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@auntiecilla
Hi Auntie. I'm a little who doesn't want a caregiver/mommy/daddy. I don't know why, it's just I'm very independent and I don't like to be "controlled" or "dominated" like everyone else in the community. Can I still be considered a little even if I don't have/want a caregiver?
Of course you can sweetheart. You are obviously a very special little who I think would much prefer to have playdates than caregivers and there’s nothing at all wrong with that
Hi auntie cilla, it's the same little from your last anonymous ask. Thank you so much for your advice, I really appreciate it and it helped me so much to have someone I could trust <3. I have done what you said and cleaned and covered them, and I am just wearing long sleeves for now. I will try to get some help, thank you very much for your help auntie <3
You're welcome sweetie, you take care of yourself ok? An if you ever feel like you need to hurt yourself again I want you to stop and do something different, do something fun. It doesn't matter what time of night it is or if you're alone. I don't know how old you are but this list is good for people of all ages. http://www.adolescentselfinjuryfoundation.com/page11
Hello auntie, I'm very sorry to bother you if this is not what you are here for, but I would really like some help. I tend to be a very fragile person, and I was feeling upset about some problems and I took the notion to self harm. And now I'm really not sure what to do. I go to a school and i live with my parents, and I don't know how to hide it so that no one sees what I've done. I'm scared, will they go away?
Sweetie you don't need to be hiding yourself. You need to seek some proper help. That you felt so terrible you hurt yourself means that it's too late to be saying that you might get better. Please reach out to someone. Most injuries heal if given enough time and cares for properly. Keep any wounds clean and covered and change dressings regularly. Please keep in touch and let me know you're ok little one *hug*
i just found out im a little and i really want a caregiver to have strictly nonsexual play with but i have no idea where to start looking! could you give me some advice auntie cillia?
I really can't sweetie, so many caregivers insists that the dynamic is sexual that you may struggle to find someone. They are out there but aside from braving fetlife and the kind of weirdos who will try and sexualise you on there I can't recommend anywhere else. It's plus side is that it has block and report buttons so there's a level of safety. But please don't join if you're underage it is a very adult community on there.
do you do handjobs?
What part of SFW don't you understand? Back off!
Hi Miss, I hope your having a great day. I personally struggle when it comes to understanding emotions due to a history of abuse and bringing myself up as a young child. Recently my caregiver has been on about teaching me about emotions but that just makes feel stupid and a faulty person. I told them how it makes me feel but they are still pushing the thing because they want me to communicate how I feel better and I dunno what to do. It's making me feel bad but I don't want to let them down .
Sweetie it sounds like your caregiver is trying really hard to help you. I know it seems silly but I promise there's nothing bad about not being able to put your feelings into words all the time but it is something you need to practice. Stick with it little one I promise it's for your own good, maybe talk to your caregiver about their approach though. Are they being too serious about it? pushing when you're tired and can't focus when they should just be cuddling you and leaving you be? Maybe sit down together and work out a schedule for practicing that you both agree on then stick with it. But be kind to yourself too, these things are not easy to learn. I think your caregiver is being very good to you and you need to give them a chance to try. I know it feels bad and makes you feel bad that it's difficult but it shouldn't, take every challenge as just that, make it fun for yourself, treat yourself when you have a good practice and allow yourself to have bad ones by moving on and trying again. It's like anything sweetie, practice makes perfect and if your caregiver is giving you a safe space to practice in then go for it, I promise they won't be disappointed in you if you're struggling as long as you keep trying.
I hate when people try to generalize underage littles, and littles in general. For SOME it's a kink. For some it's how they deal with trauma. For some it's a symptom or coping mechanism for mental illness. For some it's just a hobby! Saying underage littles aren't allowed is assuming everyone does it for kinks, and is severely damaging. I'm glad to see someone who gets this and can convey it clearly and without tolerance for hate. That's p cool.
Thank you for your support I really appreciate coming across messages like this right now :)
Are you just here for advice or can you give suggestions for specific little gear/ alternatives?
I don't recommend anything I haven't tried personally or someone i trust wouldn't recommend but I'll help where I can. I'm not being paid to advertise anything and I never ask to be. It's all advice really so feel free to ask any questions about products you're thinking of trying, if I don't know the answer them someone else following might reblogs and add some information you'll find useful when I publish your ask so it's worth a shot.
Underage littles welcome bigots, rapists and potential murderers not (tw)
Hi folks, I'm writing this in response to the hate I'm getting for explicitly declaring my support for underage littles. This stance does not make me a pedophile. This stance does not give you the right to attack me personally when you know little to nothing about my situation. I do not deserve to be raped and I do not deserve to be hunted down and shot. I am doing nothing wrong and have done nothing illegal. All I am doing is trying to provide a safe environment for curious young people to ask questions so they don't get involved in something illegal or inappropriate for their age. Go though my blog you will see that I spend a lot of time telling underage littles that nonsexual regression is fine and how to avoid pushy tops trying to turn them into sex objects before they're ready and legal. You'll also find me saying that anyone who knowingly sexualises a little who is underage is knowingly committing a crime and should be reported. I don't argue semantics which is what a lot of the anons in my inbox seem to be doing. If someone wants to call themselves a little then fine, you'll notice I go out of my way to tell underage littles to make sure they explicitly state that they do not want to sexualise their littleness. The fact that asexuals have this "kink" proves that it is not an inherently sexual thing, the fact that people regress and don't want to sexualise their littleness proves that it isn't inherently sexual. If you can't control yourself enough to understand that and take their assertions at face value you're the one ignoring their lack of consent. How you think anyone can consent to sex in littlespace astounds me anyway. But that's your life and nothing to do with me. See how this works? We all share interest in a topic, but in different ways and every single way of engaging with this topic whether anyone else who understands it or not is completely valid for the individual engaging in their own way. So maybe I'm being holier than thou, maybe I'm just not interested in falling to your level and threatening to rape and murder someone for having a different opinions to myself and maybe, just maybe, I don't give a monkeys what you think of me and I posted in support of underage littles for them to let them know they're not alone and someone is willing to speak up for them. That's it, get off my blog and out of my inbox now before I start tracing IPs and contacting police forces to have you charged with harassment and threatening behaviour. Try and find me in person and I will make sure you become intimately aquatinted with the biggest kitchen knife I can lay my hands on and I promise you I have enough screenshots and messages to prove I was acting in self defence. Now, get lost and don't let the door hit you where the Good Lord split you on your way out.
I'm holier than thou?
Folks if you're going to respond to my posts at least have the decency to give me the right to respond in turn otherwise you come across as a self-righteous temper-tantrum throwing child with no understanding of the nuances of conversation. That is all.
auntie i'm so upset :'c i've been trying to look for a caregiver/daddy (non-sexual relationship because i'm underage) but everyone i seem to is only interested in me so they have something to get off to and i don't know how to find somebody who wants the same things as me and i just wanna cry and give up :'c
Don’t give up sweetie non-sexual caregivers are out there I promise.
You need to keep yourself safe. Make sure you make it very clear on any profiles that you’re underage and that might scare some of them off who you don’t want to contact you. Make sure you tell people you’re underage very early on in the conversation. Just say something like,
“I’m just letting you know that I’m underage and not looking for anything sexual. Please don’t be offended that I’ve said this; it’s just to protect myself as people have tried to be sexual in the past with me when I didn’t make it as clear that I’m underage. I won’t be offended if you don’t reply because you’re looking for someone older or for other things.”
Then those that do try anything sexual are knowingly breaking the law and you need to report them to whichever website you use. Don’t give them email addresses or talk outside of websites that have safety buttons and processes for reporting problems and that should help too.
Reblogging this as its particularly relevant right now. Once a little makes it clear they're underage there's no question, sexualising any situation with them is wrong and illegal. Don't push it. And don't play the victim, they can't do any more than be honest with you. After that the ball is in your court; Back Off if all you're looking to do is get off!
hey miss cilla, i've heard there's been some real meanie butts in your letter box, i just came here to say i really really super duper like you and your blog too, it's so safe and warm, thanksies for all you've done!! ~smolboy
Thank you sweetie :) your message came just as i needed it to put a smile on my face again
It's not the adults job to check every follower and see if they're a minor. It's wrong for a minor to follow an 18+ blog. It's their job to stay in their lane. AND PS. Non sexual non kinky littles are wrong because guess what. little = ddlg = kink community = 18+ The moment a minor labels themselves a little they are butting into an 18+ community which is WRONG. Support underagers who like sippy cups and pacifiers, sure np. But the have no right to call themselves little till they're 18. EOS bye
You don't get to tell people that how they engage with a concept is wrong just beuase you engage with it differently. That is the definition of bigotry. Please remove yourself from our lane where we treat other human beings with a modicum of common decency as standard and go back to the gutter where you belong. Thank you.
Underage littles
So I’m noticing a post going around telling people not to support underage littles because it puts kinksters at risk of not being safe to express themselves, this is a false premise.
Trigger warning: frank and blunt references to rape and paedophillia.
Ok first off if you are a kinkster you’re an adult by definition. Take responsibility for your webpages and content and leave everyone else alone.
Second, not every little is a kinkster, not every little is sexual and you trying to force your way of doing it on everyone else by insisting that littleness is inherently sexual is frankly rapey and out of order. Keep your kink to yourself, not everyone is in it to get off.
Why is it a child’s responsibility to protect you? Why do you not take responsibility to protect yourself? Are you really so beyond help and caring that you can’t take five seconds to check someone’s age? Let me guess? You don’t think consent is that big a deal either? Or it’s unsexy to check in occasionally…? If that’s how you think then never mind kink you shouldn’t even be having vanilla sex.
Tldr: you are an adult. Own it. Take responsibility and stop trying to force sexual scenarios on non-sexual littles who may or may not be underage then you won’t have a problem! If it’s so hard to ask a little how old they are before you sexualise a chat or call then you’re in the wrong kink. The paedophiles will welcome you with open arms though, I hear they don’t tend to ask too many questions either.
First off, we are taking responsibility for our webpages and content. Telling minors to stay the hell off of them is part of that. There’s nothing wrong with not wanting to protect our own asses and keep ourselves from getting in trouble because minors could be following us.
Second, you’re absolutely right, not every little is sexual. But being little = being a member of the DD/LG community which is a kink. You can’t name yourself as a member of a kink community then scream and cry when people associate you with it. If you want to do things that are associated with being little, but don’t want to be called a little or can’t handle being called a member of the kink community, then call it age regression or kidcore. Period. It’s not forcing our kink onto people if you’re naming yourself as a member of the kink and making blogs with “little” in the title and tagging your content with ddlg tags or any other variant. There’s nothing wrong with being a nonsexual little and nobody is trying to say that there is (there’s tons of asexual littles that run sfw little blogs). Littleness isn’t inherently sexual, but being in a relationship with a little/caregiver dynamic, aka a sub/Dom/Domme dynamic, requires that you be of age to legally consent to it, which just happens to be the legal age of consent for sex.
It is a minor’s responsibility to not follow 18+ blogs and to not involve themselves in an 18+ community. You have to be at least 13 to have a tumblr, and if you’re 13 on the internet you can fucking read and know what 18+ means. It is completely unfair to lay the blame on an adult that runs an 18+ blog if a child happens to follow them. You can block and block all you want but these kids will keep coming. Why is it unreasonable to demand that children stay out of adult spaces? Why is it unreasonable to not want to get arrested? Kids can, and will, lie about their age to get what they want. And I really don’t appreciate you making insinuations that adults that are trying to keep children out of kink for their safety are inherently “kind of rapey”.
To be clear, I agree that adults shouldn’t be having sexual relationships or conversations with children. And I agree that if you can’t verify whether someone is underage or not (because people can and absolutely will lie about their age; it’s easy with anonymity of blogs) then you shouldn’t initiate a sexual conversation with them. But saying that being little isn’t a kink is dangerous and incorrect, and you should NOT be telling children that it’s okay to join a kink community.
Why do people Insist on F*ing and blinding at me when they respond to this post? Honestly if you're not screaming profanities at me you're anonymously threatening me with all sorts. That's all you seem to be doing. Gosh you're an unimaginative lot.
Your terrible language aside please accept one crucial fact. You don't get to define littleness for anyone but yourself. Taking care of my little is not a kinky act for me or him and regardless of your opinion that won't change. It's a coping mechanism. It's a way of bonding and sharing time together. We could just as easily go shopping or watch a movie and snuggle and it's the same thing to us.
You're asking people not to follow you if underage then fine do that but there's no reason to them rant and rave about it because *gasp* teenagers don't listen to adult advice. It stops being your problem when that happens, you made every reasonable attempt to make sure your viewers were legal able to consent. All going on about it afterwards is demonising kids looking for somewhere safe to talk. Maybe they call themselves little because it's easier, because they are kinky for it (let they who have never had underage sex or didn't masturbate until they were of age cast the first stone) or that's the term they learns and identified with first.
I identify as bisexual, because that's what i heard first, and no it doesn't mean I'm not attracted to trans* folk I just never clicked with the pansexual label and no one gets to tell me I'm wrong because it's my label for my sexuality. Same thing here with these kids.
If you're sexualising something that isn't inherently sexy and not troubling to check that someone you are primarily directing your messages to is of age to received them then yes that's rapey, in fact the technical term for it is statutory rape.
Instead of assuming the little tag is sexual why isn't the assumption that it's not? Being a caregiver/little relationship is not inherently sexual so there's no need whatsoever to keep it from those underage if you're not sexualising it and if you are then "cover your own asses" as much as you can and the rest will sort itself out and you can plead ignorance if it's ever an issue.
The only time this should be an issue frankly is meeting or skyping someone in person And you found them on tumblr then you deserve everything you get, how the hell you are so thick to join this site and don't realise that over 18s are the minority is beyond my comprehension and I will be the first to stand in court and tell the judge that you, as an adult, should and could not have not known better than that and that ignorance cannot possibly be an acceptable defence.
Underage littles
So I'm noticing a post going around telling people not to support underage littles because it puts kinksters at risk of not being safe to express themselves, this is a false premise. Trigger warning: frank and blunt references to rape and paedophillia. Ok first off if you are a kinkster you're an adult by definition. Take responsibility for your webpages and content and leave everyone else alone. Second, not every little is a kinkster, not every little is sexual and you trying to force your way of doing it on everyone else by insisting that littleness is inherently sexual is frankly rapey and out of order. Keep your kink to yourself, not everyone is in it to get off. Why is it a child's responsibility to protect you? Why do you not take responsibility to protect yourself? Are you really so beyond help and caring that you can't take five seconds to check someone's age? Let me guess? You don't think consent is that big a deal either? Or it's unsexy to check in occasionally...? If that's how you think then never mind kink you shouldn't even be having vanilla sex. Tldr: you are an adult. Own it. Take responsibility and stop trying to force sexual scenarios on non-sexual littles who may or may not be underage then you won't have a problem! If it's so hard to ask a little how old they are before you sexualise a chat or call then you're in the wrong kink. The paedophiles will welcome you with open arms though, I hear they don't tend to ask too many questions either.
I'm really afraid to go back to work.. but I think they need me but Daddy says I should wait till I'm better mentally to go but i keep thinking I'm okay then I have a tantrum over the smallest things :/ When do you think it's okay to go back?
Sweetie how you're feeling is always most important no matter how much work needs you. You go back when you feel ready, not a moment sooner. And feeling ready doesn't mean feeling like you can work because they need you its when YOU want to go back. For now I think your daddy is right, if you're being overwhelmed enough to have a tantrum without work you're not ready to go back yet. *hugs*
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