I unlock my boy toy from his chastity cage at least once a day, to play with him and give him a Wonderful Raging Hardon. I need to KEEP him âfinely tunedâ as well as remind him daily - who is in charge. Well Last Night (after secretly feeding him a Viagra) - And then sadistically teasing and âedgingâ him for well over an hour (watching TV in bed), I decided it was time to Let him Cum - He had been so Wonderfully Obedient, Devotional and Venerating Towards Me for the last two or three weeks⌠I had never tried it before, but I had him get almost upside down for me, so I could make him ejaculate and Spurt his Cum right into his own mouth. He was very hesitant at first, but he knows better than question - anything I ask him to do⌠It was a little awkward for him, as heâs not exactly a small guy, but rather quite the muscular Virile Male - but once he was in position, I started fucking his sexy vulnerable ass  slowly  with my previously prepared  lubed up  Chrome Butt Plug - While Deftly Milking my Stud Muffins Magnificent 8" Cock - of Curved Perfection - at the same time⌠I had never before used my dildo type Butt Plug on him like this and he was  WELL.. Completely Shocked and Surprised (heâs such a manly man)âŚÂ After a few superb extraordinarily close edgings, I finally took him OVER the edge and I Made Him CumâŚ. His mouth was wide open as I instructed, probably because I was making his Long Anticipated (Cherished) Climax feel so Unbelievably Good⌠Nevertheless His Miraculous Manhood suddenly strained Impossibly Harder in my hand, and a moment later, a Huge Streaming Load of his Ejaculate  shot with astonishing force, right into his wide open mouth and hit the back of his throat⌠Oh My God, My Aim Was PERFECT⌠ It had been a long time since I had âAllowedâ him to Cum and I had âEdgedâ and Brewed him Daily, for two to three weeks, so his first explosive eruption was a whole lot of CumâŚÂ  His second squirt torpedoed again (almost instantly) - squarely into his mouth but his third pressurized load - some landed on his face and beard too. I Adjusted the trajectory, And His mouth quickly filled as he continued spurting and erupting in rapid succession⌠As he continually tried to swallow (as I instructed him to) - he began to choke on the sheer volume of sperm pudding filling his mouth⌠I never saw him Cum so Much as rope after rope Shot into his Obedient Open Mouth. I Was So Utterly Jealous⌠Anyways, He eventually swallowed it  ALL which made me Feel Very Dominant  and Happy that he was Obediently Recycling his own Healthy Testosterone as I CommandedâŚÂ In my mind I Knew I would never forget this, He had never CUM So Hard or So Much Before For MeâŚÂ        I guess the dildo up his sexy virgin ass, massaging his prostate somehow made all the difference⌠His Rock Hard (Vein Filled)  âThickâ  Monster Pulsing in my hand, Felt Harder than ever, as I leaned over and down to him and licked the remaining beads of salty sweet cum from his face and beard and then gave him a final kiss.. I then allowed and encouraged him to get up and lay upon the bed with the Butt Plug still buried fully in his adorable ass of course.
I was so Unbelievably Aroused and Wet ! ! !Â
NOW was the Perfect Time for his "Astute" (Covetous/Avid) Queen To Narcissistically Mount her Traumatized, Super Sized - Totally âDrainedâ -  BUT Extremely Horny (Viagra Enhanced) Stud MuffinâŚ, To Delight in a ROCK SOLID  âUltimateâ Multi-Orgasmic Ride of Whatever Duration I Chose â Something Which He would Usually be Unable to Endure for any Extended Length of  Time!!! But first I had to suck on and savor that scrumptious âstill oozingâ Cock of His AND Drain Him of Every Last DropâŚ
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Understanding Male Climax and Orgasm - is a very important aspect of a FLRâŚ, be it a D/s FLR or a Vanilla FLRâŚÂ Earlier Lessons touched on this subject for a vanilla FLR, and the importance of a woman habitually Denying her lover climax, until she is ready to Allow it. This short lesson is going to look deeper at his climaxes, and the different types of orgasms he is capable ofâŚÂ Â
Now that we understand the battle raging within him - between his ego, and his submissive desire - itâs time to understand how his precious arousal comes into playâŚÂ
Ego (narcissistic) driven arousal, tends to lead to a frustrated horny selfish maleâŚÂ Benevolent driven arousal and desire, tends to lead to a dedicated horny submissive male. And more often than not, he is somewhere between the twoâŚÂ Â
Ladies can use this information to their advantage and help train their doting lovers to satisfy their needs, by using his own arousal against him. There is a ancient tantric Hindu practice known as orgasm denial (or karezza), and itâs becoming once again an extremely common practice used in a modern FLR relationships worldwideâŚÂ Â
Male Orgasm Harnessing and Denial is a very powerful practice for enhancing the FLR/s aspect, and it is often the only kink many progressive couples ever venture into, because its so powerful for both of them, that they both find itâs all they needâŚÂ Â
As a FLR progresses, the woman is going to notice more and more, that when her Male has an ejaculatory orgasm, he always goes through a refractory period - his submissive desire and veneration of the woman drops off the map - he may not even want to be touched, his need for intimacy and snuggling disappears. His passion and devotion is gone, in a conventional relationship, itâs known as being spentâŚÂ Â
This total drop in libido, desire, passion, intimacy, and submission, is considered normal in western society, and it can take a male anywhere between 2 hours and a week, to fully recover. In a D/s FLR this is whatâs known as âsub dropâ and itâs important to be aware of because the unexpected change in the power dynamics directly after his explosive ejaculation, hits suddenly, and it can cause real emotional hardshipâŚÂ
So it is important that every woman is aware of this refractory period that he experiences and take it into account before She âAllowsâ  him to have a full release ejaculation⌠This way she can be nurturing and supportive of him, without being clueless, she can still be his leader, but the domination factor has to cool off temporarily because he wonât respond as well to itâŚ
The longer she decides to keep his orgasm harnessed, restrained and denied between full releases, the stronger his explosive ejaculations will be, and each cherished release will be mind blowing for him. However, keep in mind, more often than not, the stronger his Explosive Orgasm and Climax is, the longer the refractory period usually takesâŚÂ Â
He may notice, that on top of his libido and submission dropping away, he actually feels down, maybe even slightly depressed, empty, drained, as if he gave up or lost somethingâŚÂ All of his sexual energy and feelings will have disappeared, and the state of being remaining without his healthy libido, feels dull and boring. Â
This is why so many naturally submissive males eventually fall in love with being denied orgasm habitually, because as long as he is harnessed and denied, he never has to experience that Dopamine and Oxytocin level plunge and depressionâŚÂ He discovers, over time, that Orgasm Denial and Being Perpetually Horny, is a preferred state of being. He typically will not be able stay in that state due to his own weak will power, without her resolute management and assistance, and he knows it, thus creating a deep psychological NEED for her Innate Feminine Governance. Â
The Lady can and should work with this and exploit this, to cater to her own feminine needs, using his deepening submissive desire for her advantage, as he helplessly falls more and more in love with her as a resultâŚÂ Full release explosive orgasms are extremely pleasurable for him, and he will Always crave one, while also wishing to be deniedâŚÂ Â
This is the classic tug of war between his frustrated ego driven libido, and his dedicated (benevolent) submissive desire. This enables the astute Lady to offer him the possibility of a full releaseâŚ, perhapsâŚ, if he is GoodâŚ. It can be a lot of fun to play with this in a variety of ways through a D/s FLR.
If the woman (wanting whatâs best for the relationship) doesnât feel like giving him a full releaseâŚ, but still wants to play with him, tease him, and make him even more horny and frustrated, there are other kinds of subjugating type of orgasms she may give him. She understands, that by teasing him and KEEPING him in a state of âextremeâ arousal, his submissive desire towards her increases exponentially - As does her Sexual Power over him. So stimulating and teasing and making him as Hard as possible, As Long as Possible, As Often as Possible - Can be incredibly arousing for her as well, not to mention FunâŚÂ Â
A woman may ultimately decide to tie her guys hands to the bed, and simply be intoxicatingly sensual with him, by bringing him to the edge of orgasm over and over. She will learn a lot of things about him while doing this, including discovering that communication is more non-verbal than it is verbal as she watches and learns his body languageâŚÂ
She will begin to discover the signs his body makes, when he is getting extremely close to the edge⌠It can take a bit of practice to notice the subtle signs, such as, his abs tensing, or his breathing quickening, his toes may curl, his genitals will darken⌠Individual signs for each male. Â
As she gets to know these signs, she will develop a natural feminine intuition on when to stop stimulating himâŚÂ She can do this for as long as she likes and drive him utterly wild in horny frustration/pleasureâŚÂ If chastity play is involved in the FLR, she may decide to re-lock him in his cage without any release at all, making for a very submissive frustrated (subjugated) maleâŚ
If she does finally decide to give him a cherished release, she can give him whatâs known as a âruined orgasmâ. A ruined orgasm is one where she monitors his body very carefully, and allows him to go over the point of no return (just barely)âŚ. The point of no return is when ejaculation is going to happen, and thereâs nothing that can stop it. She can communicate with her submissive and have him tell her when he is getting close to this point. From there, she must read the signs, and instead of stimulating him over the edge, she brings him right to the edge, and then stimulates him just enough, to tip him over it⌠Frequent repetitive pauses are the keyâŚÂ Better to stop all stimulation 20 seconds too early - than 2 seconds too lateâŚÂ
If done correctly, there should be a few seconds delay, and then his oozing semen (a slow river) will gently begin to dribble out, giving him a libido boosting ruined orgasm. A ruined orgasm is So Much Less Pleasurable than a full release oneâŚÂ He will still feel it, but it will be more of a tease, like heâs about to have an orgasm, but he just canât quite make it happen. Â
Beneficially Afterwards, he will feel less pressure, he will feel a slight little bit of sexual release, but his general horny and submissive desires will remain beautifully intactâŚÂ His refractory period is significantly reduced If Not Eliminated Entirely. More often than not he will remain Rock Hard and grow paradoxically Larger after a Ruined Orgasm if heâs like my man. He will âStillâ have Orgasmed you may tell him, keeping the D/s FLR aspect fully intactâŚÂ
This is often the preferred method of orgasm for a male encumbered in an FLR, as he still gets a minimal amount of pleasure from it, while the woman has alot of female empowering fun, itâs very intimateâŚ
He is also capable of another kind of orgasm, but it requires a slightly more open minded or kinky D/s couple. All men have a prostate. The prostate is stimulated through anal access and play. For the more adventurous D/s FLR couples, anal play will likely become a normal experience. Â
Using toys such as a butt plug on a submissive male, can greatly increase his submissive tendencies and sexual arousalâŚÂ Since there is something penetrating him, he feels vulnerable, and vulnerability is always arousing to a true submissive. The feeling of being violated with every step, or the fullness feeling it brings him, humbles himâŚÂ Â
Butt plugs can often be used as a way of pleasurable punishment. The governing woman may decide to make him sleep with one in, or go to work with one, and there can be various sizes from comfortable to uncomfortable, giving her options. A butt plug or a strap on can both be used to stimulate the vulnerable male prostate.
If you train him to relaxe enough, he can experience a prostate orgasm through anal stimulationâŚÂ There are three different types of orgasms associated with stimulating the prostate. One of these orgasms, is commonly called the super-O, because it causes an ejaculatory orgasm with a far greater amount of semen than usual, since it drains the prostate entirelyâŚÂ Â
This type of orgasm will drain him completely, and sometimes the refractory period from this orgasm, is lesser than a regular full release, because his prostate often radiates pleasure through his entire body, leaving him with a body high.Â
A super-O is typically done with joystick stimulation, after his prostate has been stimulated into pleasurable sensations. It can take a while for the prostate to feel pleasurable from your gentle stimulation, typically he needs to be reminded to relax and let it happen, putting him into a very submissive stateâŚÂ Â
His erection may disappear for a while or it may grow even larger and harder, but once the prostate pleasure starts it will nevertheless come back. If both his raging cock and his prostate are stimulated simultaneously just right, his gushing climax can deliver out of this world shattering orgasms⌠Your Boy Toy I would imagine would have to be a very good submissive for you to give him one of theseâŚ
The second type of prostate orgasm, is a dry one. These advanced frustrating orgasms can also be very intense, but since there is no erect penis stimulation at all, there is no refractory period, and no semen. These orgasms typically come from the acceptance of being humbled by.., being taken from behind with a woman with a strap on dildoâŚÂ Â
His acceptance of the power exchange, and surrendering completely to his Woman while being taken by her from behind âŚÂ This can often become a new sexual experience for him, and he can begin to accept a dry prostate orgasms as a prerequisite for a regular full release, especially when a full release is rareâŚÂ Â
She may decide to take him this way at any time, and since he is kept in a submissive state, fueled by his own arousal. He will learn to be quite happy to submit to her for this, even if it makes him feel vulnerable, the D/s dynamics here can be played with to a variety of degrees. Â
In one degree, it could be a way of cleverly and beneficially draining him âbefore mounting him - for prolonged penetrative intercourseâ, in another degree, she could simply become a strict femdom mistress⌠It all depends on her style, mood or preference as mentioned in a previous lesson.
The third type of prostate orgasm, is whatâs known on the internet, as a sissygasm. This type of orgasm requires direct anal stimulation of the prostate, repetitively, with no stimulation of the penis whatsoever, until the prostate releases its fluids and he ejaculates âhands freeâ. More Often than not, this is done with him locked up - wearing a chastity device the entire time - keeping him in a proper submissive state all the way through it, even if he drops his libido for a while. Be assured, his submissive desire will be more powerful than his ego, and heâll remain vulnerably submissive even without libidoâŚÂ Â
Prostate orgasm however is typically for more advanced D/s FLRs, and many Dominant Women never feel the need to go this far⌠But it can be comforting for the novice woman to know, that as the FLR relationship progresses, there are different kinds of male orgasms she can give him, that suit their relationship, and her style as she evolvesâŚ
Lastly, there is a way to drain his sperm/ejaculate without an orgasm at all. This is known as âmilkingâ. If a dominant woman wishes to deny her perpetually horny stud muffin for an extended period of time, without giving him any orgasmic release whatsoever, she can still keep him healthy (and finely tuned) through milking himâŚÂ This will drain his sexual fluids, taking a just bit of the pressure off, BUT there will be Absolutely No Refractory Period, and his priceless submission and libido will remain Fully IntactâŚÂ
To milk him, the prostate must be stimulated in a very specific way, and the first time can take a little while, but it will get easier with him, especially if his prostate is Full due to brewing sessions of (female empowering) interminable edging. The woman can use her lubed finger, or a smaller dildo, to gently apply pressure on the prostate, and totally ignore his helplessly engorging Penis. Since there is little friction, and only gentle pressure, there is no pleasure⌠It may in fact be uncomfortable to him, and he will feel like he needs to peeâŚÂ Â
Depending upon each unique male, fluid will begin to drip out of his flaccid or semi erect penis and the Domme can continue this until he is âbone dryâ. There should be no pain, and no pleasure, just a light discomfort sensation of being drained⌠AND Then his Libido Building (subjugating)Tease and Denial ContinuesâŚ
Orgasm control, and orgasm harnessing (denial), can be a huge aspect of a D/s FLR. The amount of power it gives her, the level of submission it takes him into, can be an incredible aspect between them. Determining what he gets, when he gets it, and experimenting with it in the process is what makes FLR so much fun and intimate. Â
It can often be the only kink necessary, there often isnât a need for anything beyond it, because it can be that fulfilling and exciting for both partners. Especially when his subordinate orgasm is entirely based on the quality of orgasms he gives her⌠It makes for a dedicated submissive to her pleasureâŚÂ Â
In the end, her pleasure and felicity will be his focus, and she can bring him so deep into submission and servility, that he will actually be able to FEEL her Orgasms, through his hyper sensitive receptive body. She NOW orgasms for the both of them. Known as a tantric orgasm, the ultimate orgasm of an FLRâŚÂ The D/s dynamics can get that interesting!
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