within a place of guilted gold

Biggest Alois Trancy stan in the whole wide world

[goobiroo]

Personal affirmations for BPD:

I am not what other people think of me.

I choose who I want to be.

I am not bad for feeling emotions.

I am not bad for feeling emotions that are overwhelming and intense.

I am not bad for feeling all my emotions so powerfully. My brain is not bad.

I am not bad for feeling numb sometimes. It's okay to feel empty sometimes. My brain protects me sometimes from the emotions I feel daily.

Emotions are not bad.

Lack of emotions or numbness is not bad.

Emotions are just information.

It's okay to feel upset. It's okay to feel sad, frustrated, angry, confused, betrayed, withdrawn, resentful, grief, lonely, depressed, scared, anxious, stressed, tired, bored, irritable, and many other upsetting emotions. Emotions are neutral information that can help us realize what is important to us and what we need to take care of ourselves.

It's okay to feel "nothing." It's okay to feel numb, apathetic, withdrawn, neglected, isolated, and other emptying emotions. Emotions are ways our minds and bodies let us know what is happening with us. They can be helpful to realize what we don't like and what we wanna protect ourselves from.

It's okay to feel amazing. It's okay to feel euphoric, affectionate, peaceful, relieved, satisfied, content, loved, compassionate, caring, tender, enchanted, charmed, excited, hopeful, eager, proud, cheerful, moved, and other feeling-high/feel-good emotions. Emotions can help us realize what we liked and what's important to us.

It's okay for me to feel my emotions even if other people misunderstand me, even if people disagree that seeing a leaf shouldn't make me so happy I cry. They are my emotions. Everyone's emotions are important.

If someone judges me when I expresss my emotions in a healthy way like crying because I'm so happy I saw a dog breathe, that says more about them than me. I'm not hurting anyone with my healthy expression of happiness. I feel happiness so strongly I need to stim to not pass out. True friends won't be weirded out when I stim (i.e. jogging in place) right after I see them. I get so happy like a puppy I need to let my body do something with that excitement to concentrate. My happiness is not a burden. I can love others and people can accept that love or not.

I regret hurting people. I will never regret loving people and loving myself. 🖤

[no-sharks-on-the-sun]

[no-sharks-on-the-sun]

they killed him for this

[theconcealedweapon]

[maarvarq]

Always bear in mind that there is absolutely no legitimate evidence that Luigi was actually the one who killed the insurance company guy.

[theconcealedweapon]

Of course he wasn't. He was at a party with me that day.

[tiny-space-whale]

No but like literally, actually. All bits aside.

He didn't do it.

The cops very clearly planted evidence on him because they had to make an arrest because all eyes were on them and whoever actually did the deed was making them look stupid.

Why would the real killer hero have kept the weapon on his person and traveled two states over while carrying it and a manifesto in his bag, conveniently turning the crime into a federal matter? The same guy whose bag they found in a park, filled with monopoly money? Why did the police turn off their bodycams, take Luigi's stuff, drive a block away, turn their bodycams back on, go back into the restaurant, and then arrest him?

From the moment of his arrest, even left-of-center media has been presuming his guilt without examining anything (e.g. calling him "the killer" instead of "alleged" or "accused") and then when I say he didn't do it, the nearest person chimes in with some quip that tells me they think he did do it but should go free anyway. Don't get me wrong, I would have the same attitude if he had done it. But he didn't. It makes me feel like the only sane person in the world, even among my staunchly leftist friends.

[writeouswriter]

"it depends" is the most useful and versatile phrase in the world, except when it isn't, because you know, it depends

[toonelemental]

callout post for "work"

"work" has done many terrible things such as

make my friend go there

make my wife go there

please spread this around we can't let "work" keep getting away with this

[dragon-in-a-fez]

the ashtrays in airplane bathrooms are a fascinating harm reduction metaphor. yes it's illegal as hell to smoke in there. yes there's a smoke detector that will snitch on you the second you light up. so why is there an ashtray? because if there weren't, your single momentary dumbass crime could kill 300 people. it is fucking vital that if someone does have a lit cigarette on a plane, they have a place to safely put it out.

[officialpenisenvy]

in my high school a few years ahead of me there was a polyamorous girl named luna who was dating a guy and a girl and the girl was named (i swear to god this is her birth name) marea. they were named moon and tide and they were lesbian lovers. i thought it was the most romantic fated thing ever as a tiny baby queer it would make me sigh in adoration. the boyfriend's name was frank

[4whomittolz]

[neverwonderneverremember]

sleep is stolen time. don't let them take it from you anymore. tonight. we are staying up. til one billion o clock.

[luchigeon]

more silly modern headcanon

[rhytmrocket]

shoutout ppl w tooth gaps btw. or overbites. or underbites. or crossbites. or uneven teeth. or other dental conditions. and also ppl who don’t want to/can’t afford to get that stuff changed/"fixed". ily

additive edit from rbs n replies: also ppl with discolored teeth, and broken/damaged/decaying teeth, and missing/no teeth

and i'll probably keep adding stuff as i think of it. just know i love ur teeth and/or lack thereof. ur cool n ily

[titsliker]

theres a trump supporter in my media arts major and sometimes my professor will ask him something simple like "whats the difference between ethics and the law" and he'll (i kid you not) say shit like "uhhh its like. honestly i thought that was like the same thing" and then my professor will give the rest of the class a mischievous knowing look

[titsliker]

[zmpl]

has anyone noticed that after the porn ban of 2018 tumblr was essentially killed from the mainstream and everyone flocked to other social media sites like twitter and meta. then those sites got enshittified to where twitter became Nazi Central and meta sites had an entire meme around getting “zucced” aka mark zuckerberg himself would ban you for saying a no-no word like fuck. and then the mainstream shifted to tiktok where infamous toddlerspeak sentences like “he got unalived by a pew pew” were born because if you once again say a no-no word like kill or gun or any other word that isn’t corporate i mean kid friendly then the algorithm will bury your post into the ground. and somehow we’ve come full circle and tumblr is now the most bearable social media site because although we can’t have female presenting nipples we can at least talk to each other like adults. has anyone noticed that at all or is it just me and the flaming skull

[ceruleanheaven]

being on the internet for more than three minutes

[galactic-mayhem]

saw this on pinterest but i think it belongs here too

[vinnie-vindictive]

this will never not be important

[the-big-mood]

In 1997, local television in Kharkiv accidentally filmed one of the most iconic rave moments in history.

[ruinedchildhood]

[bowserwife]

Wow bro that sounds really rough *gently places my hand on your cock* I want you to know if you ever need anything I'm always here for you

[saltoncity]

scientists are trying to discover something harder than getting out of bed to go to work in the morning. and dont make a fucking penis joke ok they already checked everyone’s dick and it doesn’t even come close