Apr 17, 2023
a message for myself:
don’t deny compliments. it does no one any good. I know you don’t believe it, but by refuting it you are just creating negativity. if you accept the compliment, you say thank you, you tell the person who said it to you that you appreciate it, that they’re sweet, that you love them, you make them feel nice. they get a compliment back and they feel happy that they made you happy! you know that when you give someone a compliment it’s so much nicer if the person accepts it. and for you. even if you don’t believe the compliment now, by accepting it you slowly teach your brain that it’s true. it brings positivity into the lives of both the person who complimented you, and yourself. I know it’s hard. but you can do it.
