A Sissy’s Reference
By Scandalous Sissy
**Thank you to u/sissy-sophia on Reddit whose ‘The Sissy Guide’ was used to create certain sections of this guide. The information provided in the following sections of this guide are accredited to u/sissy-sophia: Dieting, Exercise, Demeanor, and Shaving. If you would like to check out ‘The Sissy Guide’ by u/sissy-sophia, the link is below:
https://www.reddit.com/r/sissyology/comments/52hwsu/introducing_the_sissy_guide_a_comprehensive_guide/?utm_content=title&utm_medium=hot&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=sissyology
Introduction
What is being a sissy, you may ask? Well, she is simply a variation of the traditional household wife. The traditional wife, in this society, is bound to the home and tends to the children; as well as executing the chores around the home. The sissy would do the same. If their dominant master, or “dom.” for short, decided to have children and start a family, the sissy would be the household aid. Though a sissy is not a maid. The sissy is in no way a second wife. The sissy is a wife, though many exceptions exist. In many cases, the sissy may be a household servant, similar to a maid, or an additional wife. Though the sissy in a two-person relationship is, in fact, just a wife.
Pronouns
If you have not noticed, the sissy, despite being male by birth, uses feminine pronouns, with some exceptions. Though, the sissy is not always a transgender. If one is unsure how to refer to a sissy, it never hurts to ask.
Duties
The foremost duty a sissy must bear is the responsibility of pleasing and appear attractive towards their dom. This may be in a sexual sense or public sense. Sissies should indulge in cooking, cleaning, and other household chores that a housewife would be expected to do.
The distinction between a sissy and a man are very important. They are in no way similar. Sure, they may be similar in a biological sense, but not strength or personality wise. Sissies aspire to date strong men with large penises.
It is also very ideal that the dom. indulges in the realm of B.D.S.M. with their sissy; sexual punishment is a very usual activity.
Exercise
It is not ideal for a sissy to perform relatively extensive exercises that have the potential of creating muscle mass. Some sissies are expected to remain thin, but anybody type, thick or slim, can fit a sissy. Typical daily exercise includes the following:
Sidekicks
Hamstring curls
Lunges
Deadlifts
These exercises will allow the buttocks, thighs, and other regions to expand, giving sissies that nice, thick feminine body.
Dieting
Sissies should consume foods that produce natural estrogen. This is done to allow certain areas of the body to enlarge and appear more feminine-looking, like the buttocks for example. Dieting should include the following:
Agave and honey (as sweets)
Tofu
Drink Soy
The avoidance of red meats is advised, for it can increase testosterone.
Basic Pleasure Necessities
The three most standard and quite necessary items for a sissy include the following:
chastity cage
butt plug
rubber dildo (though plastic, while not ideal, is acceptable)
Other miscellaneous items are not mandatory, but they are gems to own.
Shaving
First and foremost, the realm of shaving only takes place in the shower. A sissy is advised to take a warm or a hot bath beforehand can allow their pores to easily open, making shaving a breeze. The use of an electric trimmer (electric razor) is recommended to shorten body hair before the traditional blade is used. Shaving in the tub, especially with the grain of a sharp razor, is recommended. Shaving cream or shaving foam helps as well, but it should not be lathered all over the body. To conclude shaving, a cold shower should be taken to closes a sissy’s pores and forces out oils and any dirt.
A sissy should use an electric shaver to trim her hairs before using a hair-removal method. Exfoliate the skin. In essence, this involves using shower loofah and scrubbing your body with it.
Using a high-quality oil-free moisture lotion is recommended. Neutrogena, while expensive, is worth the extra money. Coconut oil also works in the exfoliation of the skin.
Demeanor
Sissies generally are light on their feet and swish of their hips when walking. The arms move with each step in slow, yet graceful movements. Sissies should have their wrists limp, their shoulders back, and their spine arched.
Behavior
Sissies should remain positive in public and in private. This does not mean a sissy should hide her feelings with a facade, it means that she should try to remain lively, vibrant, and stylish while remaining to appear relaxed. If a sissy and a dom. ever run into a disagreement or even an argument, they should listen to each other and make a strong effort to work it out, just like any other partners in a relationship should.
Sexual Behavior
Achieving what is called a “sissygasm” is one, if not the most, important sexual achievements for a sissy. What is this sissygasm? A sissygasm is an orgasm that is achieved through the pressing against the prostate, while the penis is limp, not erect. The pressing against the prostate should not be a violent pressing, for that can result in damage to the prostate and severe problems. It should be moderate to relatively gentle pressing.
The chastity cage is used to restrict the strength and erections of the penis, allowing it to remain limp. This is done so that the sissy may only achieve an orgasm via sissygasm.
Lexicon
Vocabulary is important for a sissy. When talking to their dom. or out in public, if they so choose, specific word choice should influence their speech.
Suggested synonyms for the word good include the following:
Yummy
Pretty
Cute
Sweet
Sexy
Proper
Superb
Happy
Fabulous
Another example includes “Small” or “Little” (when referring to themselves or other sissies) and “Big” (when referring to their dom or other men).
Suggested synonyms for the word bad include the following:
Yucky
Silly
Ouch
Boring
Crazy
Wild
Scary
Sad
Prude
Gross
Improper
Wrong
Horrid
Hard (when applied to penises)
Other important suggestions include using the following:
Yes Sir
No Sir
Yes Madam (or Ma’am)
No Madam (or Ma’am)
May I
Please
Pretty Please
Thank you
Excuse me
Sorry
This is done to further solidify the sissy’s subservience through obedience and politeness. When referring to their dom., sissies ought to use “Master” or “Daddy,” and “Mistress” or “Mommy.” Every term used by the sissy to refer to their dom. must always be capitalized when written.
Wardrobe
A sissy’s wardrobe must only or mainly consist of feminine clothing, this includes:
Dresses
Skirts
Tank-tops
Brassieres
Panties
Lingerie
Maid Gown
High Heel Shoes
Corset
Tights
Stockings
Leggings
Tight, High-cut Shorts
Leg Warmers
Arm Warmers
Slippers
Female Sneakers (preferably pink)
Mascara, lipstick, and maquillage (make-up) are a must for the face of a sissy. They enhance the features of a sissy and give them that desired feminine visage. Ear piercings are standard, though any other piercing is not mandatory.
Conclusion
Being a sissy should not just be a state of mind in a sexual sense, it should be a bonafide lifestyle. You should not just be subservient to your husband or wife, depending on your attraction, you should be genuinely attracted and connected to them. That is what a humble partner in a relationship is after all. If you are simply a sissy for the purpose of being sexually aroused, then this may not be the lifestyle for you. It could perhaps be that you would prefer the private sexual relationship over a public lifestyle subservient to your dom. If this is the case, then, by all means, do what it is that makes you happy. Now go out and be a proper sissy.
Hope to see you, girls!
I wish I had a black daddy to serve like this
