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Bear's Anons 🧡: 🌑,👽,🌸!!!
🧡~ About me
Hey! The names Bear (18)! I'm a butch (non-binary/gender non-conforming) Lesbian (they/them) and new to this side of tumblr (✨️bear✨️ with me while I figure shit out)!
I wanted to create this account to find a space and community to share my art, writings, music, and even figure out who I am and how I want to present!
Speedrun of facts:
🧡 - I have an AMAZING Girlfriend!!! 🥰🤭( @the-fantisising-theatre-femme )!!!! Every post is made to represent my femme <3!!
🧡- AuDHD
🧡- Switch leaning Dom (In a loving relationship with my sub <3)!
🧡- Monster and fictional character lover! (This is a safe place for LEGAL self shippers, AKA, ADULTS in ADULT relationships!)
🧡-Artist, writer, and creative!
🧡- other than horny postings- I'm a huge nerd! Video games, TTRPG, etc etc!!
Below are my rules, interactions, and boundaries! (Read before you Interact!)
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RULES AND INTERACTIONS:
Asks ARE open! I highly encourage asks! Rules on that are further down :D!
I LOVE talking with other queer people (even if we have different identities) so PLEASE interact!!!
I'm open to finding mutuals, so don't be afraid to reach out!!
When it comes to interactions, I ask only for other lesbians or Sapphics to flirt! Or send ✨️those✨️types of asks!!! (This includes ANYONE who identifies as this!!)
However- anything platonic can be from anyone! (Get behind me, I'll protect you)
When it comes to asks:
- anyone (other than my DNI list) is able to interact!
- lesbians and other sapphics are the only ones allowed to get flirty 🐻👍🏼
- be respectful! Read what my boundaries are below before interacting!!
- when asking as anon- (preferably put yout age) but also pronouns so I can address you properly!! (Also an emoji if you want to be a regular :D)
My DMs are open but again- be respectful!
NO unsolicited images- NO I won't send Images
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BOUNDRIES:
I'm fine with flirting/sexual asks from other lesbians/sapphics - but keep in mind, I have a loving partner so don't expect to get anything more than flirting!
Bear's GO AHEADS:✅️
- lesbianism 🧡
- monster fuckery
- tops, bottoms, subs, doms, switches, ANYONE!
- a femme who will pull on my carabiner ( @the-fantisising-theatre-femme 🧡💜)
- lesbians and other sapphics who don't feel like they belong because of some stupid societal norm (I will protect you with my life!!)
- Petplay
- chasers
Bear's NO:🚫
Now that you've read this all - interact! I don't bite (sometimes...)!
Actually yeah to all the people who hate on pillow princesses for being selfish take a step back and ask yourself why you think topping is "work." You can just be a bottom if you don't wanna top. Like you sound jealous of pillow princesses. Also grow up.
I started this account to be able to be myself and be able to feel free within lesbianism and butchness! Especially when the world is always trying to demonize your identity. Society has drilled the idea that lesbianism needs to be soft and anything else is disgusting and should not be acknowledged.
Having so many others tell you that your identity is gross has only made me want to be even louder in who I am. Making this account was the start to that.
I ended up meeting the love of my life on here. Someone who is unapologetically herself, just like me! She has shown me ways to feel comfortable in who I am, really allowing me to become the Butch I've always wanted to be.
Though I might've just made this account, met my love a few months later, and then completely disappeared for a few months afterwards... Sometimes that person makes life worth wild and you need to step back to fully enjoy the world with them! She's made me feel loved like no one has ever done before, and it really just happens when you least expect it!
No matter what relationship it is, platonic, romantic, sexual, and many more... The important people really can help drown out all that society tries to throw at us. Really just be yourself, loudly be yourself, no matter who tells you not to be. We all need this now more than ever.
One thing I've noticed about running a NSFW tumblr blog is that you make a few posts and wait until the moon and stars allign and all the horny queer people come out of hiding. Then that's when all your posts blow up.
So the Prophecy is true! This exact post is blowing up again! The moons and stars mist be aligned!
This exact post blowing up was the exact reason how my Girlfriend ( @the-fantisising-theatre-femme ) found me and we started talking HDKSJD!! AND THAT WAS 9 MONTHS AGO AND THE FACT THIS STARTED GAINING TRACTION AGAIN DURING THE WEEK OF OUR 9 MONTHS IS ART.
fyi, you can ask puppy-eyed butches “want a treat?” while lifting up a little skirt or pushing panties to the side and visibly watch their brain stutter. fyi. 🙂↕️🙂↕️
hate that tumblr has turned identifying as a femme into an aesthetic more and more, that aesthetic being one of white thin cis pink obsessed coquette girlies (which there is nothing wrong with this aesthetic in general i enjoy various aspects of it, i mean look at my blog) but it’s bad when people who don’t understand what being a femme is and is truly about and they start identifying as femme and think that’s all it is /an aesthetic/ and it’s even worse when these lesbians correlate it to kink and sexualize butches without their consent and demand them to be doms/daddies etc. because if you’re doing that you’re not a femme, there’s no one way to be a femme and there is no dress code, but to be a femme you must love and respect butches and studs and not treat them like pieces of meat or sex toys for you to ogle and use and then throw away. it’s gross. stop it.
They all thought it was the butches that would be the horny bastards filled with lustful intentions that will turn everyone and their mothers into lesbians. But they were all wrong
The world gave no warning for the hot as fuck femmes who bat their eyelashes at you and shake their ass your way to grab your attention. It's the femmes who fill you with lustful intentions and they are PROUD of it! They are the ones who wear those outfits that frame them so well, leaving you staring at them, DROOLING even.
Femmes have your heart in a chokehold and you BETTER thank them
THIS GOES FOR ALL FEMMES OUT THERE!
🧡🐻🧡 This is coming from a butch who gets all hot in bothered by their femme (who is 10x more horny than me)
You guys gotta save me. So my butch works at a science centre for kids and has to wear a lab coat right? And one day they accidentally wore it home and wouldn't stop teasing me by wearing it. We were talking today and they got an email about uni and they have to get a lab coat as part of their equipment. So I'm gonna be dead for the next few weeks... they may be getting it tomorrow
I love my butch so much. The other night we were on call and their family had ordered food in and he was getting themselves some. And then he picked up a plate paused and turned to me and was like "i almost asked what you wanted to eat"
I just love how normal and routine it's become to be included in eachother's everyday tasks even when we're currently long distance.
I've been thinking recently about hosting a dyke hangout with a bunch of other dyke friends but the main goal is to show off my girl <3 have her walk out in her new collar and outfit... tapping my lap for her to sit so pretty in while we all talk... drinking and laughing while I get more touchy with her... slowly, one by one, the others start to notice and make comments that get more and more suggestive...
Then, I make an explicit comment about her - "Doesn't her ass look so good in this skirt? I could hike it right up for all of you to see" - and that's when the fun begins. Some sit back and watch while others start moving their hips, trying to distract from their own thoughts. Maybe I'll have her lie on my lap as softly caress her ass, threatening to spank it. I'll have her on display for our friends, put on a little show before dinner. Though, I'm really just playing with my food because we all know who is for dessert <3
I'd invite everyone to the table where there is enough chairs for everyone, except her. Her seat is the table, so we all can view her. I just love the idea of pleasing her infront of our many horny friends 🤭😏