They say everybody deserves to have a second chance. Whenever we asks for a second chance, we somehow starts to be defensive by saying that, ‘we all made mistakes’. It is inevitable. Perhaps, we can change for the better and so second chance must be given for us to prove that indeed, we have changed already.
We can say that it’s some kind of a challenge to prove that we are deserving for that second chance, but often times it comes with a promise. A promise not to make the same mistake again. But isn’t it possible for us to make the same mistake again? I mean, it is another inevitable thing. No matter how many times we have promised, we cannot control some things from happening. There would come a time when we get to make the same mistake unconsciously.
We also have to bear in mind that when we commit ourselves, we are responsible for taking care of the relationship that we have. If there are problems, fix it and don’t give up on it easily. Break-up shouln’t be an option.
Don’t waste your first chance just because you think that there will always be a second chance. That’s not the case all the time. Sometimes, when you let a person go, the two of you might never meet again as in ever. And so before leaving someone, make sure that you are prepared enough to know the real ending. Remember, only few people are blessed to get their ex-partners back.
It’s not that second chances don’t work, it’s more of valuing your first chance so that you won’t end up regretting.
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