A lot of men out there love the idea of breaking a girl. Of pushing her to her limits and then dragging her even further. They want to see a girl break for them and they want to feel like they completely dominated her and own her. That she is now theirs until the end of time. But a lot of you need to realize how hard this is and how much time, energy and trust goes into it.
Breaking her, starts weeks before you touch her. To break her, you need to understand her. Some doms will read that and say bull shit. Just hit her till she cries! And you are right that hitting her will make her cry, but that doesn’t mean you broke her. Some girls cry if you raise your voice. Making her cry does not mean you dominated her.
You need to spend evenings talking. Days living life together. You need to know her fears and insecurities. Her motivations and dreams. You need to know her to her core. Her very soul.
Hitting and yelling at her until she cries and “submits” isn’t breaking her. It’s abusing her until she gives in just to make you stop. When you know how to break her, she wont want you to stop. She will take anything you give her because she is yours and trusts you and knows that no matter what you do, you will be there for her when you are done. To pick up her and put her back together.
Most of you have no ability to do that. Most of you do not understand what it means to be a Dom and most of you don’t know how to truly break a girl.
