I find it weird how so many trans women on here will claim to be pro sexual liberation and have anti conservative ideas about sex, then will literally call literally any mention of a sexual topic in their presence sexual harassment, regardless if the accused has zero sexual desire for them or any intent to shame them for something sexual or likewise. It's like they hold the very conservative view that woman are these pure maidens too innocent to be able to handle any mention of a sexual topic in their presence. It makes me wonder if calling out things that are clearly not sexual harassment, like, for example, plaidos accusing someone mentioning he was sa'd of sexually harassing her, is perhaps gender affirming for them because women=constantly having unwarranted sexual attention, so they exaggerate this to cartoonish extents to feel more like women even if the harassment is not there. It's something you never see cis women do, like as a woman myself I never make the assumption that if someone even mentions the vaguest sexual topic in my presence for the sake of a discussion that they must be objectifying me sexually, and if I am uncomfortable, I generally just say that. If the uncomfortable interaction ends there I generally don't consider that sexual harassment because there's no repeated cross of boundaries once the boundaries have been set. But with these people, you can even apologise for and respect their boundaries by not doing it further and they'll still view you as a creep sexually harassing them instead of a misunderstanding of boundaries. With harassment there's usually an actual repeated aspect that actually makes it harassment, but even just one vague mention of a sexual topic around them is enough to make you a creep who sexually harasses trans women. This is something I've seen most of the big trans women bloggers do and it's super weird and uncomfortable.