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Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little. And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward.

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Reminiscing

I haven’t been on here in a while. The person that I am today is nothing like I was 5 years ago. When I was 15, I didn’t like tattoos, piercings, or crazy hair colors. Looking at myself now, I was such a hypocrite. Simply because my hair has been purple, fuschia, hot pink, pastel pink, blue, and right now, green and Aqua lmao. I have my nose, Tragus, and nipples pierced. And my nipples were the last thing I ever thought I’d pierced. I have 5 tattoos with many more to come. Within 5 years, I’ve gained so much knowledge about life. The amount of situations I’ve been through made me become a stronger person. I was so weak-minded. I wasn’t confident, I wasn’t happy with myself. It wasn’t til after 3 relationships for me to actually see my worth. For me to see that I’m beautiful with or without makeup, a guy should never ever feel bothered that I wear makeup here and there. I’ve learned so much from the people that came and left in my life and it’s honestly a blessing because without all the great things and even the horrible bullshit things, it made me, me.