I am above legal age so minors please only SFW in my pms. This is extremely strict rule of mine and you will be blocked immediately if boundaries are pushed.
Let me tell you a bit about myself in list form!
I am a FLIP but I caregiver lean depending on who I am talking to!
I do have little! 🩵
My little age is 0 to 3 years old!
I’m truly nice so please don’t hesitate to reach out! I love new messages!
I am an early childhood educator so I know little tips and tricks for all the littles and their ages!
My favorite foods are: Slushees, Frozen drinks in general, goldfish and that’s pretty much it 😅
DNI IF YOU HAVE TRIGGERING TOPICS IN YOUR PROFILE. I check everyone’s profiles who interact with mine even if it’s just a like.
Regressor who wasnt taught a lot about hygiene as a kid X very patient caregiver that is more than willing to help teach their kiddo how to take care of themselves
Hi hiii! I wanted to know if you're open to taking in another Little? I'm a bit embarrassed to ask in DMs since I didn't know if that was okay or not.
Hi there! Like I said my dms are open! This is a judgement free zone! I wouldn’t mind babysitting as long as there is understanding that I am human and not a caregiving robot with feelings ❤️ Personally I would need to bond and have connection in order to take on any little to call me mommy as it is a work in progress and it is to see if we have that type of chemistry! I mostly talk on my discord so it’s okay to send me a message so we can see!
Believe me, I know it's not the same as having someone to help you - but sometimes we have to make do. 🤎 So let's discuss some ways that you can be your own caregiver.
🐾 Future You
Think about a 'near future you' and how you can give them an extra boost. Maybe it's you when you get home in the evening, or a week in advance, either way, spoil them!
Some examples:
- "Future me would be so happy to have a clean kitchen to cook in later."
- "Let's lay our favourite pyjamas out so future me can get a comfortable night's sleep."
- "It's getting late, I should go to bed so future me has lots of energy tomorrow."
Showing yourself love by putting in a little bit of extra effort can really help with motivation! Really take on the role of a doting parent if you're able.
🐾 Inner Monologue
Similar to Future You, the goal here is to separate your stream of consciousness (the part of you that makes choices), and the part of you that isn't feeling in control. Speak kindly in your mind, like you would to a child. Console them, encourage them, even over the little things.
Some examples:
- "Oh dear, I know you're tired but we need to get a shower. Let's get it done quickly and then you can rest."
- "Look at you go, brushing your teeth! We're going to feel so much better once we're freshened up."
- "This work is hard, isn't it? After it's done, we'll do something nice and relaxing."
- "Almost done. You're being really brave."
🐾 Show Your Inner Child Your Life
What would they love about your life? Your hobbies, your friends, the fact you still like their favourite band? See your world through the eyes of a child who would idolise a grownup like you, who never stopped being fun.
🐾 Let Your Inner Child Plan Your Day
Let them choose your outfit, activities and meals. Whatever that little voice decides, that's what you'll do.
🐾 What Would A Toddler Need?
At our core, we aren't much more complicated than we were when we were little. When children are in bad moods, we don't hold a grudge against them, we consider what might be making them so fussy. We never really grow out of that, even the strongest, toughest people in our lives get hangry or overwhelmed. If we're feeling burnt out, grumpy, or on the verge of tears - it might be time to ask what a toddler would need. Sometimes the most intense emotions can be fixed with some quiet time or a snack.
🐾 Reward Charts
Struggling to get something done? Make yourself a little reward chart and buy yourself stickers. Add prizes or rewards for milestones or streaks, and commit to treating yourself when you achieve them.
🐾 Making Time For Whimsy
I promise you it's good and important!! Plan adventures, arts and crafts, time with friends, movie nights, anything - and get excited! Always have something to look forward to if you can. If you look online, you're likely to find really fun events for cheap/free in your area, like pottery/painting classes and meet ups.
🐾 Other Suggestions:
- Plan to cook/order your favourite food when you know a day will be stressful
- Make a routine with yourself and stick to it. Maybe every Friday, you go for a walk or do a face mask and paint your nails!
- Be playful and gentle with others. Sometimes people just need to be reminded that it's okay to be silly and vulnerable.
hi ms sana!!! I’ve been considering if im a regressor or not, and I just wanna say I love ur posts!!! they are so comforting for me and make me feel so safe, esp cause I’ve been really anxious recently 🥺 that’s all, hope ur having a good day!!! 💕
A friend of mine felt the same way! She liked to call it inner child healing! I am with you no matter what decision you make hun!
haiiii miss sana!!! hello hallo hiii!!! how are you?? i hope that you have been taking care of yourself, and that you've been kind to yourself also. have you been drinking water and trying to go outside some? sunshine is important and good for you!! for both the body and the mind ☀️
winter is nearly over here, so im feeling hopeful and tentatively excited. there will be one or two more cold snaps before its warm for realsies, but its been pleasant weather and nature is finally waking up after a long winter.
im happy to see you back, but breaks are also important too 🩷
-👼🍰
p.s. i might have been "🎀🐑" in previous asks, im not a new anon lol just a new sign off :)
I needed this message this morning! ♥️ yes! Winter is almost over! We are in the home stretch!
*opens them* “Peek a boo! I see you! Here’s mommy!”
*Looks at the clock* “uh oh, it’s someone’s nap time, look how sleepy you are my little baby, how about we do skin on skin? Does that make my baby happy? Huh? Ohhh look at those excited kicks, you are absolutely precious my little one. You are just so little for mommy today! Completely dependent on mommy you can’t even roll over huh? Come on my little love let’s get you changed for naptime.
Deep breaths little one it’s okay! I promise whatever is going on is temporary. My baby, mommy is here, she is I’ll always be here my little one♥️ Now let’s cuddle and let me rock you to help regulate those big emotions in that little body, how does that sound?
A mommy who gets worried about seeing her little do an adult job like ordering their own food. No need to be anxious baby let mommy do it. I’m your protector my love.
i love your blog! it's so pretty, did you color it yourself? you did such a good job, little one! and i love how nicely you've written everything. i've noticed a lot of candles and flowers, do you like sweet scents? that's lovely!
-- from, teacher cg anonymous (feel free to delete, but i noticed you were hoping for more little-y asks and i thought i'd practice)
*hops up an down excited*
OH OH!! I love coco butter and warm scents A LOT!! Eeeek! I so excited you noticed little me side! Thank you!
