big 3 placements and what it says about your parents
look for signs prominent in your chart/big 3 (esp moon & rising) to see what it may say about your family. disclaimer that most of the stuff on this post is more on the negative side but of course, the positive side exists. however, astrology deals with past life and karma, showing places you need to learn and grow in this lifetime.Ā
aries: people with aries placements lacked leadership from their parents as a child. nobody put them on the path they wereĀ āsupposedā to go on so they had to find their own way and fight for themselves. emotions are quick. parents were mellow and hard to grab attention from so they seek partners who are aggressive and hard to pin down.Ā
taurus: taurus placements lacked parents that took responsibility. perhaps they always felt stressed about their financial stability growing up and now either have a strong need to save or a bad habit of spending. there was a lack of comfort from the parents so taurus is always seeking comfort, especially from future partners.Ā
gemini: parents were immature. geminis had to look for their own information and come to their own conclusions. may often have felt like they were the ones parenting. parents over-intellectualized situations so gemini learns to be emotionally unavailable.Ā
cancer: parents may have good at guilt-tripping/emotional manipulation. parents were needy. parents may have been overprotective. the bond with the mother in the past-life is strong- so there is no realĀ āescapeā from the mother in this life, so they also seek partners who are motherly.Ā
leo: leo had parents who tend to make things about themselves. life may have often been unpredictable and chaotic. because parents were focused on the outside of things, leo suffered a lot of criticism when they wanted to be themselves, and they turn to others to be proud of them.Ā
virgo: virgos had parents who were overly critical. they wanted things to present in a perfect way. parents could never do any wrong, it would always be a mistake, but when virgo did it, they got in trouble. parents picked favorites, but so did virgo. they seek partners that they canĀ āfixā as they couldnāt criticize their parents back.Ā
libra: libra had parents who were overly aggressive and butt heads a lot, and perhaps tried to drag libra into it. libra had to learn to be the peacemaker and became indecisive in fear of not pleasing everybody at once. they seek relationships where they are the ones compromising but pull out of the relationship easily as well.Ā Ā
scorpio: scorpio came into this world as their parentsā big transformation in their life. parents struggled with intimacy, trust, and power control problems. the scorpio child absorbed much of the pain from their parents. scorpio ends up seeking intense bonds with others, they seek people who can give them the intimacy but they donāt give it back in order to remain in control.Ā
sagittarius: parents always seemed to need space. parents perhaps had strong beliefs and the child eventually learns to think for themselves whether those beliefs need to apply to them. parents were unstable, so sagittarius is flaky. sagittarius seeks partners who are grounded but pull away when they feel their freedom is threatened.
capricorn: capricorn is the child for the parents dealing with their own past/present karma. capricorn learns to guard their emotions closely as there may have been punishment for being open. parents have high standards so they strive to be successful and are afraid of failure in all aspects, including love.
aquarius: aquarius brought their parents out of the their comfort zone. the love received is conditional and never seems to follow the same pattern, so aquarius becomes inconsistent and also detached when others seem to get too close.Ā
pisces: pisces placements had parents who were heavy escapist people. the child was not often a high priority, but without knowing better, saw their parents with rose-colored glasses. they seek people like their parents in hopes of fixing them.Ā
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