Transparent Tuesday: You Probably Won't Make me Squirt! And that's okay...really.
(Before we begin: Tumblr took me through a LOT to post this! After a denied appeal, and an error when redoing it for the third time, I finally just had to remove the extra graphics for it to work. I apologize for the delay.)
Don't let porn fuck you up! The truth is, a lot of the massive squirting you see in porn is not squirting at all. It's smoke and mirrors and tricks, because, well... it's entertainment. And while art imitates life, it also, sometimes EXAGGERATES it; setting unreasonable expectations on those of us who exist in the real world. So please, take the pressure off of yourself in trying to make your girl spray like a Super Soaker...
More importantly, take the pressure off of your girl. READ THAT AGAIN. PLEASE.
I hate telling people I can squirt, because, for most MFs, it becomes their mission. They focus more on getting their desired result, than getting this pussy. Ugh! It is frustrating to no end. Then, some MFs count it as a loss, or a hit to their ego if you don't squirt when they know you can. Listen beloveds, a lot of women who CAN squirt, DON'T squirt every orgasm; and the more you try to force, the less likely it is to happen. Or,😏, the more likely you are to get a golden shower instead. IJS!!!🤷🏽♀️
Personally, I'm more prone to squirt solo, with clitoral stimulation. But, stellar head has also been known to do it. I'm 39, I've been sexually active since I was 13, and began mastering the art of sex in my 20s. That said, I can count... ON ONE HAND, the number of people who have actually made me squirt. Three of them were people with whom I had meaningful connections, that I trusted enough to bear that vulnerability. The other two and I were connected, but not deeply. They just caught me at a time when all I wanted was for them to fuck the life outta me, and then fuck me back to life.
Oh yeah, good dick will make me squirt too; but, for me, you gotta be a good dude to even qualify as having good dick. Something about you has to click with/for me in order for us to even fuck. I have to feel a certain level of comfort with you in order for my body to fully release like that. And, honestly, I have known promiscuity in a way that would simply not let me allow myself that familiarity with the partners I chose.
Now, don't get me wrong, I'mma still wet that face/dick/ass/pussy up, because even when I don't squirt, I CUMMMMMMM, honey! But, if it's random, (which it won't be... PLEASE DO NOT INBOX ME about this pussy), I'm not giving you all of me sexually, because I understand the importance of full-on Spiritual(Sacred) Energy Xchange; and... Ionwanna do that with just anybody.🤷🏽♀️
The point is, most squirters don't always squirt. And, the term "squirt" covers anything from a drippy leak to a spray. It really means an external O vs an internal one. So, again, if your lover is a squirter, don't expect a tidal wave every time. Besides, who's gonna replace all the ruined furniture? I mean, you've seen my couch.😂😂😂 And God knows I'm so grateful for my hardwood floors! I just fucked them up yesterday!🤦🏽♀️
So, to squirters, and those who fuck us, don't beat yourself or your partner up if you don't get a gusher every time. It's perfectly normal and it's perfectly okay. Okay?!?! Love you, mean it.😊💋
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