Pudding's sibling space 🌈🌻

Sibling Sideblog | About me + DNI + other info on my fixed post | all smol ones are welcome (as long as you're not k!nk)

[bigsibpudding]

Stuff about me and this blog, I guess:

Since now we can pin posts, I decided to make this because my bio isn't big enough and people often ignore it anyway.

Who am I?

I am Puddin, or Angel. My birthday is in June 30th and I'm turning 26 this year! My smol age varies between 7-10 years old!

I'm an Genderflux person, and my pronouns are they/them, he/him or fae/faer; and I prefer other forms of address to be neutral (Mx., sib/sibling, etc)! I'm also oriented aro-ace!!!

I'm ADHDer & have generalized anxiety & specially strong social anxiety. I also have chronic pain due to fibromyalgia & I dream and regress to cope with all this!

My special interests are coloring, reading & music!! I love symphonic metal & I think there's no place with better music than Finland! I love musicals and Les Mis is my favorite!!!

I've been hyperfixating on audio-dramas and podcasts for some weeks now, and fell in love with spooky audio-dramas like The Magnus Archives and I am in Eskew; and mystery and thriller podcasts.

I've been age dreaming much more than regressing for some time now, but I still consider myself a regressor (and also a dreamer).

What about this blog?

I made this sideblog because I've been unable to regress for while, but I wanted to still be part of it in any small way I could. So here I can get excited with you guys and happy when you're happy & help when you're smoll (even if I'm not cut out to be a CG!!).

Kiddos who are part of a system are as welcome as regressors and dreamers! We do not discriminate here!!!!!!!! All smol ones are welcome here!

You can find me...

On my main blog @puddingslittlejournal or on my other sideblog @puddings-little-coloring-book where I post lots of coloring pages & worksheets & puzzles to have fun with while regressed!!!

Do not interact if:

n/sfw, k!nk, dd/lg/b, mm/lg/b, c/gl, etc

4bdl, m4p, no m4p, etc

th!nspo, pro 4na, pro m!a, etc

g0re, depression blogs*, self-h4rm, su!c!de blogs, etc

racist people, 4nti lgbtq+, enby ace & aro exclusionist, tr4nsmed, meanies in general.

* I have nothing against people who use tumblr as a mean to vent about their experience with depression and mental health, but this kind of content usually triggers me and I've been working hard to accept that my mental health is also important so I try to keep myself from having contact with content that can be harmful for me.

Ultimately this blog and all my regression-related blogs are made to be safe places for all regressors and dreamers of all ages and backgrounds. So I'll do my best to keep it that way.

Minors are welcome to reblog, send asks and/or like posts, but I feel uncomfortable having PM conversations with them because of my age.

People who fail to follow my DNI will be blocked without warning.

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Pride month is almost over and I felt the desperate need to say the following:

Little wittles who identify as gay are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as lesbians are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as bisexual are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as asexual/aromantic are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as polysexual are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as pansexual are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as demisexual are awesome.

Little wittles who are currently questioning their sexual orientation or who do not want to put any kind of label on themselves are awesome.

Pride month is almost over and I wanted to get this off my chest:

Little wittles who identify as non-binary are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as trans men or trans women are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as genderqueer are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as genderfluid are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as agender are awesome.

Little wittles who are currently questioning their gender identity or who do not want to put themselves into a box are awesome.

Little wittles who identify as straight and/or cisgender are also awesome, but I would like to ask them politely to respect that pride month has a special meaning to those within the LGBTQ+ community, thank you.

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soft reminders:

you have value even when you can’t get out bed.

you will always have inherent worth, unaffected by your level of functioning or productivity.

you are deserving of love, kindness and time.

you are worth the ‘burden’ of getting help and recovering.

[bigsibpudding]

Hi smol people!

I'm sorry, I've been super inactive for a while! I've been pretty burned out emotionally and physically recently. I'm without my sleeping meds and unable to go to my therapist since December last year, because of social isolation & stuff. So it's been pretty hard to keep it together. I'm not sleeping & consequently not eating, I'm tired all the time, skin contact/touch deprivation is getting me real bad and I'm feeling real sick because it's been 8 months since I touched anyone more than some very brief hugs from my mom & touch starvation is a thing and it sucks. I haven't been able to muster any energy to answer asks or interact with anyone & I don't know when I'll be back.

I hope y'all keeping strong and safe!!!

[chibird]

Sometimes it’s not about throwing yourself at a problem endlessly- you need to step back and take some time to understand why things might not be working!

Chibird store | Positive Pin Club | Webtoon

[plushie-princess997]

[thedecamerone]

Tagged by: @spikedspiegel and @greensaplinggrace <3 thank you!

Rules: Tag 9 people you want to know better/catch up with and then answer these questions!

Last Song: The Weeknd - Repeat After Me (also The Weeknd’s entire discography)

Last Movie: And Then We Danced

Currently Reading: Real Life by Brandon Taylor & Tonight I’m Someone Else by Chelsea Hodson

Currently Watching: It’s Okay to Not Be Okay

Currently Craving: curry rice from Go!Go!Curry! :(

*

Tagging @kewpie-teeth @hereswhatsarasaid @elenafisher-wong @lordbhreanna and anyone else who wants to, but no pressure if you don’t! <3

[kewpie-wings]

Last Song: O Pana! By $uicdeBoy$

Last Movie: The Bee Movie ( lmao its free therapy)

Currently Reading: Secrets in the Cellar by John Grant. ( its kinda horrifying cuz its a true crime book about Josef Fritzl. I would not recommend for those who get triggered easily especially about csa. So this is kinda a trigger warning about the book.)

Currently Watching: Tik Tok. ( its my crack. Also low key where I get my news. I keep up with the protests and where I can do most of my activism. No I don’t have videos, I mean like numbers of offices to call. Emails where I can contact officials. Petitions I can sign. Shit like that.)

Currently Craving: Drugs!!! (Sike but honestly lowkey just bitches to do my makeup and talk and kiss possibly maybe.)

Thanks @visualheresy for tagging me. I love ur writing! Whens the next one coming out? ( kidding take ur time im just glad u chose to share ur gift.)

@perpetually-pretentious @bevittnap @plastic-lung @breaking-panic @morbiddead @thegrandwilde @lor3n6394 @ickyfangs

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Last Song: Bloody Angel By Avatar.

Last Movie: Annabelle Comes Home.

Currently Reading: The Night Stalker: The Life And Crimes Of Richard Ramirez and A Mother’s Tragedy By Sue Klebold. I also have yet to finish many other books I own lmao I’m lazy.

Currently Watching: My cats sleeping lol.

Currently Craving: Little Ceaser’s(bc I’m trash).

Thanks @kewpie-teeth for tagging me I actually really enjoy doing these. Sorry mine is kinda boring lol. Btw love your blog and feel free to hmu sometime in the DM’s.:) I promise I don’t bite.

Tagging: @dalepod @churchbasementdoll @lovingrot @wrackofflesh @a–brokencalculator @dollspart @strawabberry @churchburnings

[a--brokencalculator-deactivated]

Thank you!

Last Song: My Stress by NF.

Last Movie: The Poseidon Adventure.

Currently Reading: The Gates of the Alamo by Stephen Harrigan, one of my favorites ever since I was a kid.

Currently Watching: The news but it’s on more as background noise tbh.

Currently Craving: Something sweet to snack on tbh, perhaps Lifesavers gummies.

I tag: @chaotisaac @concertforailens @decayingkitten @heartshap3dbox @onewiththeabyss @shedreamsintechnicolor @toxiipiz @a-republican-mind @frithislord

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uh, yay okay. Last Song: God Was Never on Your Side by Motörhead Last Movie: Big Time Adolescence Currently Reading: To Kill A Mockingbird by Harper Lee (It’s my favorite book, like ever???) Currently Watching: Saturday Night Live because I have no life. Currently Craving: Oreo Ice cream?? It’s good?? ThAnKS @a–brokencalculator for tagging me! :) Tagging, uhhh: @spread-positivity-everywhere @riddlerdano @dixmond-taurus @willowgirl66 @memoriesfall @you-are-the-one1 

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

Aw thanks for the tag!! ♥️

Last Song: Dangerous Woman - Ariana Grande

Currently Reading: Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire by J.K. Rowling

Currently watching: Criminal Minds

Currently craving: well, I was craving a blizzard, but I’m eating one now ✌️😍

Thanks @chaotisaac for tagging me. ♥️

Tagging: @mygayaframbles @poems-and-word @positivelypastelpink @fiercelittlewolfwarrior @rosabella1315

[stuffie-princess-smolsunflower]

Last song: paper rings by Taylor Swift

Currently reading: A Tale of Magic by Chris Colfer

Currently watching: Avatar: the last air bender

Currently craving: Oreos

Tagging:

@ras-baby @wildpika424 @teddybearxluna @littleadorkableneko @tinymakerwizard @babybottlez @cutestsoftie @sunflower-stella @eggos-world

[babeeenbee]

Last song: bohemian rhapsody lullaby version

Last movie: the little mermaid! For the first time since I was really young!

Currently reading: good omens

Currently watching: just finished Trinkets, been rewatching the good place and she-ra, but wanna get in the mood to watch the new season of 3% that just came cuz I love that!

Currently craving: cuddles! Or if it has to be food then cinnamon rolls!

Tagging: @smolalpacacutie @sweetmuslimbabyboy @nostalgialover808 and anyone else who wants to!

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Last Song: Engel by Rammstein

Last Movie: Gretel and Hansel (I want my money and time back)

Currently Reading: The Body by Bill Bryson

Currently Watching: Lucifer Season 5 and a lot of random YouTube

Currently Craving: Pizza.

Tagging: @smallest-sunbeam @bunniflops @sweetmuslimbabyboy @babybottlez

[smallest-sunbeam]

Last Song: Deus In Absentia by Ghost

Last Movie: Maleficent

Currently Reading: Nothing xD

Currently Watching: Random YouTube

Currently Craving: Sushi (not so much the fish aspect, more just the sushi rice and soy sauce)

Tagging: @froggybaths, @weelittlebeastie, @ras-baby, and @thelittlestdinopup!! ^-^

[ras-baby]

Tagged by: @sunflower-stuffie-princess-sfw and @smallest-sunbeam - thankies for tagging me :) 

Last Song: um I think it was Flipped with a Sausage by Alestorm  Last Movie: American Pie 2

Currently Reading: Pop Goes the Weasel by Albert Jack

Currently Watching: Roly Reacts on Youtube aha Currently Craving: Chinese food, like everything, mainly sushi or duck pancakes Tagging: @teary-eyed-baby @littleboigreen @daintydot @honey-baby123 and @warmncozybby

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Thanks for tagging me!!

Last Song: Devil Town by Cavetown

Last Movie: Hercules

Currently Reading: Symptoms of Being Human by Jeff Garvin

Currently Watching: a bunch of stuff,,some cartoons(adventure time, powerpuff girls, etc.), supernatural, and some anime.

Currently Craving: cuddles, disney movies, and candy

i’m tagging @lilpumpkin-uwu @unitoftheparental @bigsibpudding and @softelo

[bigsibpudding]

Thanks for tagging me!!!

- Last Song: Don't Stop Me Now by Queen

- Last Movie: The Old Guard

- Currently Reading: Sea Dreams by FiresFromOurHearts (on AO3)

- Currently Watching: nothing because my ADHD refuses to concentrate unfortunately

- Currently Craving: Calzone (gods it's been ages since I had any and I need desperately!!!)

Not gonna tag anyone but y'all free to do it too!!!

[bigbrotherdovey]

Reminder that self-care is not a reward

And that early bedtime is not to be a punishment

[dcroar-x]

If you use They/Them pronouns please please please watch this omg I'm not even an emotional person and this brought me to tears because I dont hear my pronouns being used ever and it felt so good so please watch it and protect this woman at all costs please.

[bigsibpudding]

I was seeing this guy for a few weeks/months and then he like, broke up with me, he didn't exactly tell me why which is fair and I don't blame him but since we were never officially together is it still okay for me to feel sad? I don't know if I should regress or distract myself or what :(

Your feelings are 100% valid! You can totally be sad, even if you weren't together officially. I always think avoiding the bad feelings just make them grow, so let yourself be sad for how long it takes for the hurt to pass. I know in these situations the worse is almost always the not knowing the "why", but even that will pass. I think that if you're regressing because if helps you feel better, and not because you want to hide/not deal with your "big" emotions, then you should totally do it. Like I said: it's not healthy to avoid the feelings, especially use regression to do it.

If regression helps you, then go for it. If you think that might be an avoidance technique, then distracting yourself is the better option. Talk to friends if that's the kind of thing that help you, explore new hobbies and interests, etc.

I hope you feel better soon!!

[bigsibpudding]

BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! Once you are given this award you’re supposed to paste it in the asks of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you’re beautiful inside and out! 💛🌺💛🌺

Omg, thank you!!!

[swordscomic]

Quest Sprout’s story updated, so you can have the whole thing again.

[bigsibpudding]

So so sleepy. Gonna put on my new bunny onesie and go nigh nighs! If I have good dreams can I share with you?

Hi hi smol bunny! I hope you slept long and good!!!! Of course you can share any dreams you have! I almost never dream so it's super cool to hear/read about what people dream about!!

[respect-the-kitty]

[chibird]

This cat has solid friend-senses! It bakes a lot of family recipe cookies on the weekend to give out on Mondays. 🍪

Chibird store | Positive Pin Club | Webtoon

[bigsibpudding]

Hi! I was wondering which is the correct term? Regressors "are" that age or "feel" that age?

Hmm well, according to what I understand regressors *are* that age *while regresed*. There's people that are constantly regresed, usually for trauma reasons, but when talking about people that have times while they are actively regressed (and times they're not) that means that while they're are in that mindset they *are* (feel, think, process emotions, etc) the age they're are currently regressed to.

I have a really hard time putting this into words I'm sorry if I confused you even more :(((

[bigsibpudding]

What is an age dreamer? Is it different from an age regressor? -Stormy

Hello, I've tried to answer this here! I hope it makes sense!!!!