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Notice how God looks out for you in the little ways, too.
ABUNDANCE MINDSET ;WHAT IT IS AND HOW TO EMBODY IT
Ladies let's talk about this. Let's talk about what it actually means to have an abundance mindset. We hear the word a lot, right? In femininity and loa circles. What is it even?
Well the literal meaning applies, let's not repeat that. This post has two major points I want you to walk out with.
1. Abundance is not earned, it's tapped into. You don't create it you just find it. It's like, say water. It exists your job is to find it. You can't actually create it, it's just there. You take it or not
As a woman abundance isn't just your birthright it's your nature. A woman living and operating in lack is a highly masculine woman and life will rub you raw. Raw. I'm not a femininity girlie but ill let you have this one- it's not feminine nature to struggle and lack thats sus. That's just not us okay. We want, we get. And I don't mean from men, no I mean we just get it. However wherever. You want it you get it. Simple.
2. Abundance and money have no link whatsoever, and part of living in lack is linking them. You need money to be financially abundant but that's it. Money is the physical manifestation of abundance, once more I'm not a manifesting girlie so I won't get into it but babyyy dethrone money. It's not all that.
-> now, what is an abundance mindset?
An abundance mindset isn't "I'll buy that because the money will come" that's a terrible financial outlook, plan and budget around your finances. And abundance mindset isn't "There will be more", it's simply, "there will be"
It's the firm knowledge that you'll get it when you want it, it will be there. It's looks a lot like
It's bedtime so I'll sleep because my friends will be my friends tomorrow and we don't need to talk all night
This isn't the dress I wanted, and instead of buying another I'll just wait for the one I want to be restocked. It will be there
I'm full so I'll store the food away. It'll be there tomorrow no need to binge
I'm not going on a clothing haul bc I don't really need new clothes, and when I do I'll just go get them then. They'll be there.
No need for street food I'll get home and make a healthy meal. I have time.
It's a great movie, but I need to sleep so I'll watch it tomorrow, it will be there.
This isn't the kind of man I want. He ticks some boxes but not the ones that matter so I'll wait for the one that ticks the right boxes. 4 billion men, I wont settle
I didn't get into that program this year but that's okay I'll just reapply next year. The time will be there
At the heart of an abundance mindset is patience and priority. It's the willingness to wait because it's there. It's not here yet but it will be. At the heart of a lack mindset is compromise. I can't get what i want so I get the next best thing.
An abundant mindset is a relaxed state of being, and no I'm not preaching delusion here if your budget can't accommodate Jimmy choos either get second hand or some that fit your budget. Im preaching patience and self worth X smart priorities. Your priority is a loving relationship not a bf so you're willing to wait for all your right boxes to be checked, and if not you'll be okay. Your priority is your health so you'll not eat that burger you'll wait to get home and make the healthier version. Your priority is friendship so you forgo the drama and wait for the high value sisters.
The easiest representation of an abundance mindset is an infant. It just knows it'll get what it needs. Never stressing nope ill get fed, bathed and cooed to sleep. 100% assurance. This is just my life I get what I need.
Am abundance mindset requires for you to know your
Worth
Priorities
Place
And your place ma'am, is the queens table.
-> please note an abundance mindset is not about "there's more", in fact "more" is a lack mindset pov we don't do that. It's, when i want it. I'll get it. Just that. It's not rooted in desire It's rooted in assurance, and assurance is rooted in competence.
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New Year Resolution: DISCIPLINE
100 WAYS TO HAVE FUN WITHOUT ANY FRIENDS🍸
I cut a lot of toxic people out of my life last year, including family and friends that I’ve known forever and now I’m at a point where I don’t really have any friends. I’m not gonna lie, it was very hard to do. But once I learned how to spend time with myself and actually have fun, I appreciated the process, this took me a couple of days to make, so I hope you guys really enjoy this!
Heres 100 ways to have fun without having any friends:
Treat yourself to a full body massage every month
Go ice skating or learn to ice skate at your local ice skating ring
Regularly get your nails done or do them yourself
Go to a concert to one of your favorite artists or as many as you can
Get dressed up and visit a museum or art gala that you’ve never been to
Treat yourself to a facial or do one yourself at home
Binge on Netlfix while snacking on some delicious sushi and wine
Go to a bookstore, find yourself a comfortable spot, and read a book, or journal your thoughts
Take your bike for a ride around the area while blasting some of your favorite music
Pack a basket with some drinks and sandwiches and have a picnic at the park
Learn a new language, you can teach yourself or attend clubs for people that are also trying to learn
Style your hair, do your makeup, and take a bunch of selfies for the gram
Go to a lantern festival
Take a trip somewhere you’ve always wanted to visit
Learn to play a new instrument
Enroll in a gym class that interests you
Follow local food guides on Instagram and try out different foods at the places they recommend
Get a new piercing
Get your dream tattoo
Go to the gun range
Purchase a DNA ancestry kit and learn more about what makes you who you are
Attend as many plays as you can
Volunteer in something that you’re passionate about
Go swimming or learn how to swim
Take yourself out to the movies
Write and publish a book
Buy yourself a new summer dress or bikini and wear it to the beach
Tackle your fear of heights and go sky diving
Visit a cat cafe or animal shelter
Go shopping
Learn how to make a new recipe
Take aerial silk classes
Take ballet lessons
Redecorate your bedroom or apartment
Set the mood, light up candles in your room, dim the lights, and try out new sex toys
Get your hair done or buy a cute wig that you’ve always wanted
Cosplay
Attend a convention
Attend a Paint and Sip class, you get to paint art and drink at the same time
Explore local spots in your city as if you were a tourist
Take up martial art classes
Go to the arcade
Play video games
Visit an aquarium
Watch the sunset or sunrise
Binge watch Korean dramas
Buy yourself some chocolate and flowers because why not
Create your own makeup
Go on a hike
Go glamping/camping
Go to a music festival
Train and run a marathon
Go on a local yacht cruise
Visit pop up shops and bazaars
Go horseback riding or learn how to ride a horse
Go to the zoo
Go surfing or learn how to surf
Ride a plane around your city
Adopt a pet
Buy new toys for your pet and play with them some more
Take a pole dancing class
Attend a TED talk
Stargaze
Purchase lingerie and pose for yourself in the mirror
Go roller skating or learn how to roller skate
Have a photoshoot by yourself or hire someone to do a photoshoot for you
Attend a fashion show
Attend a circus
If you’re into spooky stuff, go to a paranormal tour and dinner adventure
Go to a sports game
Attend a comedy show
Take part in murder mystery dinners
Crash a wedding
Go the farmers market
Tackle a puzzle
Go the drive in theatre
Create new clothes out of your old ones or transform ones from the thrift store
Go sledding or learn how to sled
Play mini golf
Make pottery
Go indoor skydiving
Try karaoke
Go snorkeling or learn how to snorkle
Try karaoke
Try Go Kart Racing
Create YouTube videos
Go to a rodeo
Place a bet at a horse racing event
Start your own blog and make extra cash from it
DIY crafts
Go on a drive through wild safari
Play an extra in a film
Go skiing or learn how to skii
Attend a book signing event of one of your favorite authors
Go to an estate sale in a wealthy neighborhood
Learn a new skill online
Go to karaoke night at a bar
Enter a contest
Listen to a podcast
Join a support group
What are the biggest differences between an average girl look vs. a successful escort look? Is it body? Fashion? Or act?
No, no, no...
What do you think...?
Yes, it’s all an act...
Plenty of plain women securing the bag. Plenty of model-looking girls getting used and dumped.
And no one ever speaks regarding this... but relegating yourself to an ultra-glamorous “bombshell” type, or even an all-natural “model” may actually be a detriment. Because you attract a personality inclined towards short-term thinking and satisfaction (aka, not as much revenue for you.)
And aside from fitting in and demonstrating some social capital to your audience or target client in regards to style, dress, external accessories, it is also meaningless in the pursuit of end goal (wealth).
People get too caught up in the details, bite off more than they can chew.
Ultimately, things like your heel height and the style of your nails hold no real meaning: they’re just arbitrary details used to 1) induce conversation, 2) attract the eye and signify someone who invests in their appearance, and 3) are blank canvases to project some qualities on that you want to be associated with in your persona of seduction.
Selecting them doesn’t mean anything otherwise - like nobody genuinely cares whether you’re all in nudes, though perhaps it’s to appear sensual and modern; or red nails, yet another popular choice, given that red’s supposed association with “passion”, which is also discretionary ...
You need to perfect the “heaux” aura… your mindset, the way you carry yourself, and your body language should indicate that you are a woman who fulfills the fantasy, but only if you obtain investment. Only then! Otherwise? Never.
You don’t need to wear ten thousand diamonds, or to don a crocodile Hermès Kelly.
You don’t need to have 10L of Juvederm injected.
You don’t need to have been on the cover of Vogue.
But you should be comfortable internally and externally, projecting the image, that you are a sexual object available for consumption at the right price. And you need to find men who recognize that quality, and terminate relations with anybody and anything that doesn’t recognize this.
Even I, as an escort, can recognize other escorts when traversing out and about. Just from a glimpse. And I can recognize clients - men who would hire escorts - from walking out and about. And men normally recognize me as an escort ... the number of times at Davos, I was asked, “Are you here for business or pleasure?”
The “heaux aura” or behavior signifying you are an escort normally comprises of body language, some overt sexuality, and positioning yourself in social situations where there is a “gray” area. Is a ‘good’ woman going to be out alone, at the bar, with no girlfriends or a boyfriend, at 9pm in a somewhat suggestive outfit? No...
So, how do you do this? How do you project this image?
The first change is internal.
When you go out… you internalize and have the mindset, that you don’t perform sexually for free.
Your time is not free …
Your beauty is not free…
Your presence is not free …!
Read it, internalize it, embody it, breathe it. You don’t explain yourself: when somebody even questions this mentality or framework, you move on.
The second you go out to freestyle, your mindset should be, where is the money? Are you making rent tonight, or no?
Because then, you control your body language to project the image that you are sexually available. You are not a regular woman. What does a regular woman do?
A regular woman hides behind their phone, pretending to be busy. A regular woman avoids eye contact and is timid and insecure. A regular woman is afraid to be seen as sexual and to take up space. She gazes around hurriedly to seem preoccupied. She’s there to relax and be alone, to meet a friend, for a little business meeting.
You differentiate yourself. You’re alone and seem approachable. You’re not on your phone, and you are open and confident. You are aware you’re easily an object of desire, and own it. You are sexually open and in control. And yes, you are a sexual being, but only for the right price. You make eye contact.
And if you’re a beginner, it will take time to reprogram yourself. You need to constantly re-position yourself, and notice and alter the way you carry yourself to give that suggestive, questionable atmosphere. A steep learning curve. So practice whenever you can, and exert discipline.
It should happen. If you are in the right position, meaning, you are 1) in a locality with high amounts of wealth, 2) in a space with a high number of single, unattached men, and 3) have the right body language, it should occur.
You nip conversations with useless men in the bud. You keep your eyes on the prize. You internalize your value and remain unwavering on your end goal.
And you’ll always experience dead nights, or useless men seeking to exploit you. Grow a thick skin; unfortunately, male entitlement to attractive members of the female sex knows no bounds and knows no humility or humbleness..: Make it clear you are here for business - get to the action as fast as possible. Cut them off; keep it moving.
At one point, you’ll probably have practiced your body language and presence so often, it will happen without you even noticing. And you’ll be approached for solicitation even when you don’t intend to. They will come and find you. Then it becomes yet another problem to deal with. 😉
I feel like Black Women are fed way too much info from multiple sources (especially online) who all have their own motives:“You’re the most this”, “You have to do that”, “We can never do this” or “They see us like that” to where we’ve designed a whole life for ourselves based on what we’re told as opposed to what we actually experience. “I’ve watched a video of this BW saying men never gave her attention, therefore I also will never get attention” 🙄 I think Black Women deserve to experience life on their own terms and write their own story. We’re all individuals.
Definitely level up and femininity culture!
How to Feign Your Life is Together
Have a signature accessory, clothing article, make up look, or hair style.
Have a fragrance. Make your hair scents and lotions match your perfume.
It’s okay to dine alone. Bring a book or people watch.
Love your hair. Research the best brands for your hair type and use masks weekly.
Your nails don’t need to be fancy, but keep them maintained.
Stay worldly. Know works of art, artists, designers, films, books, politicians. Spend your lunch break reading the paper or a magazine.
Crying is not a weapon. It’s okay to feel your emotions, but never use them as an excuse to avoid your problems.
Jealousy is boring. Love and appreciate others. If you can’t love them, forget them.
Boost others. Flatter others, but don’t deprecate yourself in the process.
Don’t sulk. Don’t let the whole world know your problems. If you don’t want someone to give their opinion, don’t share your situation.
Your life is between you and the universe. Don’t post your personal matters for others to see.
Don’t emotionally blackmail others. They hurt you? Let them know and then move on. It’s between the two of you and not the world.
Cook dinner. Cook dinner and listen to music, the radio, or a podcast.
Treat yourself to candles and flowers. Be your own cheerleader.
Take naps. Take a cat nap on a Sunday afternoon with the blinds open and the fan on high.
Drink your water, eat your vegetables. Take care of your body.
Never have time to take off your jewelry before bed, but always have time to take off your makeup. Your nighttime skin regime is important.
Mystery is beautiful. You don’t need to reveal much of or about yourself.
Never appear other than as you are. Don’t lie about yourself. Embrace who you are at your core.
“Jazz is a white term to define black people. My music is black classical music.” — Nina Simone
Happy Birthday Nina.
Men are so fucking annoying. It’s so true that if youre sweet to them they disappear, if you diss them and ignore them they’re all over you. I hate it here. Anyways, nice girls finish last
Random but when I come on tumblr to chill or just be away from other socials, I feel like it’s the online version of me going to my room and just doing my own thing to be away from everyone else.
Facts.
Over the past six months, I set upon a quest to erase myself from the Internet and any public sphere. After several dozen DMCA takedowns, a lawsuit, and work from a very good law firm, I no longer exist online.
No social media, no profiles, no photos, nothing ... totally anonymous, gliding through life in silence and under the radar. How freeing.
So needless to say, I am in quite a celebratory mood.