Batfam Matchups

This is for DC matchups (probably mostly based on the bat family because that where most of my knowledge is based) Please don't get mingy if you don't like your result though hun x I'm doing my best

[bigbatlittlebat]

Match ups rules!

Open but going a little slow xxx

Hey, figured I would make one of these since they seem pretty fun to do, so just a little heads up on what would make my life easier! Send it as an ask pleaseeee

Please include:

- Physical description (if you're comfortable with that, mostly just for me to get an idea of you in my head <3)

- Personality

- sexuality or preference on gender

- star sign because we love astrology here

- hobbies or whatever you're studying if you are (might make it easier to get the vibe you give off?)

- likes and dislikes?? that might help

- and honestly anything else you think is important the more the better

I'm happy to do romantic/platonic but please specify otherwise I'll got with romantic as a default <3

[bigbatlittlebat]

May I have match up Please?  I'm 5'4 and have shoulder length blonde hair ( dyed ) with hazel eyes and wear big red glasses, Straight and Sagittarius.

I'm introverted and can usually be found playing video games or reading comics. I'd say I'm pretty laid back and have a filthy/dark sense of humor. Not big fan of people yet I try to be polite, though come off as awkward and get easily flustered.

I have five tattoos possibly more in the future and tend to blast music when no ones around. Short tempered and bit sarcastic. Great listener, knows when to give others space when needed. Insecurities about myelf is a huge issue when around others.

❤

Aaa anyways I'm back and on it again now my exams are over so you get...

Tim Drake (Red Robin / Robin)

This one was hard because I feel like the obvious choice would have been Jason but vibes wise I feel like there would be too much of a clash so Tim definitely fits the bill better

You tend to be a little more laid back than him which puts you at an advantage to drag him away from whatever high priority thing he's working on at that time. The two of you totally spend your downtime playing video games together but more like teamworking games.

Tim 100% finds your music calming when he can kind of hear it through the walls. Like a tiny reminder that you're still there even if you're doing your own thing.

He probably does that really cute thing where he traces your tattoos when you're relaxing together and is obsessed with them. Like loves the shit out of them.

Also I love the idea of you convincing him to get matching tattoos with you.

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hi I was wondering if I could have a match up please.

I am 5’4 and kind of lanky looking. I have a little shorter then shoulder length hair with the tips dyed red. I am slightly tan due to my Hispanic genes but not much.

I am an introvert and have very bad anxiety. I tend to be chatty at times and be a pessimist. I tend to be a smartass though and make sarcastic comments under my breath. My favorite loofah is Halloween and Christmas. I like giving things to people since it shows my love. I can cook and bake that I sometimes give food to my friends. I tend to have RBF and a intimidating look due to my clothes. My fashion sense is all over the place but I stick with black or dark clothes.

Bisexual, trans man

Libra

My hobbies are reading, writing, crafts, watching TV and gaming.

I like learning and reading but I procrastinate a lot. I like cartoons, scary stuff, writing, and mythology. I am practicing pagan in the beginning stages.

My favorite animals are snakes, bats, musk deer and raven. I am learning Spanish and ASL. I have 2 dogs that are for the family and my own cat named Atlas.

Atlas is such a cool name for a cat...

Jason Todd(Red Hood)

Since you tend to stick to darker clothes it only serves to reason that you steal a lot of Jason's even if you are a bit smaller. Like over the course of this relationship I'm sure he will notice every singe piece of dark comfy clothing (primarily hoodies) just disappear

He probably figures it was one of his brothers until he spots you snuggled in one of his t-shirts that's way too big for you

He would 100% read to you in the evenings so you can be busy with your crafts but still enjoy a good book. This becomes a big thing between the two of you and you repay him for it when ever he's hurt by reading his favourites to him

Jason wouldn't really care about your resting bitch face because he shares it and honestly finds it kind of adorable but in a kinda rough around the edges, manly way.

Man he loves you baking and cooking because it saves him having to go all the way to the manor for some good cookies and maybe he thinks you bake better than Alfred but don't tell him

[bigbatlittlebat]

Are you still taking match up requests?

Currently closed but will be open again soon xxx

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hello! How are you doing? May I please get a match up? I am 5'7", with short dark brown hair and blue eyes, I wear (prescription) maroon and gold horn rimmed glasses everywhere, they are often bent out of shape ( I'm clumsy and they are very easy to fuck up). I'm also all limbs if that helps lol. I LOVE fun colors and patterns and I would NEVER restrain myself to one genre of clothing (or music actually) so my outfits range from goth to Pirate to cottagecore. In terms of personality my friends often refer to me as a "grandma" because I'm always nagging ppl to eat and drink water, I'm always offering people baked goods and I love to craft ( they also call me a mean grandma cause I guess I'm aggressive about it jsjshdnsbs). I tend to match peoples energys in the way of if they're loud I'm quiet and if they are quiet I'm hella loud. I tend to accidentally come off as rude/ intimating of my straight forwardness and aggressive way of speaking (I also use my hands alot and slam things on accident). I have also been known to get into to screaming matchs lol. While I wouldn't consider myself super competitive because I'm perfectly willing to accept when I'm wrong or lose, of I think or KNOW that I am RIGHT I will fight TOOTH AND NAIL to proof it. I love fun facts and Im also throwing them out there. I am bisexual and a cancer. I like baking, reading, gardening, painting (water color) sewing and finger knitting. I destest when people refuse to listen, to me or two other people, it's the highest form of disregard and disrespect. I LOVE it when people give me fun facts or more information about something, especially of it's about something I mentioned before it know so we can go back and forth trading facts. I also really hate it when people refuse help because of their pride, annoys me to no end. I like watching trash tv and bad horror to make fun of it, it's a great group activitity!

I gotta say I feel called out with the glasses thing because mine are also fucked up but mostly because I sit on them like all the time...

Stephanie Brown (Spoiler/Robin/Batgirl)

If anyone in this damned family is going to watch shitty tv with you then its going to be her. She will watch it and she will love it (but only because its so bad) and it will form the basis of all your inside jokes for the rest of eternity. Like the two of you would probably be content to spend a full day just picking apart a tv show

Bestie, she would be full of those random facts if only because of the time she spends around the bats and Gotham's Rogues. What better way to learn something new. Most of the time its just animal facts she picked up from Damian that are just completely random and out of the blue but occasionally its something to do with plants or a cool riddle if you can call them cool

Not being competitive is going to be really helpful because she really really is and will not back down even if she knows she is wrong just because she wants to be right. Yeah that may lead to a few fallings out but once the moments passed she would definitely admit defeat albeit reluctantly

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hi Hi, I was wondering if I may request a romantic Batfam match, please? I prefer men. I'm a 5'10" broad, pear shaped girl with short pixie cut hair & a bit of a tomboy. Ambivert, open-minded, adventurous, sarcastic/silly/dramatic & needs quiet time. Clumsy as hell. I enjoy outdoor activities: swimming, canoeing, or just driving around. I love drawing, photography, reading, anthropology, animals & acting. I'm an aries. I hate selfish/bossy people. Hope that works & thank you! I love your blog!

Thanks, I put way too much effort into these and I feel like it really doesn't translate but its nice to hear people are liking it 👍

Damian Wayne (Robin)

You might hate bossy people which makes Damian sound like a bad choice but I'm feeling a strong enemies to lovers thing going on. Like you both absolutely hating each other at first because of how you think Damian treats his family and the people around him but eventually seeing that its just his way of caring for them

It sounds like you would sort of balance each other out and really make each other better people which I think would be a really cute dynamic

Being adventurous would really go a long way with him because it would mean the two of you can explore together and really opens up the possibilities for the two of you a lot

Also animals. Lots of animals. Since you both like them there's really no one there to tell you to stop getting pets and that definitely means you would both get at least one. Probably a dog. Cute dog dad Damian and his partner

Would he develop his father's penchant for adopting but instead of kids its just animals? Probably...

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hi hi hello! Wanna match me up? Thanks in advance ^^

I'm Lucifer, but people call me Luci or Luce, I'm 21 (22 in September), I identifiy somewhere around the nonbinary category, but I see gender as something trivial. I'm a panromantic demisexual and prefer they/her pronouns. 6'3 tall, long wavy blonde hair, black eyes. I wear glasses and usually skirts with old band t-shirts (that I actually listen to).

I always have a bunch or rings around my fingers as well as multiple ear piercings. I'm super pale, to the point that people often ask me if I'm sick.

I'm introverted, but I can be a social butterfly if required. I love listening as much as talking. I never really talk about emotions/feelings but anything else I'mhappy to chat about. I don't really react to things apart from my facial expressions. The lift of an brow, a smirk or an eye-roll will let you know how I feel about things without verbal confirmation. I'm always calm and collected, and my voice stays monotonous no matter what ; I don't stutter, yell or scream.

I'm highly intelligent and very sarcastic, and rarely laugh outloud, but smirk a lot. I might come across as rude and blunt but on the inside I am a softie, just don't show it often.

I love literature (especially classic), arts and learning languages (I currently speak 18). I'm also musically very inclined. I study History and mythology. When it comes to hobbies, I read and collect lots of things things such as lighters, tarot cards, night lights, rocks/crystals and books.

I have four siblings and am the oldest, but I don't really keep in touch with my family that much. I have a few good friends (2 or 3) and I don't even really need much more.

I'm a Virgo, Slytherin and INTJ-A if that tells you anything.

I'm not athletic in the least, but am in good shape. My body is an hourglass figure and I also got a bunch of tattoos.

I have a bad habit of smoking, and usually having a glass of scotch or wine with me (but I never get drunk or even tipsy). I love spending time near water, but hate getting wet. I usually take long walks outside after midnight while listening to creepypastas or true crime podcasts. I love the genre horror overall, yet I rarely get scared. The only thing I'm scared of is being scared if something. And Santa Claus (<-- no idea as to why).

If I were to go on an ideal date, it'd hopefully be something original and not the cheese classics, but I wouldn't mind them either. I just want to experience new things.

I don't really celebrate holidays (e.g. Christmas, Ester) since I was raised in an atheist/witchcraft household.

If I still might add something, when it comes to relationships I'm never overly dramatic. I don't, as previosuly mentioned, yell or really even cry. I don't get frustrated or suspicious easily. If I see any inclination that my partner might be e.g. cheating on me, I ask them about it directly and will absolutely under no circumstanses go through their phone, computer or start stalking them. 

Uhhh, I think that's all? I hope you have a good day :)

Afraid of Santa? I guess you could say you're CLAUS-TRAPHOBIC... yeah funnier in my head...

Cassandra Cain (Bat girl / Orphan)

I get the vibe that you both would benefit from a quieter relationship. Not in the sense of not talking but more in the sense of the lack of drama and the directness that you seem to take.

She would definitely get to the point where she is super in tune to your facial expressions and would be able to tell what your thinking with out you having to say it. This would probably be something to value in this relationship because it really shows how close you both are.

Honestly I can see dates for the two of you being her accompanying you on your walks but with one of those headphone jack splitters and the both of you listening to something together. Then maybe discussing it over dinner and getting to listen to each other's conclusions

I'm sorry but say good bye to all of those band t-shirts. You won't have seen them go missing or probably even noticed it until Cass walks into your place wearing one without even looking guilty. Just completely nonchalant about it

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hey there! Hope I'm not bothering you, I was wondering if I could ask for a romantic batfam matchup if you have some time? I'm thanking you in advance and do not forget to take time and rest!

So to start with, I'm a Scorpio (sun) , Virgo (moon) and Libra (rising) and an INTJ, my personality type is 6w7, I'm heteroromantic and I go by she/her.

About my appearance, I have brown curly shoulder-length hair and brown eyes. My skin color is in between light and tan and I'm quite skinny and petite (5'1) which makes me quite insecure since I'm lacking curves and it tends to make me feel less feminine. Plus being just short can be annoying sometimes. But since, to make me feel better about myself, my style is in between elegant and rock.

 

Basically, I act like an extrovert at first, I'm mostly seen as friendly and I joke around a lot with people but in fact I'm nervous as hell ; too scared to bother or being annoying. And overthinking everything do not help, in this case mostly. When I get comfortable with someone, I'm still joking around but then unconsciously I tend to show all my flaws because either with friendship or love I guess I prefer to show people what they get into. So yeah, I have some trauma because of my father, which cause me quite a lot of problems with my emotions (can't control my anger and sadness,) I also tend to have some paranoia (giving me nightmares and lack of sleep from time to time) and I can't stand it when someone is too controlling with me (I end up being rebellious and sneaky.). I put on a shield to protect my feelings and not get hurt. After this stage of trust, I am much more jovial and protective towards them (like for instance I scared off some loosers who were bullying one of my close friend in middle school and since I have quite a reputation of being a « doberman »), I still have anger problems but less frequent because I end up adapting to people. However, in case of lack of respect, I don't hesitate to stand up for myself. In short, I act like a happy tough girl 90% of the time while I'm in fact an emotional mess. I'm also quite the hardworking type plus a perfectionist... (see the workaholic things coming) I suffer from anxiety too. I'm extremely scared of failure, and it makes me overthink everything.

I love to read novels and stories in general and write from time to time, I draw too and listen to music a lot (Rock, punk, alternative... Mostly sad songs with good rhythm), I exercices when I can and I take care of my pets. I'm super fond of animals and I babysit kids from time to time when I'm not on campus and love to take care of them. I love to debate and analysis humans behavior. I'm keen on rainy days. Currently I'm studying foreign languages (English and Spanish) in univ as a French student and have to master them but before I did two years of law studies.

 

I dislike people who don't have their own personality and change their behavior depending on people. But also crowds are a big no for me.

Things I have difficulties to assume, I just want to feel protected and I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. I guess that's it. I wish you a nice day/evening 💕

Man I really need to brush up on my sexualities but I think I know what heteroromantic is? I hope I got it right...

Jason Todd (Red Hood)

Okay so I pretty much went to him as soon as I read that you like people with their own personality. Like yeah most of the bat boys are very unique and themselves but Jason definitely has a certain level of not giving a shit that really adds to this

You can not tell me that a man who loves books is not also a hopeless romantic too. His definition of romance is mostly quoting classic literature to you when ever it makes some sort of sense and maybe you quoting it back if that's your jam

He definitely quotes that sonnet from when Romeo and Juliet first meet. I would put it in this but I can't find it

Being with Jason would be a really good chance for you to let your self go for a little bit and not have to be a tough happy girl as you put it. He would be so happy for you to let those walls down and let him be the tough one for a while.

Also cute rainy days inside cuddled together listening to the rain or late afternoon walks around the outskirts of Gotham in the pouring rain with out an umbrella. Jason offering you his jacket 🥰

[bigbatlittlebat]

Okay so there's 16 in my ask box atm and I am gonna get to them but not tonight. So if you're waiting on a matchup you will get it, just probably not for a few days.

I do plan on banging some out over extra life so maybe tomorrow?

[bigbatlittlebat]

I hope it's okay to ask for a romantic matchup with a guy! Since this is on anon, my name is kath if you need something to call me!

My pronouns are she/her and i'm straight. I'm 5'4 and my style usually lingers somewhere between feminine, preppy, and "basic". I’ve got long reddish-brown hair and someone once told me my eyes are the exact same color as my hair. I also wear glasses because I’m blind as a bat. I do think it's important to put at least some level of effort into my appearance.

I'm a super hardworking and ambitious person (sometimes at the expense of my own mental health and wellness). It's important to me to be able to work towards my goals and be with someone who has goals of their own. I'd get easily frustrated with someone who has no drive because I think it's important for partners to support each other as they work to be the best people they can be. I'd also get frustrated by someone who never knows when to take things seriously. I have a tendency to stress myself out sometimes and often let my stress bottle up. Cleaning/organizing and baking always help me feel centered and reduce my stress when I feel like I'm freaking out a bit. I tend to also be a little bit of a control freak on occasion in everyday life. I think I can also be kind of judgemental on occasion, but I'm definitely working towards not being judgy. My enneagram is 1w2, though my second top number is 3.

I can be a bit reserved when it comes to meeting new people, but when I'm around my close friends and family, I'm more open and talkative. I don't feel the need to force conversation though and can enjoy time around people just by doing our own thing next to each other and relaxing in each other's company. My friends and family are really important to me and I always try to be reliable and there for them whenever they need support.

When it comes to hobbies, I enjoy reading, watching tv/movies, cross stitch, and shopping. I used to be on a dance drill team and have continued doing yoga to keep up my flexibility because it helps me feel healthy. My favorite genres in books, movies, tv shows, etc. are romance and mystery, but I especially love when something has a big plot twist or is really thought provoking so that I can discuss it with someone I know. I also tend to be a romantic and can be a big sucker for romance movies. I'm not really an outdoorsy person though and don't enjoy things like camping and hiking a ton.

I guess my idea of a perfect date is something pretty classic like going to dinner and a movie. I'd also enjoy something like going to a carnival or festival together and just enjoying each other's company for a day. It's simple, but I think it's super sweet just walking down the street and holding hands with someone. I also think it's nice when someone is taller than me so I can lean my head on their arm or shoulder while we stand next to each other.

I hope that wasn't too much info and thanks so much for doing this!

I had to google what enneagram was and boy am I glad I found it, love those personality test thingss...

Tim Drake (Red Robin)

He would appreciate being with someone who is ambitious because honestly life can get a bit boring with out it. Don't get me wrong, this is a guy who has never put more than a minutes thought into what he intends to do next but he definitely has goals.

The fact that you like organising is super useful in this relationship because lets face it, he needs someone to sort things out for him. I dread to think what his room would look like without you in his life.

I doubt he would be into it, but he would watch romantic films with you for sure and sit through the resulting discussion over who the main character really should have gotten with. He would do anything if it means he gets an afternoon with you.

Tim would probably call napping near you 'quality time' together purely because he's tired but it means you get to just be near him and see him actually relaxed so I'm sure its somewhat enjoyable for the two of you.

[bigbatlittlebat]

Thank you sooooo much for my match up!!!! I feel honored that I got steph 💜 💜 💜

I'm glad you enjoyed it, I always worry people aren't happy with the character I give them but its nice to hear you did <3

[bigbatlittlebat]

May I have a matchup? I know you have a ton, so please take as much time as you need! No rush.

I’m Sami, she/her, and I’m okay with any gender of match. I’m over 18, about 5’1” with mid-back length, wavy dark hair, hazel eyes, and freckles. My best feature is probably my lips/smile, and my aesthetic is kinda dark academia/spacecore.

My big 3 signs are Aries sun, Sagittarius moon, and Virgo rising, and I think that combination actually fits me really well. A few words that describe me are optimistic, adventurous, take-charge, and witty. My biggest flaw is probably bossiness/control issues. It’s mostly from a place of wanting to know the people around me are comfortable, enjoying themselves, and that I’m useful/helpful to them. But sometimes I do just get really caught up in my own ideas and thinking that the way I would do things is automatically the best. My ideal partner would be strong-willed enough to push back when I overstep but even-tempered enough not to be hurt or offended.

Hobby-wise, I like baking and making drinks (both coffee and cocktails). It’s fun to experiment with ingredients and ratios. I also like camping, road tripping, movies (especially sci-fi and documentaries), and dancing. Also, I’m a medical student.

Annnd, that’s it. Hope this isn’t too long, and thank you so much!

Okay I just gotta say but you sound so pretty...

Stephanie Brown (Spoiler / Robin / Batgirl)

I feel like you two would have such different vibes like with your dark academia and her just seeming so colourful all the time. Like you would be that couple that you see photos of all time and look like opposites but get along super well.

She would take your bossiness about as well as the rest of the bats would which is to say not particularly well but out of all of them she would be the least likely to take it to heart. She would probably just point it out, give you a kiss and carry on with her day.

A very important part of experimenting with any sort of baking or drinks is having someone to test them for you. This is her job and she makes sure everyone knows how talented you are. Probably gets a little apron for you and sits in the kitchen waiting until you finish so she can try it.

Don't expect any actual constructive criticism though because she's not at all paying attention to how it tastes, she just loves to see you having fun

[bigbatlittlebat]

hey! I'd love to get a matchup!!! I'm asian with medium length hair with the underside dyed greenish blue. I'm 5'5 with an average build and I always wear makeup. I'm a bit uptight and super introverted, but Im really caring once you get to know me. I'm bi and Im an aries sun, libra rising, and a gemini moon. I love painting, music, pokemon go, clothes, and I hate raw tomatoes and stress. my fav artists are mitski, dodie, and taylor swift

Okay back at it...

Dick Grayson (Nightwing)

Honestly I 100% think he would be super into Pokémon go. Like too much for an adult man butttt he would also make super cute Pokémon go dates for the two of you. Like a picnic in the park and then a few hours of hunting around for some elusive Pokémon you both want.

Also imagine him being the only one to get it and then trading it with you just to make you smile <3

Having dyed hair usually requires a lot of upkeep and from experience, trying to dye it on your own sucks. So enlisting Dick to help you dye it and the both of you getting absolutely covered in it and just destroying everything in your bathroom. Chaos

On that topic, he probably does your makeup for you. Or like tries, I'm not convinced he's any good but he got the spirit. Also totally lets you practice new looks on him just for the fun of it

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hope you get well soon!! Drink lots of waterr. Have a nice day!! Take Care <3

Thanksssss, I know this was sent a while ago but I have literally just now recovered enough to use more than two brain cells

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hey! How are you?? I just wanted to ask if i have sent you an Ask? I am not sure if i did hehh lol. If i did then ok! If i didnt then, my badd ^^” Oright, Thank you in advance!!

Hiii, yep you sent in some asks 👍 covid knocked me on my arse so I'm getting to everything I can tonight, probably gonna get some match ups out tonight so keep an eye out guys

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hey hun!! I’d like a romantic match up please, I love ur work so much :)

I’m 20 years old w she/her pronouns, blonde w brown eyes and 5’1ft. I’m quite calm/quiet but once u get to know me I’m bubbly and down for adventures.

I’m bi but w a slight preference for guys (ik I’m just as disappointed lmao).

Aqua sun, libra moon and Pisces rising :)

My hobbies would prolly include painting, going for walks and listening to music.

I love animals soso much!! And also astrology memes, my minds gone blank for what I dislike I’m sorry :((

Hope ur having a lovely day and thank you 😊 x

And you get...

Dick Grayson (Nightwing)

Okay hear me out but you're a short queen and if anything Dick would love that because of the endless jokes (also you could be anything and he would probably just think you were the most adorable thing ever)

He probably knows absolutely nothing about astrology but will send you any stupid memes he finds about it to you all the time, especially when he's supposed to be on patrol. Like waking up to 40 shitty memes all sent at 3 am (and a few decent pictures of the sun rise sent a little later for you to use as inspiration to paint)

Dick totally would totally get a few pets with you just to see how much you love them and also because who doesn't love them

[bigbatlittlebat]

Hi! Can I have a romantic matchup? I use she/they pronouns. I'm a bi demiromantic. I'm an Aquarius. I'm 5'0 asian with black hair, brown eyes and glasses. I'm bilingual. People say I look intimidating since I don't smile or laugh much around strangers but I try my best to be polite and nice. I'm very introverted and shy. It takes a while to for me to warm up to people but when I do, I become more talkative,loyal and supportive.I like to seek out my friends' company when bored. My hobbies like to change but currently its gaming,art,writing, true crime and supernatural stuff. My friends describe my sense of humor as dark and cursed. I can be mischievous and chaotic but still reliable and smart. I like the rain and staying indoors but I like going out with my friends. My love languages are words of affirmation,quality time and gift giving. I'm a little touch starved. I would love someone who is funny,protective and loyal. Thanks in advance <3

Okay, I feel like I've got a good one for this...

Tim Drake (Red Robin)

Straight off the bat I reckon he would be the most down to put the time into getting to know you but would probably be less likely to look for the company of others before getting close. So you gravitating to your friends when you're bored would be fucking great for him because it means he gets to spend more time with you without having to look for it <3

Also on a cuter note spending time with him listening to those shitty true crime podcasts together in the evenings or while you're making breakfast together.

Cuddling with him while he works and like just laying your head in his lap and him running his hand through your hair but also being completely distracted by whatever the fuck he's doing

Probably not super protective but definitely to an extent like he would be constantly ready to defend you from anything

The Riddler going after your workplace? Oh wow, Red Robin saves the day! Damian taking the piss (very lightly) out of you to annoy him? Tim is there to turn it into an all out war