with npd want to claim. it's sick and gross they want to cling onto bpd and pretend it's the same.
as someone who had to an endure a parent with npd and multiple other people with npd, those with npd do NOT deserve safe spaces!!
people with bpd are not inherently evil and are capable of change. people with npd are inherently bad and are not capable of change.
if you look at the npd abuse tag, it's supposed to be a tag for victims of npd abuse, but these morons invade it claiming the term npd abuse is abelist. it is not. invading a victim space and making it about yourself is proving your npd tendencies.
i would never tell a victim of an abuser who has bpd that bpd abuse isn't real or that it's an ableist term because i know people have been abused by those with bpd.
what i'm saying though, is there's a huge difference that most people with bpd don't wish to be that way and they can change. npd people are just monsters.