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Becoming you goal

A while ago I had the opportunity to read the Paolo Chelho’s book “The Alchemist”. If you hadn’t yet, I will not tell you the story, but what you might get in reading it:

the awareness that the aim of a goal is not reaching it, but who we become in pursuing it.

I don’t know if it is universal, but that book had been able to let me see all the challenges (tough moments indeed) I found in my past and those I am facing now, as an opportunity to become a better person. That’s so worthwile!

#goal #challenges

CHOOSE

Once I read in a book a Lincoln (but I am not 100% sure he was him) quote that still comes up in my mind when I’m up to making tough decision.

There are 3 kind of choices: the first best one, that is the right one; the second best one, that is the the wrong one; the worst one, that is the non-choice.

Many times I would prefer to wait, but I know that postponing won't give me any added advice for making the right decision; then I choose since in a way or in another it will make me moving forward freeing my mind from dilemmas and frustration.

#choose #decision #choice

Three attitudes towards a GOAL

I feel everybody has goals.

From waiting for the day (work) to end, to doing what we love, we are always talking about something that still has to come, and to which we are aiming at. Ok, at least this is meaning I personally give to the word “GOAL”.

Let’s make a step further and let’s consider some additional feature: the attitude we have in our way toward the goal seeing it as something:

we have to or must reach;

we love to reach;

we (mainly) feel good while we are going toward it.

The three points above fit the trip metaphor where the goal is the destination and the attitude is the trip issue.

So this post ends with a more or less rhetoric question:

Are we able to choose our goals and then the attitude to go toward it?

#goals #attitude #choiche #choose