Big Mean Lady Place

26 Transfemme Domme Main kinks are transfem supremacy and terfbreaking, all from a nice dark angle. 18+ only, I may not answer DMs.

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27y/o transfem butch Dom

This is a blog focused on hard, dark kink, and I don't typically tag, with one exception, so enjoy at your peril. Minors are NOT WELCOME, if you are under 18, DNI. No age in bio may lead to a block.

Big kinks are

Transfem Supremacy

Terfbreaking

Noncon

Humiliation

Rimming

Watersports

I do post FTM misgendering content here and there, which will be tagged as '#ftm misgendering' and/or '#fakeboy'. This tends to be pretty infrequent though.

Not really too many limits, I'll probably keep it tame(-ish) on here and maybe make an alt for darker/nastier stuff if I feel the need. I respect all you transfem subs out there, but that's not really a focus of this blog and so I won't likely make posts or answer asks that lean into that side of things.

Feel free to dm, though I may or may not respond depending how I'm feeling - I'm not actively looking for a sub or anything, so probably best not to open with that. TERFs, if you wanna talk to someone who doesn't pretend to respect you for a while, come say hi!

I did up a quick FAQ for those wanting to send an ask or DM, just to save asking a question I've answered before! I'll update it if I think of anything else that should be on there~

FAQ (Sep. 3, 2025) - https://www.tumblr.com/big-mean-trans-dyke/793685163289804800/faq

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Heard my cis girlfriend refer to my cum as "gock slop" when talking with her friend the other day, and I literally got so hard I had to drag her into the other room and fuck her face before she was allowed to continue the conversation with her friend, now with said gock slop all over her face and tits o_o

There really is something about the idea of interrupting a conversation between two cunts, isn't there? Whether it's like you did, or just the idea of pulling a girl's tits out mid conversation.

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Buildings that advertise the proportional transfem population as a selling point for people looking to rent or buy an apartment.

That could be for a transfem's benefit, either looking for fellow transfems to live with or for a building where every other apartment is occupied by a needy, wet, and waiting cunt. A higher proportion of transfems might signal higher quality too.

On the other hand, cuntgirls can look for buildings with plenty of transfems, hoping to be the most convenient available fleshlight for as many as possible. Sure, it might be hard to put together a good enough application, but if you give yourself up to the property manager, she'd probably be willing to tip the scales in your favour just a little....

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Two cuntgirl upper management types who absolutely hate each other making out around the fat, throbbing cock of the transfem ex-employee-now-boss they both hate even more.

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who wants to feel my tits against their back as I pin them down and fuck into them?

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Make sure you break in your new cuntgirls and ensure their dignity and self-worth are low enough early on. I'm partial to unfair treatment and especially unfair games.

For example, Spit or Slap. Bring out a deck of cards, each labelled either 'Spit' or 'Slap'. Draw one, and without showing it, have your cuntgirl guess which word is written on the card. If she's right, nothing happens, but if she's wrong, you do as she just so clearly asked you to. Spit in her face, or slap the taste out of her mouth.

There are a few important things to keep in mind. This isn't a game the cunt can 'win', to start. There's only either spit or a slap, or there's no response whatsoever. A good sub will eventually learn to invert that dynamic, so that she's glad every time she takes a slap across the face or opens wide for a mouthful of spit.

Secondly, there's no reason to play fair. If your sub's been getting lucky too long, just lie, tell her she's wrong, and do as you like anyway. Cuntgirls don't deserve fair treatment, nor good treatment.

Finally, the very smartest among cuntgirls might eventually figure out that they can just guess the same thing over and over to avoid a punishment they dislike, favouring the other. In that case, feel free to remind them that, even if they don't like the game, that's no excuse not to follow the rules and stick to the spirit of the game.

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Trans women are always held to an impossible standard. There's a theme of holding transfems responsible as a group for the actions of individuals, judging all by single, personal experiences or news events.

Since people insist on treating every transfem as an ambassador for the others, the least you can do is take it all the way.

Ambassadors deserve the royal treatment. You want to give an ambassador the best impression, so they should be treated to the finest food and accommodations free of charge. Every whim should be catered to as if their report back to their fellows will influence the prosperity of your people for generations to come. Prostrate yourself at the feet of such a noble person, become the biggest and most literal kissass you've ever seen as you beg, plead, and debase yourself, all for her favour.

Hell, when transfems do end up in power, and your well-being truly does rest on the opinions of your trans betters, you'll already be an expert at sucking up and earning yourself the treatment you deserve.

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Opinion on transfems having their cisdykes calling them "sir" and "daddy" during sex? I know some people are against it, but I feel like it can totally be gender reaffirming still.

I believe in transfems doing whatever they want forever. If she wants her cunts calling her 'Sir' or 'Daddy', what right does a cissy have to argue? That doesn't mean cissies should feel comfortable assuming those words are fine, but if your transfem tells you to call her something, you better do as you're told, don't you think?

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Queen of a declining powerful nation seeing the writing on the wall just as she sees the newly ascended Queen of a neighbouring country beginning a rapid rise. The fact that this new leader is transfem is impressive enough, given everything stacked against her, but the incredible economic progress, advances in arts and science, military power.... an alliance only makes sense.

Of course, her country is in decline, she can offer some resources but the only thing she truly has to give as an incentive is.... credibility. Respect. A visible show of support from someone the world looks up to.

When the two meet, it's clear immediately that there can't be a relationship of equals. The new transfem Queen simply has too much to offer compared to the other. Still, reputation is a valuable thing, and worth the trouble of securing it.

When they go public, it's not a marriage that's announced. No, instead it's the Queen of a respected nation, crown still sitting regal atop her head as she kneels next to her new sovereign. Gone are her usual robes, replaces with scant, sheer cloth and fine golden chains. Gone is her shame, as she leans in to give her new ruler a kiss. Gone is her dignity as a hand plants itself on the back of her head, pushing her down until she can't help but gag and choke on the cock of someone who could've been her rival.

Overnight, the politics of the continent shift. The decline of an old superpower stops as resources and workers flow in, trade and culture beginning to boom. Countries that would never have considered associating with such an... unconventional ruler are suddenly tripping over themselves to follow the example of such a well respected and revered leader. Before long, a transfem ruler is no longer the exception, but the ironclad and eternal rule.

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I'm genuinely considering getting "Girlcock Toilet" as a tramp stamp for my girlfriend's birthday, because she loves using me like one, and I know it would drive her feral. Only thing is, I'd pretty much be locked into dating exclusively trans girls in that case, because I'm not sure I could ever explain to a future cis girlfriend why I have that tattoo :<

(OOC moment - Tattoos are permanent and as hot as that idea is I'm against them as a form of play in 99% of cases - that said, if you can get custom temporary tattoos or something I know that'd do the trick for me, and it gives you the flexibility to change up your tattoos every now and then)

Now that that's out of the way, I'm confused why being locked into dating exclusively trans girls is an issue? Why would you wanna date another cunt, other than to come as a package deal for real women?

As far as explaining it to a cis girlfriend, it seems pretty self explanatory to me, don't you think?

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Remember cunts, just because it's a cuntgirl you're interested in and not the transfem she's with doesn't mean she shouldn't get a say. There's nothing wrong with doing whatever you like with your fellow cuntgirl, just make sure to check in with the transfem first. She might want to watch the two of you making out all sloppy for her, might want to make it a three-way, or might just want to take her turn fucking you before you get the chance to take her toy for a spin. Either way, ask for her permission, and be gracious when she tells you what she wants in exchange.

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Tattoo parlor that, in the leadup to the TNWO, runs specials for cheap or even free tattoos for good cissies that want to signal their support and approval. Within hours of announcing them, tattoo shops are booked for months or years in advance, all for 'Trans Owned' or 'Inferior Cuntgirl' or just various TNWO logos.

Years later, important anniversaries are still constantly celebrated by these kinds of specials for cissies who haven't gotten around to showing their support yet, or who just want a quick piece of flash to add to the rest of their body art.

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I think I've talked a little on here before about my thing for defiling loved possessions, using and disrespecting cherished items.

Anyway, extending that to people also. She's 'your' girlfriend, and you do love and cherish her, which makes me that much more eager to disrespect, defile, and debase her in every way I know how. Humiliating her because it's something I like to do, of course, but also because I know you respect her and feel she deserves that respect and it gets me that much harder to disrespect you by proxy. She might not actually be your possession, but you cherish her like one and so I'll take my time ruining her like one.

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Ally Position - 5 Senses

For you less educated cissies, I wanted to write a quick guide on how you can prove you're a good ally. There are countless different ways, obviously, but if you want something, quick, simple, and surefire, here it is.

Have the transfem who's questioning your allyship sit or lay back. Make sure you have access to her hole. Getting her feet up on a table, or just draping her legs over your shoulders is a great way to get there.

Once she's comfortable, you're ready to get into position. This starts by licking at her asshole. Once you've figured out what she likes in that area, you can continue by shifting forward to bury your nose in her balls. Finally, drape her cock over your face.

The purpose of this position, aside from her pleasure obviously, is to immerse your every sense in your superior. Done properly, you won't be capable of noticing anything that isn't her. You'll be tasting nothing but her asshole, smelling nothing but her balls. You'll be feeling the warmth of her cock twitching against your face and leaking precum into your hair, and if you're very lucky, she might even cockslap you a little. Your eyes should either be locked with hers, so she knows how dedicated you are, or on her cock, leaving you a cross-eyed, dumb looking little whore for her. And, if you've done all this right, you'll be hearing nothing but the way she degrades, humiliates, and talks down to the needy cissy doing all this for her approval.

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If the trans woman in your life mentions being on her period and an hour later she's not laid back comfy on her couch or in bed with midol and an armload of chocolate or ice cream while you get to work massaging her, giving her head, and grabbing her anything else she needs, you're a transphobe.

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Anyone who knows me knows I'm a competitive bitch at heart. There's nothing I love more than competition, and even if I am genuinely a good sport, I'll enjoy whatever I'm doing twice as much if we can say at the end that someone won, and someone else lost.

That should always be near the front of transfem supremacy kink for me. The idea that transfems are superior to cissies means nothing if there's never any conflict or competition. You think it's good enough to just call a transfem your better and let her take your girlfriend while you watch? No.

If a transfem wants to fuck your girlfriend, at least early on, fight her. Do your best to keep your girlfriend close. Give your best sexual performances, be generous, be the best partner you can be. Show off physically and mentally and in every other way you can. Then, when a transfem beats you anyway, you'll genuinely understand the meaning of the word supremacy.

That transfem balls deep in your girlfriend isn't better in some abstract way just because she's trans. She's stronger than you. She's hotter than you. She fucks better than you, and she's got a magnetic charm that you never will. When your girlfriend chooses to let a transfem cum in her unprotected, it's because the transfem won, and you lost. And that's the way it should and always will be.

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would you ever post harder/darker abduction and/or torture content? i have such a hard time finding that content when it relates to trans women specifically (understandably so—people probably don't want to play into stereotypes, but as a sub i would still like to enjoy content of trans women being evil and mean 😔). maybe a scenario in which a real woman abducts a cuntgirl pre-TNWO and routinely abusers her; the cuntgirl eventually escapes, only to find out that the TNWO has been put into effect, she no longer enjoys any of the human rights that would have protected her prior, and she is captured and returned to her owner by authorities.

fakeboy flavor: a trans man is abducted and forcibly detransitioned by his captor. everything else proceeds the same.

thoroughly enjoy your writing and would love to see what youd make of this idea if it interests you!

I have actually thought about starting up a new blog focusing on darker themes, I just haven't decided how exactly I'd wanna do it at this stage. I don't necessarily want to post anything harder on this blog than I currently do, but I've also got some harder kink posts written up and gathering dust in my writing folder so maybe a new blog will come up one day and it'll be me getting some of those out in the open. Who knows?~

If you're interested, express it and it'll definitely thumb the scale some.