autism problem #422
when people think you are faking your disability to get out of doing stuff
The Stonewall Inn

Product Placement

if i look back, i am lost
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NASA
YOU ARE THE REASON
Cosimo Galluzzi
Color Me Curious
Claire Keane
todays bird

❣ Chile in a Photography ❣
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Keni

gracie abrams

Game Changer & Make Some Noise
Monterey Bay Aquarium
The Bowery Presents
hello vonnie
Sade Olutola
cherry valley forever

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autism problem #422
when people think you are faking your disability to get out of doing stuff
autism problem #423
“we’re sorry, but we cannot accommodate your needs”
Bridegroom Documentary Plot
Okay, all you homophobes out there, imagine this: You meet this person and you fall deeply in love with them. But their parents don’t like it, at all. You’re together for 6 years, you share a mortgage, your own business together, and you have a dog. One morning, you get into an argument and your partner leaves without saying goodbye. You text and apologize, say you love each other and then, it’s over. They’re gone and you are left with nothing. Since the law would not allow the two of you to get married, your partner has to die alone and miserable in a hospital bed. You don’t get to see them until after they’ve done passed. Those happy, 6 years you two spent together meant absolutely nothing. If that’s not enough, their parent comes to your house, the house you shared with your partner for 6 years, and takes everything of theirs. You have nothing of theirs to remember you by, except a promise ring given to you 5 months before their death. And if that’s not enough, you’re told if you attend their funeral, you will be killed. So you go and keep your distance so as not to be seen. You’re not mentioned in the funeral service, the obituary, no one mentions you whatsoever. The last 6 years of you and your partner’s lives are erased. That is the real life struggle that Shane Bitney Crone faced when his partner/boyfriend/fiancé Tom Bridegroom fell from a 4 story building. That is the true meaning of lost love, so please watch the movie. It’s on Netflix and if you don’t have Netflix, it’s on YouTube, just search it. It’s worth watching.
Being autistic, I have strange obsessions. My new obsession is the movie Bridegroom. If you’re one of those people that say being gay is wrong, I dare you to watch this movie. I promise you will change your mind.
autism problem #404
when you try to shower but just end up standing under the water for a long time
December is National suicide prevention month
Asperger's vs "True Autism" (Meltdowns vs Temper Tantrums)
One of the main differences between Asperger's and autism is that ppl with Asperger's don't know how to handle social interaction so they choose to be alone. They choose to be solitary. People with severe autism don't have the capability of choosing to be alone. They're sort of trapped within themselves, which is actually what the word "autism" means. It literally means "self-ism" A lot of the things we do are similar to autistics such as meltdowns and stimming which is why we were put on the same spectrum. Those are things that are specific to autism. Stimming is something that an autistic will do to relax themselves (most common is rocking, there's also tapping fingers, clicking tongue, and shaking legs. My stim is I grind my teeth). A lot of parents confuse autistic meltdowns with temper tantrums, but there are ways of discerning the two. The biggest difference is harm. When a child is having a temper tantrum he/she will take precautions to not get hurt, but when someone is having an autistic meltdown they have no control over who gets hurt they will actually hurt themselves (punch their heads/chest, bang their heads against the wall/floor, or bite themselves. Sometimes they just fall to the floor and cry). A temper tantrum happens when the child doesn't get their way. An autistic meltdown happens when a series of emotions build up and it's too much for an autistic to take (kinda like a seizure; there's no control)
autism problem #125
when people teach you to hide your feelings and then say you don’t have feelings because you don’t express them
autism problem #150
dentist visits are sensory hell plus smalltalk
I've had the same dentist/dental hygienist for the past 13 years so, I'm actually okay with it.
autism problem #149
when you can’t find the words for the thing and you just *clenches fist* *clenches fist*
autism problem #151
when you’re disabled enough to be abused for it but not disabled enough to be accommodated for it
autism problem #228
never being able to find anything in your backpack or your locker or your room
autism problem #232
always being too hot, no matter what temperature it is
autism problem #244
when you go to a relative’s house and everything you could do at your house doesn’t generalize so you just sit on the floor and stare at the wall for a few hours
autism problem #249
not knowing if people would still like you if they knew you were autistic
autism problem #283
when people treat you like you’re younger than you are
autism problem #300
when you need subtitles on TV because processing spoken language is hard, but the subtitles distract you from what you’re watching