hey um I'm not sure if you went to university or anything but I'm about to go this fall and I was wondering if you had any tips/suggestions on how to still regress while I'm there?
I'll be sharing a room with one or two other people and there's no privacy around the beds so I'm really nervous about it
Especially because I think I might be a permaregressor and I regress so young (like 0-2, more often 0-1) and as a result of that I use a paci and teethers and have trouble keeping quiet sometimes (crying/whining, I'm able to keep my babbles in even tho it sucks)
And i figured maybe even if you didn't have the advice someone might? I don't wanna post it on my blog bc i don't wanna give any hints there to my bio age
i did indeed go! i graduated last year but ive gone back in for a diff program thats for 2 years!
i used to live full time on campus (the program im in now is online) and ive had a handful of roommates but because i met up with the school's disability services we came up with an accommodation plan and one of those accommodations was being able to have a dorm to myself- im not sure if ur in the same boat but if thats the case most of the staff is eager to help u get situated on ur own
but! if ur living with roommates theres really two paths u could try out 1) outright telling them about ur regression so they'll be aware if they ever walk in on u or 2) not telling them and working around eachothers schedules
for 1 only do this if u think ur roommate will understand bc theres no use in trying to explain agere to someone whos made up their mind about it in a negative light :/ but u could start off with little "hints" like saying ur naturally more childish or that ur sensitive and need to comfort urself more
for 2 all u have to do is learn about the courses theyre taking and what times to expect them to be gone for class (a majority of students go back home for the weekends and campus is practically empty so maybe ur roommate might be one of the people who stay home for weekends!)
take advantage of ur "side" of the room! something i used to do (this only works if the beds have adjustable heights) is hike my bed to a higher notch and drape a blanket off the side like a bed skirt and give myself a private area under my bed like a nest or nook! if ur able to do that i think it'll be ur go to area for regressing!
most people dont hang around their dorms all the time, students rlly like to go out and do things even if its just sitting at the library and doing homework for a couple hours and if ur roommate turns out to be like that then that can give u extra time for urself!
as for the babbling or being more noisy in general id try and keep my mouth busy with something like a pacifier or teether? maybe having something in ur mouth will help u not make noise? i wish i had more solid advice for that one but im not sure D:
i hope it all goes well for u and that ur roommate is at the very least understanding, best of luck! im rooting for u!
