Spread Positivity Everywhere

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[landsccape]

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

Here’s to a new week of opportunities. Sending you love 💕

[chibird]

We all deserve a break! You can make your own cozy corner too! :D I did my best to voiceact Chibird in the animated version of this comic- you can see it on my Instagram here!

Chibird store | Positive pin club | Webtoon

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

I hope you lovelies have an amazing hump day. 💕💕

[boycomics]

be here now patreon

[suggestionsofkindness]

I just want to remind you of the following:

🌸You are worthy

🌸 You deserve peace of heart and mind

🌸You deserve all the help and support you need

🌸You are not a burden

[traumasurvivors]

When you’ve been through trauma, forgiving yourself can be one of the hardest steps. For some people, they realize they didn't need their forgiveness. But some of us do need to forgive ourselves. It helps us move on. You might replay the past and think, “I should have left. I should have known better. I should have done more.”

But the thing is that you didn’t have the knowledge or safety you have now. You were surviving with the tools and awareness you had. Hindsight makes everything look clearer than it ever felt in the moment.

Many of us hold ourselves to impossible standards. We think, “I should have seen the red flags” but trauma clouds your judgment. Survival mode doesn’t leave space for perfect decisions. And if you were a child or deeply isolated, expecting yourself to “just know” is especially unfair. I will also say that even if you did know and stayed, you still deserve to forgive yourself. 

Forgiveness isn’t about saying the trauma didn’t matter or excusing what happened. It’s about offering compassion to your past self. The one who got you here, who endured what they should never have had to endure.

Try the Double Standard Method: imagine a friend in your exact position. If they blamed themselves for not leaving, for freezing, or for trusting someone who hurt them, would you blame them or would you hold them with care? You deserve that same kindness.

Your past self didn’t fail. They survived. And you are allowed to forgive them for not knowing, for not leaving, for simply doing what they had to do.

[chibird]

I used to have those glow-in-the-dark stars in my bedroom, and honestly part of me is thinking of bringing them back so I can see where the light switch or door is in the dark. 😆

Chibird store | Positive pin club | Instagram

[chibird]

It’s a tough time right now, and I hope you all can stand up, be strong, and stay safe. ❤️️ 

Chibird store | Positive Pin Club | Webtoon 

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

Happy Summer ☀️

[kerink]

i know we're all sick of self-care being a marketing tactic now, but i don't think a lot of us have any other concept of self-care beyond what companies have tried to sell us, so i thought i'd share my favorite self-care hand out

brought to you by how mad i just got at a Target ad

[themythicalcodfish]

OP this is EXCELLENT

[whatbigotspost]

Now THAT’S a self care resource! If you’ve gotten distracted by capitalism’s appropriation of “self-care” and watering the meaning down to nothing this is a super helpful guide to cut through the bullshit.

[everythingfox]

The prettiest kitty

[thelatestkate]

Shop, Patreon, Books and Cards, Mailing List

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

Something I’ve had to tell myself more than once this weekend

[lotuspositivity]

Don't let the fear of getting worse keep you from getting better. Rock bottom is a comfortable place, but not a sustainable one.

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

Super solid advice

[lotuspositivity]

You don't have to feel guilty for asking for help. Sometimes you can't handle it on your own and that's okay, too. Even if the people you ask for help don't really understand what's going on.

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

I struggle with this all the time at work.

[phoebe-does]

reminder that yearly goals are achieved by setting monthly goals that are achieved by setting weekly goals. Achieving your major goals comes through progress and setting smaller, challenging but achievable goals that leads to getting through those major goals. This helps make those major, daunting goals less daunting, having step by step for yourself to achieve whatever you want.

[reemillustrated]

[akindplace]

toastedbyeli

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

Today was a bad day, but tomorrow will be better.

[cpunkhobie2]

shoutout to everyone with forget disorders (adhd, DID/osdd, ptsd/c-ptsd, asd, dementia/alzeheimers, schizophrenia, other psychotic disorders, major depressive, chronically ill/phys disabled people with brain fog, people with long-Covid, natural memory degradation, and etc.)

[spread-positivity-everywhere]

Positivity Friday

It’s been a long time since I’ve done one of these, but I’d love to catch up with you peeps. How are you doing? What’s something good that happened to you this week? Anything to look forward to?

While I don’t have much to say on my end, I do have after Christmas to look forward to when my honey gets home from NYC. I miss him so much!! 🎄

I hope you have lots of goodies and sweet moments this holiday season. ❤️💚