LILITH ASPECTS(deep dive)
i see somewhere that people who are lilith dominant have trauma when it comes to being accused of things
and it’s really true depending on what it’s aspecting it can show where things like this take place
mars-lilith in men or women can show accusation when it comes sex or doing things society deem as immoral like stealing from somebody
you could b doing literally nothing and someone will project that lilith on you and make you villain no matter how nice your being
you could be a virgin and someone would assume your a slut
these projections don’t come from nowhere though sometimes the mars lilith people are like this
some can do whatever they want and not care about consequences, stealing, having sex with others partners etc
this mostly happens because these things happened to them, since this happened to them they want to gain a sense of control by doing it back to other people
when they were younger they were most likely a wild child but the people around them thought it was too much so they had to get forced to suppress that side of them
repressing their sexuality, getting in trouble for exploring their sexuality or being open about it especially early on
these people can b drawn to taboo sexual experiences and taboo things, if someone tell them not to do something they’re most likely going to do it
because they don’t like people threatening their independence in any way(mostly with the hard aspects)
no matter how bad something may seem to society they don’t care they just care about what they want to do not what people want them to do they want don’t want to conform to others expectations
may either b too honest about their motivations that it comes off as too much or they keep everything inside( i see this mostly with mars opposite lilith)
mars opposite lilith tend to make the person scared to be lilith they can come off as reserved when it comes to mars things but internally they can be lilith
it can go the other way too that they identify more with lilith that people are scared by it
mars trine lilith tend to be the ones who don’t care and will express their desire and go after what they want without anything holding them back because they’re comfortable with lilith not fighting it
venus lilith aspects are very interesting especially for women
people with these can have people admire them and want them but never get approached like at all
when they do get approached or or people get a attracted to them it can be very creepy people
you could be a minor and older men or women can hit on you and even try to get with you
these people can criticized for literally anything when it comes to their appearance
they can be so magnetic and attractive to others that other put them down and humble them for literally existing
people who are attracted to you can hate you for how you make them feel it can make them feel out of control and that you have control over them
most of the time the people who are in your face hating are the ones wanting to be like you or want you
you attract love hate relationships
i see men with this aspect who wants a girl who is open sexually and very wild but then gets mad at them for being like that at the same times(with hard aspects)
they tend to want questionable people like other people can be very bewildered by the people you want
men from my experience tend to want girl who are hoes and everyone knows but they still feel drawn to them because they’re free and wild with the easy aspects they may be more ok with it but with the hard aspects they definitely hate their type
they want that but when they get it they get conflicted
women with this can be seen as a bad bitch or be intimidating to men and other women because their confidence in their femininity
women with this tend to post revealing picture of themselves and have no shame and don’t care
or it can be the complete opposite and want to no skin showing whatsoever because of trauma
people with this can get accused of stealing others partner or wanting others partners
this can be the case some of the time they could get intrigued by things that are forbidden and they aren’t supposed to be desiring
men with this i see tend to have a fixation on taking other men’s girls or taking pride in it
they can b too independent where they don’t even need their partner no matter how much they love them
can tell themselves that they don’t need others love and that self love is the only thing that matters
partners and people attracted to them being jealous and wanting to tame them
people being attracted to you while they’re in a relationship
something i seen was a man with Venus trine lilith and his partner who’s a venus square lilith and when he met her she was already posting these revealing pictures of herself on insta and he still wanted her but when they got into a relationship she continued to do this and he eventually got a problem with it even though he was attracted to that at first
mercury-lilith aspects are very interesting these people don’t sugarcoat for anything at all they always tell the brutal truth
no matter how much it hurts other people
before those people even open their mouth they can be shut off because their words have so much power
people can twist their words and accuse them of saying things they never said
could’ve exiled or got in trouble for speaking their mind
trauma around speaking their mind, which can make them always speak their mind or wanting to always be silent and keep it to themselves
these people can be very smart because they look for everything not just things that are nice and pleasant
will look for truth no matter how much pain it causes them
shame around communication overthinking whether they should say something or to just let go and say what comes natural to them
the easy aspects tend to have no problem speaking their mind no matter the circumstances
the hard aspects have problems and conflict with that and need to learn they shouldn’t be ashamed of anything they say because their words are powerful and cause change
communication style can be intimidating because they’re always challenging others ideas
mercury-lilith hard aspects tend to cuss a lot and not like that about themselves but they continue to do so
people not wanting to talk to you because of your communication style and you might realize why people are acting weird towards you but it’s because they can’t handle the energy and think it’s too much
you could’ve expressed yourself and people told you that your annoying or too much
this caused you to stop expressing yourself
or to over express yourself that it’s too much for people
you could be yourself and people think your mean or that you don’t like them
always trying to rebel against things people are doing
you can be very unique because you refuse to be like the crowd
this can cause you ti be outcasted and isolated
you prefer that compress ti being something your not in fitting in
these people can be way too authentic for others they can have no shame which is good thing but when your fully authentic people are going to hate you or love you which is at at play here
hard aspects could have trouble with their natural sexual identity if they don’t accept that about themselves other people will project that onto them
people would project bad things onto you if your not acting as lilith when it’s in opposition
people can make you the villain no matter what you do
it can make you just be ok with being the villain because that’s all people wanted to make you so it’s no escaping
(don’t have much experience with the asc and moon aspects)
