To All the Girls Whose Thighs Touch

BFCB. 33 years young. Fat Femme. Feminist Killjoy. Merbabe. Healer. Empath. Social Justice Advocate. Selfies as self care. Fatshion as a form of resistance. Victoria BC Canada. NSFW

[annafridacharlotte]

July skies.

[goldturnedgray]

gdkfjlhgladhf

[bigfatcherrybomb]

Oh hey, it me

[bigfatcherrybomb]

if it takes shit to make bliss then i feel pretty blissfully . . . . #4monthssinceyouvebeengone #newchapter #newbook #phoenix https://www.instagram.com/p/CNWCWwfDeGkLOP1Sf53sf-gLiBqVHmDTZJcaQg0/?igshid=1d6h8optzfv3t

[minuty]

“It’s unfortunate, and I really wish I wouldn’t have to say this, but I really like human beings who have suffered. They’re kinder.”

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[dadalux]

Robin Isely

[bigfatcherrybomb]

important reminders

your ability to earn money does not dictate your worth 

your ability to earn money does not dictate your worth

your ability to earn money does not dictate your worth 

[histerismo]

Credit

[debbie-sketch]

Bored boys waiting for Halloween

[worldexperience]

[viinnttaaggee]

[bigfatcherrybomb]

It’s been a minute

[bigfatcherrybomb]

The other night I was prepping Rob to spend part of the weekend making the house Mom presentable for a family visit in a few weeks, and we decided we basically do this to put on a veil of proper adulthood and togetherness. The reality: all the furniture I own is a hodgepodge from the 6 different places I’ve lived in over the past 18 years or free from Varage, none of my decor really matches, I don’t have a singular matching dish set, we have lived here for 2 years and the bedroom still isn’t decorated, at any given time only 25% of our lightbulbs are replaced/functional and half of our living room doubles as a laundry room. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ It feels good to be HONEST. We are both still works in progress and this is where we are at.

[bigfatcherrybomb]

Remember when being body positive was about radical self love, normalizing fat/hairy/non-binary/disabled bodies and creating a community of inclusivity while resisting uninclusive societal standards of beauty? Remember when it wasn’t about making money for sponsored blog posts, modelling contracts, follower counts on IG, YouTube clothing haul videos, and showing off PR packages?

Me neither.

[bigfatcherrybomb]

tbh the mentality that "You teach people how to treat you.." is such victim blaming BS. Right along with "I wish you loved yourself and knew your worth". Obviously people wouldn't be cheated on or abused if they only set limits and loved themselves. The abuser just needs boundaries and a partner with self esteem, duhhhhhh.

[bigfatcherrybomb]

be like a pineapple! stand tall, wear a crown, and be sweet on the inside 🍍🍍

[bigfatcherrybomb]

Sometimes I get dressed up and end up doing nothing but lounging at home. I consider it a form of self care because don't feel myself some days without my hair and makeup done, and a cute outfit on instead of frumpy nursing wear 🤷🏼‍♀️😘

[bigfatcherrybomb]

hi my name is Cathy and I have chameleon hair #brunetteforaminute #happyaccidents #brownbbg 🍩🍫🌰☕️🤷🏻‍♀️