Sextrology Series- Part 1
Mars and sexual behaviours/ desires
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Mars in 1st house: These people can be very possessive in general, but when it comes to sex, that feeling is heightened a lot more. They prefer positions where they are the ones in control and can hold their partner's body. You can be on top, but that doesn't matter because they will be the ones controlling the pace and the pressure. Never-ending stamina in bed, will keep on going for rounds after rounds, can keep you up all night long. If a man has this, you will never have to worry about him only lasting for like 2-3 minutes. Honestly.....never met an asexual who had this....soooo.....connect the dots. They like to enjoy sex, and sexual compatibility will definitely be a priority in relationships. The day they start seeing sex as something that they need to do rather than something that they want to do is the day they'll end the relationship. They are CLINGY, constantly being held, kissed, and having physical contact is something you will experience if you're with them. They will expect the same from you as well and WILL get sulky if you say "please, not now, I am busy"....cuz like....HOW DARE YOU??? Really good sexual partners, especially if mars is unafflicted. Women with this should NEVER marry someone with low libido, it's gonna lead to a lot of frustration and anger.
Actions- grabbing your face with one hand and kissing, "fuck me" eyes in public spaces, shirt grabbing, lip biting, hickeys (LOTS OF THEM), and hands going under the shirt VERY quickly after kissing, they also love receiving Cunnilingus or Fellatio (that's the way to their.... heart)
Mars in 2nd house: You thought mars in 1st was aggressive, try fucking someone with THIS placement. They are possessive too but in a more bdsm manner; blindfolding, tying you up with a FUCKING ROPE, restricting your movements by using a physical object, spanking you if you don't do as they say....yuupp, right up their alley. They are AGGRESSIVE, especially the men, and can be rougher than average. I have noticed that they hide it really well though, its like, they know its not socially acceptable so they act like they're vanilla, but then once they've had sex with their partner at least 5-6 times, they will either start to talk about the taboo stuff that they're into or they will just gradually start incorporating it into whenever you guys have sex. Women with this often spend their entire life not realising that "normal" sex doesn't do it for them. They might think that sex just isn't for them because a man holding the reins during sex just.....does not do it for them. So, whether or not they're good really depends on how comfortable they are with themselves. If they're in denial about what they enjoy and like, they can really end up hurting their partners, but if they are accepting of their desires, then they'll be the best sex you'll ever have.
Actions- waist grabbing, hands on your back, face cupping, kissing you in front of your other admirers, and sex in expensive lingerie, neck can be a hot spot, the moment you bury your face in their neck or kiss them on the crook, you'll literally see them MELT
Mars in 3rd house: So, with this...you really gotta train these people. Their heart will be in the right place, but their fingers and tongue won't. The good thing is, they are REALLY willing to put in the work and learn what their partner wants and then please them in that manner. People who know about their body, what turns them on, and what makes them orgasm are the best fit for these people. On the other hand, if you are a virgin, stay away, not because they are bad or selfish or anything but rather because their performance in bed depends on how much and how well their partner communicates their needs and wants. These people are not inherently good at sex but they are really sweet and considerate, and WILL listen to you, and that is the only thing that matters. If you are a woman with mars in 2nd, then a partner with mars in 3rd is gonna be perfect for you, because they won't ever make you feel embarrassed for wanting things that are "different". They are like an excited puppy in bed; will take the initiative and will do their best to please you. Got those puppy eyes with 45-degree tilt mastered too.
Actions- kneeling in front of you, tiny kisses all over your face and body, sex in a spooning position, and sex with the lights off (....just something that I have heard from them), kiss them in the middle of an argument, JUST TRUST ME ON THAT ONE OKAY, they'll love interlocking fingers during any kind of intimate act
Mars in the 4th house: I found this in many books and in my personal research, but these people are HAWT. They are considered conventionally attractive and are commonly listed as having the highest sex appeal; Beyoncé, Halle Berry, and Megan Thee Stallion are some women with this placement. They love appearing sexy, have extremely high stamina, and an even higher libido. They will always be ready to GO AT IT. They are sex gods, that's literally it. Even though this is the natural debilitation house for mars, it is good when it comes to sex because these people are really able to form a deep bond with their partner during sex. They are the masters in understanding each moan, look, breath, clench that their partner does during sex, will know when to change positions, when to go slow, when to be rough, when to hold, and when to let the partner hold. They are great partners in bed BUT this placement can cause some....dissatisfaction in married life, especially for women, so choose your partner VERY carefully. Also, the men with this can be a tad bit selfish in bed, so if you are a straight woman, make the man do things first and then reciprocate accordingly, get eaten and then eat.
Actions- wet kisses, licking, biting, can be very much into using toys during sex, will make sure that you are completely lubricated before getting it on, and will love shower sex, pool sex.....water sex in general, this is also like....the "attracted to milf or dilf" placement
Mars in the 5th house: These people love sex and telling people that they love sex. If mars is unafflicted, then their relationship with sex will be pretty positive. They know what they want and how to get it. They'll be the ones to initiate sexual contact with their partners, but despite that, once the action actually starts, they take the back seat and let their partners do the heavy lifting, but it's fine because they manage to find partners who are more than okay with this kind of dynamic. If you work in a creative field, they'll let you hit, that's literally their only criteria. I know like....7 people with this and idk how, but they ALWAYS manage to find some aspiring actor or musician to fuck, it's actually pretty insane to me. I have nothing to say though, get that rhythmic genitalia ig... Oh and they are also super submissive in bed, and if you're more sexually confident than they are, then you can get them to do almost ANYTHING. They can also have a thing for exhibitionism...do what you want with that information. These people are also very sexually expressive, I feel like people often interchange shy and submissive, so I wanna emphasize that they are submissive, NOT SHY.
Actions- riding you in the car, engaging in extreme sexual teasing in public spaces, and sex in places where there might be a chance of getting caught, they love that shit, it turns them on so fucking much, acting all oblivious while saying the DIRTIEST and HORNIEST shit ever, women can be more into missionary while men can be more into reverse cow girl
Mars in the 6th house: These people may not be all that interested in having sex, they may view sex as an activity that they need to do because their partner likes it and not because of their personal interest in it. This can be an indicator of asexuality. They may also be more interested in kissing and cuddling rather than sex....I know many people with this and they are okay with almost everything except penetration. Because they, themselves, don't view sex as an enjoyable activity, they are not that willing to put in the effort to please their partner either, and I, personally, don't see anything wrong with that because they don't expect you to reciprocate. This is the placement that gets the most along with other people who are also not that interested in sex. They are not selfish partners; it's just a matter of incompatibility. The indifference towards sex is seen more commonly in women who have this and you gotta understand that a lot of it comes from the different ways in which both genders are socialised.
Actions- cuddling and holding their partner close is more their jam, they might also like just lying down in bed naked but not doing anything, more like just....being in each others' presence, scents can be a huge turn on, dark lights, sensory deprivation
Mars in the 7th house: Its not really considered to be a positive placement but Imo, Its good for casual sex but not good for committed relationships. These people have an extremely high libido and will love having sex, experimenting with different positions, kinks, and....people. I find them to be a little exhausting to be around because they will constantly argue with you, not because they disagree with you but rather because it turns them on SO FUCKING MUCH. If you're into that, totally cool, you'll love these people. I, personally, get a fucking migraine. They will be the dominant ones in bed, no questions asked, they will demand, and you will have to obey. If you're not into that, don't be with them, as simple as that. The good thing is that they're very generous in bed, but I feel like it's more of an ego thing rather than a "care about my partner" thing, it's like, they want their partner to tell them "you are the best I have ever had". I have also noticed that these people have a tendency to engage in extra-marital affairs, but it also depends a lot on the individual's upbringing and their personal values and ethics.
Actions- Angry sex, pulling hair, biting HARD, choking, rough sex, breeding kink, and can be very much into threesomes, doggy style
Mars in the 8th house: Yeah....this is NOT good, Mars is already an aggressive planet, and then you add the 8th house to the mixture and you get someone who can be somewhat of a sex addict. It's more likely to happen if mars is afflicted by rahu or mercury, if it's being aspected by jupiter or moon, then it lowers that energy down. They might have started to masturbate quite early in life, and will love watching their partners pleasure themselves in front of them. They like sex that is dirty and messy. Men with this often engage in stealthing, from what I have seen, but it also has more to do with men being shitty in general rather than JUST this placement. They can be okayish partners in bed, will take care of their own pleasure first and then, if their partner asks, will pleasure them too and if not....they would rather just go to sleep. These people can also have the madonna-whore complex; it's like, they will engage in occasional vanilla sex with their spouse, but then express their taboo desires to only their side-pieces. They are actually not as open as people think they are, they like to give off a "clean" image.
Actions- Wax play, mirror sex, causing pleasurable pain, brat taming, and sex that makes you feel embarrassed afterwards (not the bad kind, more like a "omg, I can't believe I did THAT" kind), can orgasm VERY quickly (especially men)
Mars in the 9th house: This has got to be my favourite placement, with how responsible and mature these people are regarding sexual relationships. For them, sex is not something that motivates them to be in a relationship or maintain an already existing one. They're similar to this...another placement that I talked about, they don't love sex but they will do it if their partner wants to do it. But unlike 6th house, they will actually make an effort to understand and please their partner, and they would expect to be pleased in return too; it's not a "lying there" situation. They LIKE sex, but it's not a priority for them, and they're only able to truly enjoy sex once they form a deep emotional connection with their partner. All my friends with this are SO SHY when talking about sex, like there is one group of people that's like "they ate me out, moved around their tongue *graphic explanation* like that" and there is another group that is like "yeah....we did....stuff", mars in 9th house is the latter. They are great partners in bed, especially once they let their guard down (which takes TIME). Not the type to initiate stuff but if you do it, they're gonna PERFORM.
Actions- Vanilla sex, soft kisses, hands around your neck or waist, big on aftercare, would like their partner to guide them, they would LOVE it if you grab their thighs or like...just rub them in a seductive manner, lift them up by their thighs, kiss them on the inner part of their thighs
Mars in the 10th house: these people are really hardworking and that definitely spills over in sex as well. They'll be very conscious of their performance and that anxiety can actually sometimes end up turning them off, but that's rare. They'll look at their partner's face after every touch to understand whether they like it or not and then go by that. Men with this placement may watch a lot of porn and (WHICH I DO NOT SUPPORT), their understanding of sex may come from that. But from what I have noticed, they're usually willing to change if their partner is firm enough. If you stay silent, they're gonna keep on doing what THEY think you like. They're similar to mars in 7th in that they too want to be the "best" their partner has ever had. They get high on praise and love hearing their partners moan and grab their hair and stuff, basically anything that lets them know that you're enjoying whatever they're doing to you. Women with this are usually more mindful than men with this. Men can have a tendency to go HARD and rough when it comes to penetration. Have A LOT of stamina and can keep going all night long.....all day too.
Actions- positions where they are on the top, doing it in public spaces, doing it while standing against a wall, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, HUGE on role-playing where they are in a position of power and you are someone who has no choice but to have sex with them (boss-employee, professor - student, police-thief)
Mars in the 11th house: these people try to act like they don't care about sex that much but in their mind, they've already had sex a lot of times. You know, the people who don't admit when they have a crush on someone but then at night they probably touch themselves while thinking of their crush, yeah that kind. It's pretty hard to figure out what they like in bed because they aren't that vocal about it. You may only come to know what they like once you actually sleep with them. When a woman has this, people might assume that she's asexual or very innocent and traditional when it comes to sex and they may act like that too, but when a man has this, he may act like he's not like other men, "other men are obsessed with only sex, but not me, I want something deeper" but dw, that's not true, it's all an attempt to seem mysterious. This placement is kind of confusing and the sign in which mars is in can give more of an idea about what these people like and expect in bed.
Actions- everything bdsm, like....using all the tools that were there in 50 shades of grey, specific kinks will HIGHLY depend on the sign in which mars is in.
Mars in the 12th house: this one acts similarly to mercury in 12th, but instead of their thoughts, it's their desires that are hidden and what they find difficult to express. These people don't understand their own sexuality at times. They may have some confusion as to what they TRULY want. If mars is strong in this house, they will be open to experimenting to find out what suits them the best. But if the mars is weak in this house, then it can either result in hypersexuality or a fear of sexual acts and sexual intimacy. They may also think that their kinks are "weird" or that they may never find someone to experience them with. I have noticed that their kinks are actually not that weird, it's more like their own fear stops them from fully expressing what they want. They can be somewhat selfish in bed but it's more because they get soo immersed in their "feelings" that they forget that there is a person with them who they also need to pay attention to. That selfishness is not a result of a malicious intent. Women with this can often have this guilty feeling in regards to sex; like they are wrong for wanting a certain kind of partner or for enjoying sex and stuff.
Actions- bondage, role playing, blindfolded sex, kissing and having quickies in dark and isolated spaces, stealing kisses in dark public spaces can be a huge turn on
Mars in Aries- intense and frequent desire for sexual activity, usually enjoys sex
Mars in Taurus- they understand how to create a mutually pleasurable, safe, and fulfilling experience
Mars in Gemini- can have a low libido, may require a lot of time and foreplay to get aroused
Mars in cancer- a high libido but easy to please. Can get angry very easily but will quickly give in once you kiss them or...start touching them
Mars in Leo- can be somewhat selfish in bed and manipulate their partners to get what they want. High stamina.
Mars in Virgo- FREAKIEST mars sign, will be down for literally ANYTHING but has low stamina and gets exhausted very easily, needs rest between rounds
Mars in Libra- very passionate and believes in fair give and take during sex but will rarely initiate
Mars in Scorpio- likes role playing "forbidden love" tropes, foreplay is way more important than the actual act of having sex
Mars in Sagittarius- uses a lot of terms during sex....I can't give examples....it's making me cringe...my...dirty...slut.... something.... something, figure it out
Mars in Capricorn- hard to please when it comes to sex, lowkey selfish...depends on the other placements too
Mars in Aquarius- they're able to fulfill all their partner's expectations, can themselves be often disappointed with sex but their partners always leave satisfied
Mars in Pisces- known for having 2 families, act like they're very moral and ethical but then.....their actions say something else 👀
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