PureSugar

Aussie SB|30|

[1five1two]

The only thing "free" about so-called free time is that it doesn't cost the boss anything. Free time is mostly devoted to getting ready for work, going to work, returning from work, and recovering from work. Free time is an euphemism for the peculiar way labor as a factor of production not only transports itself at its own expense to and from the workplace but assumes primary responsibility for its own maintenance and repair.

Bob Black

[iamactuallyatree]

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[remanence-of-love]

[cinammonthot-deactivated2019072]

Why do old men hit up SB accounts on Tumblr and try to scam us like we’re not pros???

[naturaekos]

“I didn’t realize it, but the days came along one after another, and then two years were gone, and everything was gone, and I was gone.”

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[unfriendlyblackshawty-deactivat]

Any relationship that I choose to engage in I need to feel an overwhelming amount of happiness and support. I should not feel nor will I tolerate an imbalance in love or care. My storm is over, I will not willfully put myself in situations with individuals in which I do not feel cared for or in which I feel I am a burden. My goal is to attract peace and bliss. I am allowed to be perfectly content and I will be damned if I allow any individual to make me feel as though I am not.

[aussiesugarbabes]

Reblog again as it’s so important!!!! Remember

[unknowngoatl-deactivated2020091]

‘i know what’s important to you.’ a love language.

[photosbygy-deactivated20200605]

fine words from the finest lady

[aussiesugarbabes]

Funny,

Scammer claiming his going to report to me tumblr for calling him a scammer in dms. How ironic and comical can life get.

Yo! Scammer/s please go ahead and report me for bullying you in dms for being a scammer. And potential scammers stay out of my dms or I might offend your feelings.

Have a lovely day 🤘🏽

[danielle-mertina]

I don’t usually like making generational generalizations (lol kinda a pun) but I do think that women demand less from men than at any point in modern American history. 

It seems like for millennial women it’s “wrong” to expect a man to pay for a date or to wait until he’s proven himself to have sex with him or to actually care about how much money a man is on track to make. 

Millennial women are just supposed to be compliant sex dolls who also cook and clean and go 50/50 on all bills–maybe even be the breadwinner in addition to taking care of those household duties. And they definitely cannot expect marriage which they are told is just a “piece of paper” when it clearly isn’t. 

I feel like we’re in a very regressive time when it comes to relationships between men and women. It’s like women are being aggressively bullied into having zero standards via memes/ internet discussion, the media, and the dating scene in general. Especially black women. I hate to see it. 

[viinnttaaggee]

[pastperfectcontinuous]

“There are so many pressures in our culture to get everything right all the time, to be smooth and calm yet efficient and assertive. We’re expected to embody the exact “right” mix of values and beliefs and to communicate those things swiftly and gracefully upon command. We are supposed to care when we disappoint anyone under the sun — bosses and friends and lovers and complete strangers alike. We are to answer to anyone and everyone’s misperceptions immediately, and then we are to adjust, to recalibrate, to please them better and better. We should speak our minds but never step out of line or say a false word. No one should be awkward or anxious or depressed or withdrawn or unattractive or falling behind. No one should seem unconcerned or cynical or upset or lost. Everyone should be positive and cheerful and up to speed at all times, rocketing forward to victory without a doubt in the world. Everyone should be generously giving of themselves without fail, every day. Everyone should be an expert and an advocate for all of the good things, and an opponent and sworn enemy of all of the bad things — in private, in public, around the clock, without a moment off, without a single tiny burble or mumble or glitch.”

Heather Havrilesky, Ask Polly: “I’m slow at everything and it’s ruining my life,”

[aussiesugarbabes]

Personally called out

[lilitharcane-blog]

Reblog if you’re a sugar baby who

Doesn’t hate on girls who take extremely low allowances or pay per meets

Doesn’t hate on girls for not being “classy” or who don’t “know their worth” (or use those phrases in general to bring down other babies)

Understands that the experience of a choice sex worker and a survival sex worker are very different.

Understands that especially if you’re a girl who has the choice to leave sex work whenever you want, are only doing this to have a more glamorous life, or for luxury items (yes I’ve seen girls act superior for only doing this for luxury items and snub girls who do it who need the money), you have certain privileges many in the bowl, and in sex work don’t have.

Understands that some girls enter the bowl to pay for diapers, medical bills, or just to feed their families.

Understands that some women don’t have the luxury to wait around for an allowance YOU deem acceptable because of the above reasons. 

Understands that some women have to take allowances lower than what you would ever accept because they aren’t conventionally attractive (and don’t have the money to make themselves more “attractive”), are plus size, are transgender, have lots of tattoos that hurt their money, are visibly disabled, are autistic/have learning disabilities, speech impediments, or are WOC*, including immigrants with thick accents, or are undocumented and therefor can not always be as choosy.

Doesn’t hate on escorts who aren’t high end or mid range. A lot of SB’s I’ve seen don’t understand how the above intersections can make escorting just as difficult, as well as the fact that if you’re hours away from a major city or middle class suberb the rates in general are MUCH lower. It doesn’t matter if a girl charges $200 or less an hour, or does $40 15 min. quickies, you have no right to judge her. If anything low end escorts need more love and support since LE doesn’t target high end as often, they can’t properly screen like mid range, and even other sex workers shit on them, feminists talk over them since they’re considered the “victims”, not even going into society as a whole.

Understands that your rate/allowance, pay per meet is not your actual “worth” since I continually see “know your worth”. It is simply the amount of money that you are able to make, whether it’s from good genes, skill, or proper marketing.

Isn’t classist in general

 *You can still of course, get high allowances with any of these things (some of the top sb’s I’ve seen are black or plus size), but from what I’ve seen they’re usually drop dead gorgeous and the above things do work against you often times.

I see a lot of babies in the bowl do these things and I have a lot of sugar baby followers it seems more than any other type of sex worker, and I’d love to follow you, but I always end up seeing so much classism and lateral whorephobia I’m afraid to follow most sugar babies now, so I’d like to know which ones are “safe” to follow. (if anyone actually reads or reblogs this, which I doubt a bit)

Also if you’re another type of sex worker feel free to reblog of course. :)

[evolvingessence]

[aussiesugarbabes]

So my female room mate vented to me today, she’s a 45 year old divorcée, who’s boyfriend doesn’t help her with any “bills” who also makes $200k a year, who lets her pay for everything, even when she has told him she’s struggling. She told me she’s going to break up with him..... I get home tonight late and hear her getting fucked in her room. I’m so glad I’ll never be that 45 year old who’s boyfriend won’t help with bills...... and fuck for free. How does he deserve the reward of sex? The thing is if you give them positive reinforcement like that they are going to continue to fuck you and fuck you over.... gone should be the days of free pussy! 👆🏼this will be my face/s to her tomorrow

[lucifers-ass-cheek]

[aussiesugarbabes]

Men on SA be like.......

[yourvisionboard]

“The minute you decide you want better for yourself is the minute the entire universe begins to shift in your favour.”

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