yes this! It was the happiest day of my life when I embraced my gayness, understood my sissiness, and stopped trying to be something I wasn’t. My (birth) daddy hated feminine men, hated ‘fags’, embraced patriarchal ideas, and he made sure I knew that. It was so miserable, and I made others miserable. Including a wife. God I hated it so much. But leaving her, freeing her really, so we could BOTH find a real Man…god that was heaven. I still have patriarchal ideas…but understand my real place in it. And I am happy.

















