WLW WISHES

I'm ur bi fairy godmother ~ WLW: women loving women ~

[petaltexturedskies]

Anaïs Nin, in a diary entry dated 25 April 1928, from The Early Diary of Anais Nin: 1927-1931

[awlwwish]

happy monday trans women are women and trans lesbian are lesbians

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happy tuesday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy wednesday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy thursday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy friday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy saturday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy sunday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy international women’s day trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians! 

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tell me about your crush! if you could wish for your perfect date together what would it be?

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It’s wlw wish wednesday! send them in

[awlwwish]

just wanna say that like. there are a lot of girls out there. i'm feelin pretty gay. wish i could say that i'm incoherent because i'm drunk but i'm honestly just a dumb gay tryna get a degree and a partner. but girls are just so good.

anon this is one whole mood!! good luck with ur degree <3 

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hello

hello! I am back!! basically pandemic times are a lil lonely and so so much about being queer is community! so I wanted to restart my wlw wish wednesdays again :))

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tell me about your crush! if you could wish for your perfect date together what would it be?

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It’s wlw wish wednesday! send them in

[filmnoirsbian]

As a lesbian i will always relate more to trans women than cishet women. Made to feel disgusting and predatory in women's spaces? Check. Berated and mocked for our relation to sexuality and womanhood? Check. Hated for our "deviancy from the norm"? Check. Every single essay about womanhood by a trans woman--and especially, especially by trans wlw--has spoken more to me than anything written by a cis straight woman ever could. T*rfs can take that to the bank.

[pantlesshero]

also, may I add because it's not just the negative stuff. there's so much positive connection:

gender euphoria experiences with a self determined approach to womanhood, attraction and sexuality

celebration of bodies beyond the norm

creating our own culture of appreciating complex and intertwined expressions of gender and sexuality

destigmatization and newfound respect of and for our bodies

true sisterhood based on choice not force

the inherent revolutionary nature of our existence and our love and community

creating space for exploration of pleasure and identity

[countsuckula]

These posts were fundamental in my coming out as a woman and hopefully someone else will see them and see the overflowing love and acceptance that is waiting for them too.

[sylceon-remade]

happy birthday to the bi flag

[awlwwish]

A wlw wish: that all trans women and trans wlw are safe today and having their pronouns respected

[pinkpurplebluepride]

“J: Are we ever going to be able to define what bisexuality is? S: Never completely. That’s just it – the variety of lifestyles that we see between us defies definition.”

— Boston Bisexual Women’s Network Newsletter, January 1984

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happy monday trans women are women and trans lesbian are lesbians

[awlwwish]

happy tuesday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

[awlwwish]

happy wednesday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy thursday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy friday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy saturday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy sunday trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians

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happy international women’s day trans women are women and trans lesbians are lesbians! 

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*checking my mood ring* it says i love girls

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happy international women’s day! 

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A wlw wish: To have her fall asleep against me and feel her heartbeat

[lesbofujo]

U know what? Love is stored in the bi woman

[cybunni-deactivated20180924]

100 years of butches

[awlwwish]

so I really like this girl and I'd say we don't have a super low chance of happening, but I'm still dealing with a lot of internalised homophobia so is it better to wait until I fully accept myself before doing anything, or to just go for it first? what I'm worried about is that if she does like me back, I'm gonna enter the r/s knowing from the start it's not gonna work out because the internalised homophobia will eventually scare me off? tysm I love your blog btw xx

I think this may have been here for a while in which case first of all I hope things worked out in the best way.

I’m gonna answer anyway in case it’s useful for someone else! I think if you’re honest about where you’re at with things with her from the start, you have nothing to feel bad about and it’s something you can navigate together. It might be that it is too much too soon for you, in which case you’ll have still learnt how to navigate your feelings with someone else and learn how to communicate in a relationship. In my first relationship with a girl I definitely had to navigate some internalised homophobia that I didn’t realise was still kicking around until I leant in to kiss her and we both shied away! We both grew a LOT in that relationship and when I look back on it I’m really grateful to that time, and the work we put in to try and foster an environment to grow emotionally and share with each other. A relationship should give both of you happiness, and it could be that she wants to take things pretty slow! Basically, you don’t have to wait until you think you’re the ‘finished product’ before you try dating. You might find that you could think you’re fully there and then you start dating and it brings up a load of potential situations like pda/coming out and you do find there’s still some internalised homophobia. As long as you communicate with your partner and are both aware of what your want from the relationship and it can work for both of you, then go for it!  By learning from each other I’m not meaning that you need to be in a relationship to accept yourself, or that you should ‘use’ people to fast track yourself to a better place. sorry this is so rambling! xx

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Um, hello? Hi, I'm so sorry to randomly bother you, but I'm relatively new to the Bi community and I am seeking advice from friendly, welcoming people, and you seem like a good, safe person to ask. Do you have any advice for a bicurious girl who feels like her identity is invalid, just bc she likes girls but has never kissed or gone on dates w/ anyone before? Sorry, i don't mean to offend or impose in any way; I'm struggling. Thanks for your blog! I hope you have a happy day today. Thanks again.

Hi! First of all I’m flattered, that’s just the vibe I want to give out! You’re not offending or imposing my lovely! (I am busy though so I have taken a couple of days to reply but don’t take it personally- I wanted to as soon as I saw this!) Hmm first of all acceptance is something that happens over time, often in little sudden increases too, but it’s not often an instant thing. And that’s okay, and you’re not ‘bad’ for struggling, or for having internalised biphobia- this is from the society we live in. I remember I used to (and I still sometimes do!) beat myself up a bit about still having remnants of internalised biphobia and it just adds another layer of not fun stuff to deal with, although I recognise that it’s easier said than done. But, if you were needing to hear that, then here you are. Is it just your attraction to girls that you feel is invalid because it isn’t something you’ve been able to explore? People wouldn’t wait for you to get to date a guy before believing in your attraction. It’s the fact that you want to date girls that makes your sexuality valid- not your experiences. Idk if you think about it, we expect there to be a level of attraction/feelings before a date, before the kiss, so all the stuff that comes before which is largely happening internally, is important and  true and part of your sexuality! Lots of love to you and feel free to drop by again! xxx