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me: ugh, something really crappy has happened, I kind of want to talk to someone about i--

bpd: if you mention this to anyone you're being attention-seeking and manipulative by trying to act like you have problems when you DON'T. you are a horrible person, and anyway if you DID have problems, you would deserve them because you deserve nothing but bad things, so SUFFER IN SILENCE.

me: ....fuck you're right

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Popular post: if you only talk to people when you're sad you're going to condition them to feel sad around you and they won't want to talk to you

Me, who is sad all the time: 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃

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@halfofxerxes replied to your post: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)hi ilu( ͡° ͜ʖ...

I have a bad habit of following personal blogs on hoho’s account bc I don’t use my personal. ofc if it ever makes you uncomfortable you can ask me to unfollow but t b h your content is Relatable

I don’t know whether I should be happy you find my stuff relatable or very saddened.

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i see the word manipulation get thrown around a lot in the bpd community and while thats understandable i just wanted to give you all a small reminder

  things that ARE manipulation are things like

never accepting responsibility for hurting others

guilt tripping others to get what you want

harassing others for not agreeing with you

intentionally diminishing other’s problems/difficulties by comparing them to your own

using other’s insecurities against them

things that are NOT manipulation include

expressing negative emotions to someone when you are hurt or distressed

not expressing emotions for the fear of bothering others

disagreeing with others and explaining your side of things

expressing your needs to those close to you

not socializing due to lack of energy or spoons

  unhealthy behaviors (such as bottling things up, ignoring your problems, etc) definitely make situations harder and are things that need to be worked on asap, but unhealthy behaviors are not automatically manipulative just because someone has bpd

  throwing around the wrong words can be extremely counter productive in this community, especially when there is already so much stigma and misunderstanding surrounding this disorder (not to mention that carelessly calling people manipulative and/or abusive for small things can end up devaluing what abuse and manipulation really mean)

  TL;DR: do your research and get to know the actual meaning of strong words before using them - words like ‘manipulation’ or ‘abuse’ are not for you to take lightly and use against people you just disagree or have a problem with

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‘reasons to not commit suicde’ article: if you kill yourself you’ll miss out on all these things!

me: ill be dead i won’t know what im missing out on debra 

‘reasons to not commit suicde’ article:

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reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

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