Nuclear Hooligan

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[npc-lyn]

this year's charity stream is a great example of why I love the drawfee community: the hosts literally just played a game for a few hours and with no incentives to reach any specific goals or anything, the community raised 100k for trans lifeline

and then raised more money just to make nathan do pushups, jacob squat, julia clap, and spencer do drugs

[black---cube]

Got ragebaited by a spider so I drew her as a human

Girl be so for real just lock in and apologize it's not that deep😭🙏🙏I was so hyped to see maybe an official human design of her😭😭😭 I did not wait 4 months for this side quest to update just so you can flip Athena off🙏🙏

All jokes aside it makes so much sense the way it is…her ego literally can't take that

And she's still my fav 😭🥹

[afurioushawk]

I'M PISSING

[unhinged-soapbox]

The part in Trans Rigs 2026 where they zoomed out on the truck then said "WE LOST EVERYONE! WHERE'S THE TRAILER?" is a top tier bit.

[cressidascowper]

#it's the fourth of fucking july 🫩

THE PITT — S02E03 "9:00 A.M."

[bigbigbigtruck]

i’ll be real, kitten, daddy needs multiple wealthy and powerful folks to die in a painful, drawn-out, and generationally humiliating manner

[the-artist-lio]

thinking about how, long before i knew about dropout, my first exposure to brennan lee mulligan was the snake with legs and boobs from drawfee

[historical-fashion-polls]

which outfit would you rather wear? (1884)

left 🖤🧡

right 🤍❤️

Voting ended onJul 5

requested by: anon

request: theatre wear, preferably Victorian (like going to the theatre, not theatre costumes)

commentary from the curator: although there was no specific label on this plate, I picked it for this request because the background of the image shows that they're in a theatre! ☺️

[astoundingbeyondbelief]

[gerards-calves]

Select ‘rards from tonight

[hotvampireadjacent]

[etherealascend]

[teaboot]

There's this thing I never realized I did when I was doing it that I like to think of as "Ownership of Space"

And it's that thing where you mentally place yourself as the second, auxiliary party to someone else that you consider to be "In Charge" of whatever space or occupation or responsibility you are assigned to

And when you are IN that mindset, it *feels* like you're being responsible. It *feels* like you're being respectful, and helpful, and contributing to the load.

But what you don't SEE- because it *feels* like deference- is that the other person who you're seeing as The Authority you report to- by being assigned that role, has also been assigned the invisible load of BEING YOUR MANAGER.

This is by FAR most commonly seen in husband-and-wife relationships, where the man says, "just tell me what I can do to HELP- you don't have to do it all by yourself, but it's like you won't even tell me when you NEED help. You just do everything and then get mad at me for not doing it first. I can help clean. I can help with the kids. I can help"

But I also see it- and am guilty myself of doing it- at work, at school, in public- that mental, "this is THEIR space, and i will be respectful and helpful to THEM"- without realizing that subservience in this manner isn't actually a good thing. That it actually shifts the burden of responsibility to the other person. That aspect was totally invisible to me.

I didn't understand that when I was told, "if you see something that needs to be done, just DO it", or, "take the initiative", what they ACTUALLY meant was, "I am not above you", or "you have equal say in what kind of environment you want to live or work in", or "I do not want full control over what happens here, I do not want to order you around, I do not want to be in charge, what I WANT is to co-command WITH you"

Being in The Assigned Authority position NOW, that is all so much clearer.

I am the senior member of my team at work, and now, every time I train a newbie, every time I finish catching them up to speed and giving them a list of everything that needs to be done, my next big hurdle seems to always be, "now take pride in the space when I'm not around". "Now don't assume I'll tell you when something is due or what orders to plan things in".

Now, having been on both sides of the struggle, I can appreciate the sticking points here

TO THE PERSON "IN CHARGE": The person deferring to you doesn't understand the invisible labor you're doing. They genuinely believe you know more, you WANT more, you see things they don't, and that they are being respectful and good by staying out of your way and waiting on your orders. THAT is the bit that's not clicking.

TO THE PERSON "WANTING TO HELP": "Help" implies that you are providing assistance to a problem that belongs to somebody else. Stop thinking like that. Understand that the problem belongs to BOTH of you equally, and consider what kind of shared space you BOTH want. What is your SHARED GOAL? Not THEIR goal, but a goal that belongs to you too. Own your space.

This is not a Commander-Lieutenant problem. This is a Partnership problem.

You Are Co-Commanders On This Ship

[teaboot]

Sharing my own tags actually

[the-writer-nerd-ro]

Ik that the 2 million creep is a running joke/goal among Drawfee fans but I truly don't understand why friend of the show Willie Muse isn't at 100k yet. If you like any of the stuff Willie has been in on the Drawfee show (for instance, the Pretzel Tier List Stream or Emo Lyrics Drawing Challenge or the loop section of Drawfee Vapridety) then you should go sub to his channel right now

[orcboxer]

excuse me

[greelin]

bought a zucchini and the clerk trying to key it in was like I’m so sorry can you tell me what this is. brother never be sorry for having an inquisitive mind

[figtreeandvine]

Bought artichokes in a brand-new, first-ever supermarket in a small town in Michigan in 1989. Clerk asked us what they were, we said artichokes. Next time we bought artichokes there we got the same clerk, who remembered what they were called, but.... "So, um, how do you eat one? I peeled and peeled and there was nothing left!" We explained how to cook and eat an artichoke. This was pre-internet, just to remind you: you had to know it, find it in a library book, or ask someone.

Third time we bought artichokes, she said, "It was good!"

She was an inquisitive and intelligent person. She recognized what she didn't know, she asked questions, she remembered what she was told, and she identified a resource for learning more.

No one is born knowing how to eat an artichoke. It's certainly not intuitive! A very stupid vegetable, clearly eaten first by someone exceptionally hungry and then bred to be slightly easier to eat.

[charl0ttan]

do you think the pieces from chess are all actually mad at each other or are they just like actors